What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

When my girlfriend and I have sex. I only last a few minutes, then i ejaculate and lose my libido HELP!!!

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I know of one technique you can try, it would be easier if there was someone to do it to you but you can probably do it yourself.
The idea is to bring yourself close to climax and then stop and apply pressure with you thumb or finger to the penis just below the glans on the underside of the shaft. This should stop orgasm. Repeat this exercise a few times per session, either during masturbation or with your girlfriend. If the two of you can talk about this then you can actually make it fun, part of your lovemaking.
Eventually you should learn to have a bit more control, and things will last longer. Have fun with it though, it`s a common problem and will not last forever.

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condoms umm i don-t know how to say thins but contact a doctor

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go to a adult store and get a ring.. it fit over the base of your thing.. and it should do the trick.. but remeber most men only last a few second to a minute.. i ask my ex sister in law that question and she was prosititue when she was young and that is what she told me

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

I-ve been using this technique for several months on daily basis for about 20min to 45min. I would masturbate until I am near the point of no return then stop and start again. Its very hard for me to not ejaculate during practice/masturbation, but I can make it through the session if I focus very hard. Sometimes I ejaculate a bit, but then can keep going. However I feel I am not making any progress anymore and it does not translate to longer sex in the bedroom with my partner.

When I don-t have sex for a few days, I can last maybe 30seconds. With masturbation and practice I can perhaps do 2min of light sex. Will I ever get 5 -10min of strong solid thrusting/sex? Sometimes I can last 5-10min if I wait 4-5hrs after the first short session, but my partner hates this. She wants me to perform on demand. This problem brought me so much sadness. BTW I-m 32 and start having sex at 30. The only way I can have good sex is with medication, which I don-t want to rely on anymore. I do have a bigger than normal size penis and wonder if my glands are larger than normal.
Thanks

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Stop and start won-t cure you but it will teach you how to control it, and the practice is so much fun. Your dick size doesn-t mean anything.

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Have you tried to make your pubococcygeus muscle stronger? Many men have a weak one. I know I did. Kegels might really help you. Look at
http://kegelcoach.com/
and see if it helps you too. I had lousy control but turned it around. Weak muscles don-t perform well.

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It-s all in your head, learn to control your emotions.

Your like a horse procreating. Think about it.

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damn man you really need to speak with a doctor...

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well technique can play a role. while thrusting try to stay relaxed and keep ur mind off ur partners body e.g massive ****, **** u no all dat stuff. keep ur mind of it and keep goin after u feel ur partner is fully in her orgasm and broken a sweat grabb her boobs/ **** and go crazy. this is something u ant do the first time u-ve had sex u cnt keep ur mind off her. but after a few times u should be able to block out that voice in ur mond that tells u to go madd. keep ur mind off her and keep goin. try oral with her b4 u start gives her a head start of finger her untill she the point that she squirts den stop. after dat u thrust for bout 3 min straight and they go madd.

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -