Why does ejaculation (orgasn) time vary so much for me? -
Sometimes I come within 2minutes, sometimes 20minutes (I often time it!) in your own personal experience, what things affect how soon or late you reach orgasm? I-m interested to know about your OWN PERSONAL experience, the things you have learnt about yourself, please dont tell me about the general determinants that you can find in all articles. Give me all the details!By the way, The times that i gave you above (2 and 20) are my masturbation records - I-m not sexualy active - how do you think thoses times will apply to a real sexual experience? (I mean, if you can go for 20minutes masturbating in front of porn, is there an estimate how long you can do the real thing?)
Dude it depends on a lot of things such as:
1. How many weeks/days/hours/mins its been since your last pipe cleaning
2. Your overall mood
3. If your watching porn
4. If you have help
5. If you-re using props
These are some examples. If the right circumstances are there, I have personally gone hours with a partner and had multiple orgasms in the process.
The time it takes for a man to ejaculate is dependent on his overall health and mainly, his level of arousal.
As long as a man is healthy enough for sex, he can orgasm regularly and the time it takes to do so depends on his levels of arousal. Certain things, like porn, can heighten arousal, making it easier to orgasm. But if when you masturbate you-re just doing it because you happen to have a hard on, it-ll probably take longer unless you are thinking about something really arousing. And of course men tend to find it easier to ejaculate during actual sex as appose to masturbation.
its all in the mind my friend if your really in the mood or are with a girl doing foreplay for a long time and get really worked up you will orgasm within seconds if you just jump into the act you will later but she wont be too happy about it lol
It all depends on your level of arousal. I have had times when I lasted minutes and a few rare times when I gave up due to exhaustion before ejaculation
Your first time it will be like two seconds.