Friday, May 19, 2006

Can one gets orgasm withought ejaculation? -

Can one gets orgasm withought ejaculation? -

hi,

I-m not able to ejaculate but enjoy my wife. she-s concern that I might not enjoying since am not ejaculating!

Do u reckon we-ll have issue in future? well, I mean me!? because she-s able to become wet when gets orgasm!

could u plz shed some light?

thanks heaps!

It-s called delayed ejaculation. There could be any number of reasons but in general, if you ejaculate during masturbation then it-s a matter of too much on your mind during sex. Perhaps you-re overly concerned about your woman-s enjoyment or you harbour some psychological block. Therapy usually involves both partners and is really a matter of getting comfortable with just enjoying sex. The treatment is often a gradual introduction to ejaculating with a female partner perhaps starting with masturbation with the partner in an adjoining room, progressing to masturbation in her presence to her giving a handjob and so forth. There are also communication and touching exercises. The success rate of treatment is supposedly quite good.

Sometimes, the woman-s attraction to the relationship is based on the prolonged sexual intercourse available.
YES. You might be talking about -dry orgasms- like after many prostate removals. This could also be -Retrograde Ejaculation- when semen enters the bladder instead of emerging through the penis. (Seen a doctor?) As long as you FEEL an orgasm your mental state should be fine. Just not likely to make a baby. (And no oral snack.)
maybe u need to try different things that might get u more arroused. try different positions, try to have sex in different places not just your bed, try to talk to her and see if she can play into one of your fantasies if that doesnt work then go to the doctor.
yes, if the flow of semen is blocked by something, orgasm is still achieved. people who wear cock rings experience this. you should probably see a doctor if you are not ejaculating but still reaching orgasm
Can one gets orgasm withought ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation? -

I am a 34 years old married male who suffers from premature ejaculation, it takes only seconds and bothers both my wife and me. Any advice? Especially from those who had experienced the same condition?

You must start by controlling your desires while having intercourse, when you start try to clear your mind of everything, do not rush things start with touching and take your time with that, prevent getting excited even if you had to divert your attention slowly move to oral and more touching, $ex is not only the penetration part!!! this is the last part and both you and your wife should be ready for this, oral should give you the relaxation and release most of the excitement which usually leads to premature ejaculation.
Its very healthy to release your pre-*** while having this and before penetration, but you also shouldn-t put all the blame on you, your wife should be able to help in turning you on again even after the first time.
Good luck.
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When you are on the verge of exploding, pull out, wait, then go at it again
take ayurvedic or unani medicines prepared using SAFED MUSLI as a main ingredient for 40 days,empty stomach with a cup of milk.And you will see that its gone.
Or purchase a 100 gm packet of safed musli powder,mix equal quantity of SATAWAR with some sugar for sweetening,and see the difference within 10 days,though you must continue it for at least 40 days.
Stop everything wrong you are doing or it wont work.
Best of luck.
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Yeah wack off first get the easy one out of the way, you should have to work for the second one.
Yes I have advice - try an antidepressant like Paxil or Lexapro. It seem to -soothe- the nerves involved in sexual activity. You-ll see a HUGE difference.
Use condoms , this will help desensitize things and help you last longer.
Well, you wouldn-t believe how many people come into the office on a daily basis with this problem. There are alot of things you can do. Before you do this though you have to talk it over with your wife. That way she knows what-s going on so she knows not to move.

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Premature Ejaculation? -

How to prevent pre-mature ejaculation? -

How to prevent pre-mature ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation

There is no substitute for discipline. Though many companies may offer quick fixes and instant solutions for Premature Ejaculation, it is proven that the only effective method to overcoming Premature Ejaculation is practice and mental conditioning.



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If your erection is not as hard as you would like or you are experiencing Premature Ejaculation, you may find the following information useful.

The most common cause for weaker erections, premature ejaculation and poor libido is DIET! Yup. That-s right, alcohol, burgers, fries, potato chips, sodas, coffee, candy bars, big portions, etc.

The typical American diet begins to take it-s toll on us around the age of 27. It is gradual but becomes more and more of a problem over the years and we learn to accept it as the aging process.

I am 35 years of age and I am more sexually apt today than I was in my teens. As a youngster I consumed loads of sugar, alcohol, grease and junk, but I was young and active so I burned off a lot of the impurities I deposited into my system. What I didn-t know was that my system was starving for nutrition. Please note, that usually, as we get older we get less and less active but we sustain our horrid diet.

Around the age of 22 I began to experience premature ejaculation. This problem haunted me and my sexual ego for years. After a while, I began to avoid having sex alltogether. My ego had gotten too involved and i didn-t want to be a big disappointment to another beautiful woman.

I met a girl at age 24 and we were in a relationship for about 6 years. I went through phases of premature ejaculation and phases of weaker erections during this time. But it all changed when my girlfriend learned that she was cancer prone. They found a small spec of cancer in her cervix and after intensive planning and preparation it was removed by Lazar. That scared my girlfriend something awful. She became very health conscious and I was left with no choice but to follow suit.

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Around the 5th day of the cleanse I began waking up to some ridiculously SOLID erections. I mean I could literally feel a pulse in my erection. I remember a doctor telling me once that during sleep a man has 6 - 10 erections. It is a natural maintenance program that the body executes to prevent atrophy. Well for the first time, I could feel those erections while I was asleep. Sometimes it would wake me up, which would in turn wake my girlfriend up and to my surprise, I was no longer ejaculating prematurely. I had done nothing but this cleanse.

I swear! Scouts Honor. My girlfriend would say that the rigidity of my erection was uncomfortable and she would make me stop! This is all a true story. Unfortunately, my girlfriend and I broke up a few years ago. I cheated.

Nevertheless, I have followed the healthier lifestyle ever since. I drink and eat junk occasionally. I do that same cleanse at least once a year. And at the age of 35 I can proudly say that I am experiencing rock solid erections and my cases of premature ejaculation are null and void. Once in a Blue Moon... and I stress Blue Moon... I may get all worked up too early and ejaculate quicker than I would have liked to. But honestly, that is a very rare experience.

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ANTIDEPRESSANTS HELP PREMATURE EJACULATION:

Source ~ CNN HEALTH: -Certain antidepressants, including the group called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), cause a side effect of delayed sexual climax in many people. Although these drugs aren-t approved by the Food and Drug Administration for the treatment of premature ejaculation, studies have shown them to be safe and effective for this condition, and many doctors prescribe them for this purpose...-

You may not need to take these medications on a daily basis to prevent premature ejaculation. Taking a low dose several hours before you plan to have sexual intercourse may be sufficient to improve your symptoms...

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PREMATURE EJACULATION STATISTICS:

Sexual intercourse averages two minutes..., usually ending as the male partner reaches climax. However, a woman requires eight to twelve minutes of constant stimulation to reach climax. Premature Ejaculation is the number one cause for shortened sex...


DEFINING PE

The American Psychiatric Association defines premature ejaculation as -persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, during, or shortly after penetration and before the person wishes it.- The reoccurring question remains. What is considered to be shortly after penetration? Alfred Kinsey state that 75% of men tested ejaculate within two minutes after vaginal entry. Does this mean that 75% of the men tested are premature ejaculators?

Premature Ejaculation cannot be determined in time frame or by a partners dissatisfaction, considering that 75% of all women are unable to climax during sexual intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation, leaving only 25% capable of climaxing strictly from direct penile penetration. Premature ejaculation is an act of rapid, involuntary climax.

Some cases of premature ejaculation are more severe, bringing the man to orgasm as soon as his penis makes vaginal contact. In less severe cases the man is able to make vaginal entry and stroke, but unable to maintain control in high levels of arousal. The voluntary ejaculator can sustain sexual intercourse in the -plateau- stage of arousal, maximizing sexual stimulation as the penis is at its most erect state before climax.


METHODS OF TREATMENT :

1. Sexual Therapy - Usually requires weeks of hourly sessions in attempt to determine causes and establish a keener sense of premonitory sensations. Though costly, treatment is highly successful and requires consistency.

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2. Cock Rings - Devise utilized to trap blood in the penis by applying pressure to the key arteries/vessels through which blood is transported into the penis. Commonly used to treat impotence but has become a popular method for preventing premature ejaculation.


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3. Pill Formulas - Intended to reduce libido and subside the urge to ejaculate. The side effect of the Pill Formula is that it prevents the user from achieving solid erections. Most manufacturers claim that Pill Formulas enhance erections and prevent Premature Ejaculation. Medical Research has revealed that as Pill Formulas retard the sexual response, the users erection and sexual functionality is completely inhibited.



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As the penis head is stimulated, neurological transmitters inform the brain that stimulation is being applied to the penis.

The brain then sends messages through the spine to the Vas Deferens. The Vas Deferens is a reservoir located at the base of the penis, which then begins to contract (when excited) causing semen to spout rapidly from the penis.

The users goal is to delay the neurological messages sent from the penis, and condition the brain to discern mild stimulation from extreme stimulation.

The problem is that the brain seldom gets to experience constant stimulation, as the man is usually excited prior to intercourse. Topical solutions will enable the brain to detect the stimulation and sustain without panicking to send signals back to the Vas Deferens. As the brain becomes more accustom to the sensations experienced prior to climax, it learns to endure constant stimulation before relaying messages back to the Vas Deferens.

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Topical Ointment May Help Premature Ejaculation

NEW YORK, Dec 15 (Reuters Health)- A topical cream that numbs the skin may have the seemingly odd effect of improving men-s sex lives, researchers in the Netherlands have found. Applying a topical anesthetic shortly before having sex improved the experience for 15 men affected by premature ejaculation. The treatment--prilocaine/lidocaine cream--quadrupled the men-s time to ejaculation and boosted their sexual satisfaction, researchers report in a recent issue of The Journal of Sex Research. Dr. A. Koos Slob and colleagues at Erasmus University in Rotterdam also found that the men-s partners appreciated the treatment as well. According to the men-s reports, the women in their lives were more than twice as likely to have an orgasm when the men were using the treatment. The men removed the cream before having sex so it did not directly affect their partners. Ten of the 15 men did report side effects, typically -some degree of numbness of the penis.- Another downside was that the men were required to put on a condom before sex to ensure that the topical ointment fully reached the intended area. It took 10 minutes for the cream-s numbing effects to set in, after which the men removed the condoms. Whether the anesthetic treatment will work over the long haul is unknown, Slob and colleagues point out. The cream-s effectiveness may diminish over time. On the other hand, they note, the problem of premature ejaculation may disappear and make treatment unnecessary.

SOURCE: The Journal of Sex Research 2000;37:244-247.




FREE TROUBLE SHOOTING TIPS

1. Never attempt to hold back ejaculation without first alternating to change focus of stimulation.

2. Employing PC muscle exercises will assist greatly in preventing PE.

3. Attempt to let the urge to ejaculate subside completely before resuming.

4. A key contribution to PE is allowing anxiety to dominate and intercept your focus.

5. Slower love making reflects anxiety and habit.

6. Placing the tip of your tongue against the roof of your mouth can help retard ejaculation.

7. Breathing deep helps to prolong the anticipation and/or anxiety.

8. Condoms are an excellent way of reducing sensitivity to the penis.

9. Alternating from constant strokes to deep circular motion helps to prevent over stimulation to the penis head, which triggers rapid ejaculation.

10. Finding unique methods of stimulation your partner may prove to be more desired and can help to reduce the expectancy of performance.




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Think on your friend grandma and you never gone *** i do that
think about baseball
Have sex with someone you are not attracted to. Have no emotional attachement to them, the excitement will be gone and so will the pleasure sensations that are being generated my your head instead of whats in your bed.
When you get down to business, pretend you are doing it with a porcupine. Or think about your mother-in-law or filing your tax return.
Think about something else!!
Just before ejaculation take a whiff of an ash tray filled with ashes and cigarette buts with an ounce of water stirred around in it. LOL LOL LOL
a little dab of superglue right on the tip of your penis
Masterbait a lot. It-ll toughen up the skin and it won-t be as easy to just... go.

OR use a tough condom.
Several condom manufacturers sell condoms that have a dulling lubricant on the inside of the condom. I heard that they work pretty well to prevent pre-mature ejaculation.
eat ayurvedic herbs
My husband is takeing Paxil for premature ejaculation
and it works fabulously. Unlike other drugs he can orgasm
with me or right after me, he doesn-t have an erection for
hours or any problem reaching climax when he chooses to.
the answer is not to think about whether u are to ejaculate or not and enjoy the sex itself. if u do ejaculate, ejaculate again. if not u may want to try to masturbate once first hours before going into penetration or foreplay itself. is the foreplay too long?
How to prevent pre-mature ejaculation? -

How can you have a dry ejaculation while masterbating? -

How can you have a dry ejaculation while masterbating? -

This is not possible. A true ejaculation involes semen escaping and this is in no way dry. The only way that you could do something of the sort is get right up to climax and stop before ejaculation. Which wouldn-t be very much fun, now would it?

I believe what you are attempting to describe is something called male continence. this is what it is called when you have an orgasm without ejaculating any semen. the best way to learn how to do this is to look for books or websites that on Kegel exercises. Kegels will teach you how to control you PC muscle (PC stands for a really long scientific name), which can lead you to control ejaculation.
NOTE: it often takes weeks of practicing Kegels to master it.
the benefits of doing these exercises is a much longer sexual experience, many men use it to last for hours with their partner.
here-s a quick way to start doing the exercise. next time your urinating, place your fingers right behind your testicles. then stop urinating in mid-stream, the muscle you used to stop urinating is the PC. now every day flex that muscle 20 times at 3 times a day. that will help the muscle get stronger.
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