Ejaculation Problems? -
I-m 14 and I-ve been having problems ejaculating for about a year now. I can reach an orgasm but I just can-t let out the semen. I-m not trying to hold it in but my penis automatically resists ejaculating. Even when I have nocturnal emissions the semen has a hard time coming out. After wards my urine is cloudy with semen. I have been reading about retrograde ejaculation and I am really starting to worry that it is the case. Is it even possible to have retrograde ejaculation at my age?Dear Bob:
I read your question and I really feel for you. having problems ejaculating can be very stressfull and scary, especially at 14 yrs. old. Usually the reasons for not being able to expel semen after reaching orgasm either through intercourse or manual stimulation is #1 phychological ( stress or anxiety in one-s life causing the problem ) or #2 as a side affect of a medication you might be taking.
If you don-t think it is stress or a side affect of a medication then it would be an actual physical problem and all physical problems with ejaculation needs to be seen by a doctor right away to figure out why your ejaculation is delayed. Even if you think it may be retrograde ejaculation you should still see a doctor due to your young age. You still have a full life ahead of you and it may be something he/she can fix.
Take a good inventory of yourself. Make sure that it is not caused by stress in your life ( like fear of being caught masturbating, sexual inadequacy, feelings of guilt during masturbation, etc....). If it is not that and you are not taking any medication then get to a doctor and get checked out. Don-t be scared cause this is more common then you think. It is not wrong or crazy that you masturbate, it is a normal part of growing up and exploring and learning about your body. Talk with someone you trust like your parents, and if you don-t feel right talking to them, find someone you can trust to talk to so they can help you bring it up to them.
Cause of your young age you will need them or another adult family member to get you to a doctor so you can get checked. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you and I would be scared as well if I had this happen to me at 14 but don-t worry. It will all work out. Feel free to e-mail me at mwalker63@hotmail.com if you have any more questions. I hope I was of some help. God bless you and good luck........ Mike
Try waiting a week between. It is possible that you have worn yourself down. Retrograde usually occurs when you have had a surgery or trauma to the urethra. It may also be possible that your body is not fully grown and it will change as you get a little older. Good luck.
Can be that you are a bit to young to really c@m already.When you masturbate:all part of puberty.
Soon you will come like every body else
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if its a long term problem then maybe you should go and see your GP and also try not to stress about it while your masturbating as your likely not to ejaculate because your stressing to much.
Why are you trying to ejaculate at 13? Don-t wack off so much... when you get a girl you may not even be able to get it up....
Like Hank Hill..you may have a narrow Urethra