Premature ejaculation problem....? -
hey guys. Me and my boyfriend are having a little problem in the bedroom.Recently, he hasn-t been lasting too long. I mean in the 1-2 minute range. I love him to death, and hate to see this most of all because he is so frustrated by it, but also because I-d like a little pleasure every now and then....
My girlfriend suggested him to be a -cunning linguist- if you catch my drift, and I enjoy it....but i can-t get off that way.
Anyway, he-s to embarrassed to ask a doctor, so what would you guys suggest???
Katy...
I feel your boyfriend-s pain...i used to be a -minute man- myself. Everyone posted some good responses...but is it realistic to have the luxury of jerking it an hour before everytime you want to have sex??? i didn-t ever have time for that....
I tried all those -kegel exercises- and even numbing condoms...they helped a little, but they were quick fixes.
I was frustrated so one day I set out on the internet to find the scientific causes of premature ejaculation. I found it occurs when certain chemicals are released. These chemicals can be held off if he controls three areas of his body: his thoughts, breathing and muscle tension, and lastly hormones. I know this sounds far out, but trust me, it helped me go from a minute to like 20 the first week after i started reading this stuff.
Tell him to check out this ebook by a some sex researcher. It-s linked on this blog:
http://lastallnightinbed.blogspot.com/
The ebook told me about the CAUSES of premature ejaculation, and how to fix them through exercises. It-s scientifically proven that the best way to get over a problem is to read about it and duplicate the steps given by someone who does not have the problem.
Anyway hope it helps. It worked like crazy for me.
Stop looking so damned sexy! Poor guy doesn-t have a chance, does he? Anyway I agree with the others, if he -takes care of buisness- for himself about an hour or so before you guys are ready to get it on I think he-ll be able to hold out a bit longer.
You can-t get off on oral? You-re the first girl I ever heard that from!
Hi,
U did not told about his age,- did not said about his addiction if any,In my own experience I used to control my ejaculation for 2 to 3
hours, believe me it-s true
How?- the simple method is stop making love when he feels he is coming,- start other sort of sexual acts I don-t think I need to say
all the details.It all depends on his age - addiction.
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masturbating before might help but also if he feels he-s gonna *** , make him stop and calm down while he teases you
i think u should tell him wen he goes to masterbate jerk the head and the ring of his penis it should help
search the web for some exerscies that he can do
e.g kegel exersices ..
wow tell him to jerk off before youhave sex it-ll be like10 minutes long
no hes right if he jacks off first he will last a lot longer
He has become comfortable and yet excited as well. in other words he knows what the out come will be in short order and there by is excited. It also is beginning to worry him that he doe snot last long.
You could both practice the Kegal-s in order to build up the floor muscles. It would be best to look it up but in short it is stopping the flow of urine in mid stream and then letting it go again. One can work on it other times and nobody knows you are doing it. Feels extra great when you are inside the woman, not sure how she feels but it is great.
Depends on how long you both last. You should try given him some pleasure first until he is done and then it will be your turn. He could give you more foreplay the linguist thing is great and most women love it yet only so much will do. Get some baby oil and have him give you a rub down. this way if he works all over your body getting you all relaxed and ready, when the moment is right you will be more than ready. Talk to him let him know you want touched here or there more when he has the right places let him know. he needs to learn what you like as well as you learn what he likes.
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