Monday, June 16, 2008

How to prevent premature ejaculation? -

How to prevent premature ejaculation? -

practice masterbating, but before the -point of no return- (before you shoot) stop. wait till ya calm down a bit, and start again. repeat this as many times as you can before shooting. this will help you build up the stamina you need to keep on going. remember, practice makes perfect ;)


Very common problem. Try using cremes containing benzocaine or condoms lubricated with it. This is a anesthetic cream that numbs the skin of the penis and can help decrease sensation and make it easier to last longer.
Timing - Awareness
Experts agree that timing and reading the body-s signals are good ways to achieve longer lasting sex. Men have a tendency to let their instincts turn them into carnal zombies during sex, going from point A to Z without transition or thinking. Knowing when ejaculation is about to occur is vital to longer lasting sex. The old saying -think about something else- is a fallacy. Once you miss that peak, the game is over.

Men should not try to think about baseball, Janet Reno, or other unrelated things during sex; they should do the exact opposite by concentrating on every single feeling and signal the body is sending out during intercourse. Each man should recognize the feeling right before ejaculation. Once the feeling is identified, many tricks are available.

Squeeze Method
Most men only need to keep the aforementioned fact in mind, while others require special techniques. The squeeze method involves stopping stimulation and gently squeezing the base of the penis for about thirty seconds right before climax. It is a nice way of getting oneself accustomed to the feeling of ejaculation while stopping the orgasm right in its tracks. While often effective, it requires a temporary interruption in intercourse.

Stop - Start Technique
Stop and start resembles the squeeze method, except there is no squeezing involved. The subject simply stops stimulation before the climax. After about thirty seconds, the man resumes stimulation. Proper breathing is essential during this or any other ejaculatory control technique. This method takes practice and time to master, and also requires temporary interruptions of intercourse.
How to prevent premature ejaculation? -

I am suffering with Premature Ejaculation amp; Erectile Dysfunction (Impotence) since got married (4-Yrs).? -

I am suffering with Premature Ejaculation amp; Erectile Dysfunction (Impotence) since got married (4-Yrs).? -

Please Share your knowledge, Views - Expiriences
As i understand your questions, u r saing that you hadnt the disorder before your marriage.
If that is true, and you dont have any medical conditions that can have an effect on your sexual functioning (diabetes, hipertension, some weird uncommon neurological diseases), and you dont do drugs (legal or ilegal) It is a psychological problem. How is your partner taking it? is your partner supportive? You can buy a self help book called -the premature ejaculation- by Helen Singer Kaplan, its quite old but it has some great sex-cersises for the condition.
Was the PE first or second? if u began with the PE, by the time you overcome it the ED with recede too.
Viagra seems to be a good option, but it will only help u with the ED. If u plan to use it consult your physician first.
If the book doesnt work, find a sex therapist, it will help.
Good luck
It sounds like this is a mental thing! You should concentrate on other things while having sex. Ejaculation and being erect is a mind thing!
i will share my opinion with you...
doctor time.
fortuna amico
A PEED patient! There are lots of web sites for PE and ED, and if you haven-t heard of Viagra, you need to get out more.

If the conditions are due to marriage, divorce is the only solution.

If the problems are psychological, you should see a psychiatrist or psychologist. If due to physiological problems, see a doctor.
I am suffering with Premature Ejaculation amp; Erectile Dysfunction (Impotence) since got married (4-Yrs).? -