Premature ejaculation..Please respond? -
Hi All,
I had earlier submitted a question regarding premature ejaculation and got quite a few good answers. Another thing i wanna ask here is that is this problem a mental problem or a biological problem...is it only becaues of anxiety,or some emotional feeling or do i need to see a doctor for it?
I am really not able to enjoy my intimate moments with my gf because of this problem.
Waiting for your replies
I think the first poster hinted at this strategy - make sure that she gets off first. Spend time on her. Oral, masturbation, toys - whatever it takes. Make sure she is the one who has the first orgasm, and then, when you c u m, it-s not -premature- because she has already been satisfied. Over time, you will become more desensitized and you will last longer.
It is a combination of mental and -biological-. Your hormones are raging, so any thoughts which stimulate you are going to get you aroused. Sometimes just thinkin about sex and anticipating it will cause the premature ejaculation.
You don-t need a doctor. You just need to compensate for it by either masturbating before sex, or just busting twice during sex.
There isn-t anything wrong with you. And there probably isn-t anything you can do about it. And I-m sorry to say it will probably last several years. I-ve been this way since 14yo and I-m 19yo now with no signs of it quitting. But I-ve figured how to use it to my advantage now tho.
It is not mental but biological problem and it is not due to anxiety but due to extra uncontrolled emotional feelings. You better to go to Herbal Doctor. Please do not visit any Allopathy doctor (English medicine).
Do not worry, you can very much enjoy what ever you want in any moments.
Note : if you are an Indian then I can suggest you to go to Dr.Yadulla at dabeerpura - Hyderabad. There are many good doctors but I knew him.
Mental. Anxiety prevents success. Every time. Focus on HER needs and wants and giving her a great time - not to have something in return, but b.c you simply LOVE her and enjoy doing that. Then when you enter her, it won-t matter if you do ejaculate early or not.
Look up Kegel exercises and practise them to assist in controlling your orgasms better.
You can delay ejaculation for a while by thinking of something non-sexual like your mother or grandmother. Then, as your partner catches up with you and is on the verge of coming, you can once again get back in the mood of coming yourself by thinking of something exciting like your partner-s body.
it is a mental problem that will only increase the longer it gets not treated:see the urologist.
They have seen and heard it all before.
Sky.
I personally feel it is something mentally causing it. If it is, it should get better the more you use it.
refer to gynecologist immediaely !
you should see a doctor that you can trust and talk with