Monday, July 24, 2006

My boyfriend cant ejaulate with me in the room... situational delayed ejaculation / retarded ejaculation... -

My boyfriend cant ejaulate with me in the room... situational delayed ejaculation / retarded ejaculation... -

Hi, i-ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend (we-re gay) for around 18months now.He can-t come with me in the room.Apparantly it-s the 3rd most popular sex problem(after erectile prblems and premature ejaculation)I-ve looked up some information,looked up counseling and any other help that would be available to him. The fact he cant do it doesn;t affect me to much, it jusy annoys me hat he wont even try to do it with me in the room. i have to stad behind the door, outside of the bedroom. He says to let him tell me when he-s ready to do it and he will, but i cant help but feel that if he doesn-t feel ready to do it after 18 months, he wont do it of his own accord.

Basically i-d like to talk to someone who has the same problem, as i dont want to be too hard on him, I love him loads, but this is beginning to be a problem, and I don;-t want it to be

p.s I posted a question a few months ago and someone did contact me with the same problem,but ive lost your email address sorry
maybe like every normal person he is completeley straight
and just doesnt want to hurt u
Does he take any medication that might cause this?

Anti-depressants etc?

If not, then I would say that counselling of sorts is the only way to solve this.

You might want to try herbal remedys, even if they-re only placebo effecting
haha, -i love him loads-

how appropriate.
Maybe he-s not gay...
My boyfriend cant ejaulate with me in the room... situational delayed ejaculation / retarded ejaculation... -