I think I have retarded/delayed ejaculation, what can I do? -

I think I have retarded/delayed ejaculation, what can I do? -

I masterbate regulary and have no troubles ejaculating on my own, but whenever I have sex and/or oral I get aroused and close to -finishing-, but I can never ejaculate.
My girlfriend gets down because she thinks it-s her fault and always asks why I can never finish, I have to finish myself off next to her which is embarising and it can take awhile.
This has happened with every one of my sexual experiences but I never thought it could be this, I only just found out about retarded/delayed ejaculation.

I-m only 17, and don-t think I can see a sex therapist, I need some advice as it makes me afraid to have sex because of embarisment and it makes my girlfriend down.

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I really think your problem is nothing to do with -retarded ejaculation- (I have never heard of that before), but is all to do with maturity.

Sex is not a general pastime, nor is it a casual fling. Sex really means having a commitment of some deep and meaningful sort with some other person. It used to happen only after marriage for the good reason that the marriage ceremony signified the commitment and responsibility aspects missing in our current society.

I think this is what you are suffering from: lack of maturity. You need to realise that sex is not a casual thing, but instead a very serious and significant event that you share with one partner (wife?) for all of your life. Perhaps when you realise this aspect of sex you will be able to deal with all the other issues you seem to be dragging along with you.

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Do you mean -retrograde- ejaculation (it doesn-t come out at orgasm, but later on)?

Delayed ejaculation is a big problem for those who suffer from it. You are only 17, so maybe this is nerves more than what will be normal for you. If it doesn-t go away, assure any partner that this is your problem and it has nothing to do with them. Also, you-ll have to work around your biology much like those with premature ejaculation.

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Retarded ejaculation? What the heck is that? Your semen shooting out and making a stupid and crazy noise like the voice of a retarded boy?

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you-re gay you ******

awkwardly ben affleck

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relax it will ***.

I think I have retarded/delayed ejaculation, what can I do? -

How to increase d time on having sex coz i m facing d prob of premature ejaculation n i can only 1-2 mins n i? -

How to increase d time on having sex coz i m facing d prob of premature ejaculation n i can only 1-2 mins n i? -

left wit being unable to satisfy my partner....plz suggest me a medicene to get rid of ....n stimulate sex...

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Chemicals will open the way on to death and disease....
Your egakulaisjon is related to pelvic floor exercise
Masters and Johnson have treated many men in relation to this problem.
A daily workout to control your muscular tissue in that area will give you enhanced -ohrjeastik- controls
Mantak chia and Michael winn wrote the book

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I use to have that kind of problem but now i-m enjoying it because i no longer have -premature ejaculation- i have -early- and then -later- ejaculation.

condition your mind, don-t let your instrument shrink when u ejaculate, just keep going, it comes all swollen again and you can keep it that way for another 10-15mins or when your girl just says she cant go on anymorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrre. Have fun.

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Trojan makes a condom called -extended pleasure- that uses -climax control lubricant.- It uses a mild amount of novicane (what they use to numb your mouth at the dentist). Start off slow, and in a couple minutes you will be a little numb, and it will last a lot longer, but it still feels really good.

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Big boy, think of your mum doing with you dad just as you feel your balls tingling!!That should keep you going for another 5-6 mins.

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Viagra? If you don-t want to go that route, go and see your doctor for some kind of pill or something.

How to increase d time on having sex coz i m facing d prob of premature ejaculation n i can only 1-2 mins n i? -

Is there any techniques on how to delay ejaculation? -

Is there any techniques on how to delay ejaculation? -

In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

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Get a book called Sexual Solutions by (urologist) Michael Castleman MD. Really good advice about all sorts of male sexual problems, including premature ejaculation. And the advice works.

Is there any techniques on how to delay ejaculation? -