How to lengthen time before ejaculation? -
My husband ejaculates too soon when we have sex. Some times it only takes him two minutes and it-s not long enough for us to really get into it and I realy love him and I want to be able to help him. Is there anything out there that i can give him to help? And by the way it-s not his fault he-s had sex before and never had this problem before me. He blames me. but still, any sugestions?when it looks like he-s about to ejaculate, hit him in the face. he will think twice before doing that again
1. Tell him everytime he is about to ejaculate to change into a different position and to pull out his little soldier for a lil to rest up and then commence the battle.
2. In his spare time tell him to practice masterbating to near ejaculation and tell him to back off at that point until the urge stops and then to commence masterbating again and to repeat. This way he can build up some work capacity after some practice
3. he should compensate by giving your more foreplay since he isn-t satisfying you enough.
Your probably just too damn good looking.
Anyway,
Try thicker condoms?
Try creams that help numb the penis.
Try no foreplay ?
try trojan extended pleasure condoms....they come in a black box and black wrapper
they make u last forever
double up on protection?
MAybe ur just too hot for him
Woman it isnt your fault. If he is blaming you maybe there is more to things than you know. Number one, I am a man, and I can honestly say that if I were having problems with ejaculating, it would not be the womans fault. Not ejaculating, on the other hand sometimes I cant finish myself. But my wife is a -bitcher-, she nags and whines and we sometimes just down right argue when we have sex. But gettin there too soon. I am not trying to pry but have you considered that maybe your husband might be seeing someone on the side? Often when guys finish so quickly its usually because their foolin around. Unless you just make the man wait and beg for sex. I could be wrong, but from what I have heard from friends, and actually had an experience where I was gettin off too quick because I had fooled around once before with someone. Usually caused by infidelity. But either way its not your fault that he is going too soon. -Everybody needs a scapegoat-. Of course it is easier to just say it is your fault than to come right out and say -hey honey I am cheating on you-. But if you want to try to make it last longer then go slower during sex. If you are curious if your husband is cheating. Here are some things to look for. 1.) things he does totally out of character for him. Like for example, you know he hates fishing, but all the sudden he wants to go at night or something like that. 2.) clean changes of clothes in your vehicle that you both use, or in his vehicle. 3.) obviously, unexplained purchases on the credit cards, 4.) on holidays, or like on valentines day say its on a saturday and he all the sudden has a last minute -meeting- or something to go to, which he says you cannot go with him, 5.) finding something like jewelry or something nice hidden thinking its your birthday gift, and then on your birthday getting something other than what you found. Theres tons of ways to find out if your husband might be cheating on you. But dont blame yourself. And if you dont want to tell him its not your fault that he is apparently a premie, then just say it in your own mind when he does say it is your fault. I am not trying to upset you, just answering your question the best way I can. If you would like more signs of when your spouse is cheating, email me. Hope this helps. Without upsetting you too much.