Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Is it useful or harmful for health to try to avoid orgasm amp; prevent ejaculation while having sex? -

Is it useful or harmful for health to try to avoid orgasm amp; prevent ejaculation while having sex? -

Is it useful or harmful for health to try to avoid orgasm - prevent ejaculation while having sex or masturbating? I heared very different things like it is good for your health trying to enjoy sex or masturbation whithout letting an orgasm occur or reaching ejac. cuz it will save you energy. I also heared that it can be very harmful for your health not to ejaculate when you feel you want to or you are in the middle of sex. I just don-t know which one is more accurate?!?!


The best answer to your question just is in the purpose and utility of the masturbation.
We all carry out masturbation because have to give vent to our sexual craving, to satisfy our lust and put down stress. Masturbation gets its apex and conclusion in the ejaculation (corresponding to the orgasm time), therefore without ejaculation the purpose/utility of the masturbation runs out!
Without ejaculating, our craving or lust never will be satisfied. With no ejaculation the masturbation becomes a left undone act!!
It’s okay to try to defer or prolong the act so that the pleasure will last longer..... but please, don’t forget that if ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion called the “blue balls” condition.
Energy you mention isn’t so important.... sometimes to have the max stamina (in the sport, for instance) it’s not advisable to masturbate every day. OK?
It depends. If you just use various techniques to delay ejaculation, I don-t think you-ll have any problems if you ejaculate when you-re finished. I read that if you forcefully hold it back (like by pinching the base of your penis), it can cause problems. I don-t know what is right, but I really doubt you-ll have any problems if you hold it back without your hands and let go when you can-t hold it anymore. Good luck!
Surely the whole point of the exercise is to enjoy orgasm and ejaculation? to do anything else is DECIDEDLY weird.

It-s only polite to wait till the lady has had some pleasure too, of course.

Your question is actually quite ignorant.
I DO IT ALL THE time and i am 57
no its good if trying to stop pr ejaculation
The whole point of sex is to ejaculate!

Dont hold back when the feeling is strong and you gotta let go just do it!

Be even better if woman does it same time as you do!

Have fun and dont hold back!
You are not going to benefit your health in any way by holding back an orgasm, either during sex or during masturbation.In fact,I would say it wasn-t good for you,and could lead to you being very frustrated.An orgasm is the best feeling a person can get,why begrudge yourself that.The only thing I will say is,having that amount of control over your orgasm is a good thing, only in that, when your with a partner who, may take longer than you to reach orgasm,by you being able to control yours, you can both enjoy the pleasure.Afterall,sex is a two way street you know,which a lot of men forget. So just for us girls,try and educate all your male friends as to the art of control,and then there will be even more happy girls out there enjoying the pleasure or orgasm,as you should be.And as for energy,I promise you-ll be just as energetic.Go for it babe.
your balls will swell and your prostate as well.
you must know that pleasure is like chili pepers.
we enjoy them the first day but they hurt our bum the next day.
Orgasm and Ejaculation are two separate items. For years i have practiced ejaculation control. Because of the practice and consistency i can now have several orgasms (that-s right a male who is multi-orgasmic) during a single session of sex. While these orgasms are not as strong as an ejaculatory orgasm, having three to six in one session is very gratifying. An added side bonus is when you do finally ejaculate, your semen volume is much higher. Every time you excite yourself then allow a small cool down before continuing you send impulses to your testicles causing them to make more ejaculate fluid. prolonging sex and avoiding ejaculating will have NO negative effect on your health, in fact there are many religions/philosophies that encourage the man to control this aspect of his sexual life.
Is it useful or harmful for health to try to avoid orgasm amp; prevent ejaculation while having sex? -

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Am I Having Delayed Ejaculation Problems? -

Am I Having Delayed Ejaculation Problems? -

I-m 16 years old, and last night, me and my girlfriend were having some intercourse, we didnt have sex, but the closest thing ( you can pretty much figure that out) and she said she got off 4 times in an hour and a half, and i didnt even get off once.. im proud that i can last that long, but im not sure if its a problem since i am a virgin, and shes not.. any suggestions or answers as to what the cause could be, or is it just that ive got delayed ejaculation problems..
either your girl has some strong going power, or she-s yanking your chain (and not in a good way.) she might have thought that, since you were unable to ejaculate, your nerves must be shot; therefore, she may have exaggerated a bit. but don-t take my word for it! i wasn-t there, i-m not her, and our bodies all respond differently.

if this is NOT the case, then try to think about your performance. did you recently masturbate prior to doing the deed? were you nervous? did she turn you on? did you drink any alcohol? take any drug-related stimulants? there are many things to consider when a boy has an ejaculation problem. speak to your doctor, and he can explain these things to you more in depth. good luck. and remember... be safe.
I-m guessing you were fingering here and she was giving you a hand job. But anyways, I don-t think what you-re talking about is called delayed ejaculation.

If this was one of the first times doing this with each other, it could of been nerves that was preventing you from ejaculating. Either that or she wasn-t doing it right.

If you have ever masturbated, show her how to do it on you so you can get off like she can.

Good luck!
It is okay. Never worry. Enjoy better time in sex.
Na, since you didnt have sex that why you didnt ejaculate
Am I Having Delayed Ejaculation Problems? -