Problem with Premature ejaculation? -

Problem with Premature ejaculation? -

sumtimes i can have great sex but sumtimes i just cant do it... i get EXTREMELY nervous and it just doesnt happen... i find it really hard to concentrate.. i kno ppl.. u have to think of sumthing else... OR only focus on what ur doing.. tried them both but i just cant... whats wrong with me help? and i am 19 years old

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Dude...Totally normal...I-ve been married for 10 years now it happens to everyone male and female if they admit it or not, It-s happened. Being comfortable with yourself and your partner is the key...Not every-time is going to be a mind blowing orgasm for you or your partner...sometimes even masturbating feels better than sex..you know why!? Because your not pressured to perform..or thinking is it good for her?...You-d be surprised how foreplay (kissing, touching,rubbing etc...) helps to increase sex drive and climax for you and your partner... Spontaneous sex can be fun and exciting but just take your time and make love...it doesn-t always happen like the Porno-s... and making Love will be much more satisfying in the end.

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It will sort itself out. Try not to get anxious.

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be relaxed or drug will help??

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Ok. I was married to a guy just like you. He would *** in no time flat, sometimes before we even got started. We finally went a doctor. He suggested he masterbates more often, and aducate himself with some sexual movie.(porn) the more masterbating he did, the longer he would last.
and by watching a few movies (with me ) he learned what I liked and didn-t. Not only did our sex life improve, but so did his pre ejaculation problem.

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You either have to reduce the anxiety yourself or seek the advice of a doctor/therapist.

Problem with Premature ejaculation? -

Do I have premature ejaculation? And if so, how do I fix it? -

Do I have premature ejaculation? And if so, how do I fix it? -

I-ve been having trouble recently during intercourse, and finally decided to look up some information on it. I think I may have premature ejaculation, but I-m not 100% positive.

Sometimes I *** fairly early on, even before penetration, and sometimes I function completely normal. But way more often than not, I-ll go way too early.

I read that sometimes this happens simply due to inexperience. I don-t know what constitutes -inexperience- exactly, but I have had more than several sexual -encounters- (oral, handjobs, etc; around 20 or so total).

If receiving oral stimulation, sometimes I can last for a very long time without even cumming at all. Others, I-ll *** right away. Which leaves me pretty confused about the whole situation.

I don-t know if it-s relevant, but during masturbation this has never occurred, and I can always go for a long time before climax.

I was wondering if this is a level of premature ejaculation, and if so, what can be done to fix it? I-m looking for a non-medicated solution (no pills or anything like that) if at all possible.

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The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation

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put a cork in your peehole. If this doesn-t work tie floss around it so tight it starts to go numb and then hold the floss in your teeth, and then when you want to *** let go. then beat your girlfriend with your peener.

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Before doing it with a girl masturbate - ejaculate. Then do it with her. You-ll see the difference. You will last a lot longer. It seems you are very young, that-s why you ejaculate so fast. It-s all normal.

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Pretty sure there isn-t any medicated solution for premature ejaculation anyway. Don-t worry, it-ll happen less once you get older and more experienced.

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If you want to last longer you jsut gotta keep doing it and build up how long you last or before hand ejaculate before intercourse

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i had to do it...im sorry:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZ��

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masterbate two times before you have sex

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you probably just get excited
wen masturbating try to hold in your c u m for a while
that should help
good luck

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she just knew how to give really good head.. keep her lol they hard to come by!!

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Have sex more often or call a plumber

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You need to use your mind

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Strengthen your kegel muscles (sp?). Check that out online......it will probably give you a description and tell you just what you need to do to strengthen them...

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Lots of guys worry about this so don-t worry.

What most guys don-t know is that masturbation tends to worsen the problem.

Now hold on I-m not say to not masturbate so you can keep reading.

The problem is that masturbation tends to be -get of as soon as possible- You pleasure yourself with the goal of getting off. You-ve trained your body to react to pleasure with -OMG C*% NOW!-

You can break this training by masturbating for pleasure, not climax.

In any case, you say that its sporadic, sometimes you do, sometimes you don-t.

Sounds perfectly normal to me. Everyone has they-re moments, boys and girls. You can get overly excited every once in a while. It might have been a while, or something. If you really don-t want to come thine, then its a matter of self control, stopping yourself or the girl for a while while you calm down enough to continue, moving on to something else, like her, while you wait.

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-man this girl is so hot i wanna bang her so bad- mentality will make you *** faster than expected, and when you want her so bad will probably make you *** fast. otherwise, some guys *** fast and it is just the way they are, experiences dont make you last longer, by experiences usually it mean for someone at older age, that when they lose most of sensitivity therefore last longer than when they were young. learn to hold when you feel like it stimulating a lot. think about something else during the activitiy

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is the most common sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40 years. Most professionals who treat premature ejaculation define this condition as the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners. This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax, which is variable and depends on many factors specific to the individuals engaging in intimate relations. An occasional instance of premature ejaculation might not be cause for concern, but, if the problem occurs with more than 50% of attempted sexual relations, a dysfunctional pattern usually exists for which treatment may be appropriate.

To clarify, a male may reach climax after 8 minutes of sexual intercourse, but this is not premature ejaculation if his partner regularly climaxes in 5 minutes and both are satisfied with the timing. Another male might delay his ejaculation for a maximum of 20 minutes, yet he may consider this premature if his partner, even with foreplay, requires 35 minutes of stimulation before reaching climax. If intercourse is the method of sexual stimulation for the second example and the male climaxes after 20 minutes of intercourse and then loses his erection, satisfying his partner (at least with intercourse), who needs 35 minutes to climax, is impossible.

Because many females are unable to reach climax at all with vaginal intercourse (no matter how prolonged), this situation may actually represent delayed orgasm for the female partner rather than premature ejaculation for the male; the problem can be either or both, depending on the point of view.

Take care,

Do I have premature ejaculation? And if so, how do I fix it? -