Advice overcoming retarded ejaculation? -
My husband has this problem. Basically he can-t orgasm during intercourse, never has been able to. He will usually masturbate after intercourse to finish and it still takes some time then. I mean it could take up to an hour. He says its because he wants to do it so bad that he can-t. The problem is starting to get to him really bad now. Is there anything we can do to make this easier?
There are many men with that condition.
Accept it and relax, that-s just the way it is for some.
Peace.
Ok i am going to answer this question and it will help you will just have to get him to agree to it it will work. What you have to do it play with the mae g spot.It is located in the anul and if you do play with it it will work the way that you are wanting it to.
why i would get profesional help but in the mean time why don-t you toss him of instead and maybe he might be able to get over the whole ejaculation thing.
Get professional help. It-s probably all in his head and they can get him straightened out.
it-s all psychological.
he needs medical psy help
no man can last that long
perhaps his prostate needs a check up too if he is over 50
Your best bet is to go see a doctor.
I had the same problem, and didn-t discover what was wrong with me for years.
Damage from circumcision, which always damages the penis and sexual ability, caused more than the usual loss of sensitivity due to scarring and nerve damage.
This made it impossible for me to achieve orgasm in normal sex, like your husband. I finally found out about foreskin restoration, and this has vastly improved my sensitivity and the intensity of orgasms, also.
One reason that masturbatin can bring him to orgasm is because the pressure and friction of the hand can be more intense to those areas requiring the additional stimulation that is necessary.
Foreskin restoration won-t restore the amputated and damaged nerve endings, but it will dekeratinize the glans and surrounding tissues meant by nature to be covered by the foreskin and kept sensitive and moist.
An additional benefit is that the new inner foreskin has incredible sensitivity, and when retracted, adds a new sensitivity to the shaft, a new dimension in feeling.
This has increased my libido, and is the best thing that I-ve ever done for myself. Foreskin restoration isn-t easy or fast, but it yields a practically new penis, and a new sex life. I use the TLC Tugger, and am not finished with my restoration, but within three months of beginning I began to experience some additional sensitivity.
I know that you have probably felt at times that it was your fault, that you weren-t attractive enough, or not doing it right, but it-s not your fault, or your husband-s.
I-ve been down that road many times in my life, both of you feel inadequate because of this, and it can be corrected with time and effort.
It-s unfortunate that those of us who-ve had so much damage from circumcision take so long to find out what it has done to us, but at least there-s hope in restoration.
Good luck to you both.