Thursday, August 23, 2007

How can I control (fix) premature ejaculation? -

How can I control (fix) premature ejaculation? -

I understand that sometimes it gets so intense that it-s hard to keep it in, but if you slow down or stop right before ejaculating it tends to slow the process down.


There-s nothing premature about ejaculation.

There-s no such thing!!!

3 REALLY easy steps:

1. do your thing
2. roll over
3.go to sleep
slow it down with a pinch just under the head for about 3 seconds
COME LATER THAN YOU HAVE BEEN, IT APPEARS THAT YOU NEED TO TAKE A DIFFERENT APPROACH THAN WHAT YOU ARE DOING , HAVE YOU PARTNER HELP YOU IN FOUR PLAY, AND TRY NOT TO GET OVERLY EXCITED, REMEMBER THIS IS FUN NOT A JOB OR CHORE THAT YOU HAVE TO GET DONE
Train yourself. Practice. Learn to hold it and release it on your own instead of letting it go crazy and going when it wants.
hehe.... when you find out let me know the answer.
I was reading about it this morning, and basically they say that the technique required has to do with learning to stop before the -point of no return-, but then the problem is that how do you get your partener to stop? it just so happens that right before you get to that point seems to be the most pleasurable to her and she hates stoping in the middle of it, but if you don-t stop, it-s all over. Anyway, I tried some of the techniques but the main thing is that the female has to be part of the solution as well.
I will type up a couple of paragraphs from the book I-m reading when I get a chance.
screw uglier women..............
How can I control (fix) premature ejaculation? -

Question about ejaculation...? -

Question about ejaculation...? -

Im 17 and I masterbate as much as the next teenage guy, anyway, for the first time, I was fooling around with my girlfriend and she started to give me head. I wasn-t nervous, and it felt great, yet I never came. I don-t know why, she was going for about 15 minutes. Is that normal?
I think you had some stage fright and were scared. Give it time it-ll happen....
that-s okay.. sometimes it takes longer to ***.. had you been maturbating a lot in the previous few days??
its perfectly normal. Enjoy the process when she gives head. Shouldn-t u be happy that u have so much control over ejaculation when she is su*king it.

I also experienced it several times and i didnot care it but felt good tat i am so strong. later you can engage in some more activitis with her and perform better.
Ask her to do it again and see if you have the same response. It may have been just a one time episode.
Can be. Some guys reach orgasm more easily than others. Also, after several years of masturbating vigorously, it may take a little practice to get used to reaching an orgasm from oral sex or intercourse. Nothing to worry about, it just prolongs the pleasure.
Yes its normal.Some guys never *** by oral. The mouth is just too loose and wet compared to masturbating.
It-s a very different set of sensations from things you-d done in the past. Your body isn-t used to it yet, so doesn-t know how to respond all the way.

Also, I imagine that your friend takes care to be gentle with you - as she should. The drawback is that some guys like stronger feelings and more pressure as they get more excited, and her mouth might have a hard time sustaining that effort.
Tell her keep going and never stop!
yah at times it happens....
it takes me about 15 minutes to get my bf to come some men it takes 30 mins
Nah dude, it-s totally normal.

about 50% of men cannot recieve and orgasm from oral sex.

Dont worry about it.
enjoy it while you can

or

maybe youre gay
Question about ejaculation...? -

Please help me! Premature Ejaculation? -

Please help me! Premature Ejaculation? -

I am in love with this wonderfull girl, we have been together for 3 and a half years, i love her so much. she 23 and im 24.

The thing is I really struggle with Premature Ejaculation, sometimes i can go longer but must of the times im in and out and its finished.

I know about all the apparant meds that are suppose to help, but theu dont. Please im looking for answers from people that had a similar problem and overcame it through wich ever technique or things you did to stop you from blowing your load.

I really want to be able to last long enough to at least make her orgasm, i love her so much and want to satisfy her really bad!

Thanks 1minute man
think of something disgusting, like your doing your sister
Dont try to fix it!!! Women get multiple orgasams, why shouldnt the men?? Try this.. when you are haveing an orgasam, DONT STOP PUMPING, and dont stop right after you quit squirting either, keep going at it for another 4 or 5 minuets. You will stay HARD if you DO NOT STOP, and the next orgasam will be a while off.. You will both really enjoy this, I PROMISE !!!!!
Have your tried delay creams?
honey, when you grow up, you-ll be able to have a relationship , for now though it seems funny to write this, it is just plain childish. time to go to bed...mom is calling you !
See your doctor.
hey well thats kind of a problem, that has happened to me couple times, when she is too hot, but anyway it should not happen in reagular basis; and what about when u drink, do u still have the same problem?, i think red wine helps a lot, at least as somehting inmediate you should try that, no kidding. But you should go and check with your doctor. Good luck
It-s called foreplay sweetie. Use your tongue!! If you got skills with your tongue she won-t care how fast you bust one. Also, if she don-t mind, try switching positions. I have noticed guys seem to get too close too fast during missionary.
Try masturbating one or two hours beforehand and taking Viagra during the real event?
Put on at least 3 c**k rings if nothing else works.
Masturbate ALOT, if that doesn-t help try pinching the base when you get close. Just because you are finished doesn-t mean you can-t throw on the old snorkel and go diving for a little while.
One Minute Man, I will give you some advice I saw on Doctor Ruth one time. Come quickly the first time, then wait 20 minutes and try again. You usually last longer the second time. Also there are other ways to make her orgasm....hint hint, maybe practice while you are waiting for the second round.
the only thing i can suggest is try being in the moment but not being in the moment. think about something non-sexy like geraldo rivera or pokemon when you two are together. also please her before intercourse. also be sensual before sexual. give her a sensuos full-body massage with massage oil, scalp massage ) these are errotic and relaxing trust me!!!!), givign her compliments and telling her how much you love all the while, plese her (i.e. you know), then intercourse.
Please help me! Premature Ejaculation? -