How can I stop premature ejaculation? -
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When the term sex is used it can cause a lot of emotions in human beings. It seems as a race that we place a lot of importance and meaning on the term, but it-s the type of meaning that we place on it that determines how our bodies will behave in relation to it. If we come from conservative families we will place a very different meaning on it then someone who comes from hippy new age family. Either way, the truth is that we must learn how to manipulate these meanings so we can achieve the results we want.
There ARE methods to manipulate this meaning, such as NLP, which is designed at changing how reality is perceived in the mind. But I know that most men want the quickest and fastest way to fix their problems, the bad news is that this is very rational and more often than not the quick fix won-t actually help with the situation, the good news is that with premature ejaculation there are INDEED QUICK FIX TECHNIQUES available.
These quick fix techniques are designed at disrupting the thought patterns of your negative thinking, these thought patterns that are destroying the natural flow of your body and thus making you premature ejaculation. But by using techniques such as squeezing, or thicker condoms or numbing creams, it can get your mind into experiencing lasting longer, and when this happen it begins to believe it can, and over time your body will adjust and you will find yourself being able to last longer without any conscious effort. So luckily for us men, the internet is a treasure trove for all this information.
The most common technique is by no means the least effective, its called the squeeze method. Basically, whilst masturbating or having sex you build up till your about to ejaculate, then you flex your kegal muscle as hard as you can and stop (the muscle you use to stop the flow of urine half way). Then you start again, and build up to the same point again, then stop. You keep repeating this process, after a while your body and mind will get attuned to going longer, and before you know it, you will be able to go as long as you want without conscious effort.
The second method is very obvious, but still effective. You basically have to masturbate several hours before you think you might be having sex, and there you have it, you last longer because you won-t be as excited.
Another method is just buying thicker condoms, just go to your local chemist and look at all the different types of condoms, and more then likely there will be an option to go thicker.
So there you have it, three methods that can get you started right now on fixing your problems. It does take time, but with patience, you will overcome it.
Nobody ever listens to me but maybe you will.
Try Kegel excercises. You can even Google it if you want. I-m not kidding.
The next time you are urinating stop in mid stream. Do this a few times to know which muscles you are using.
Now, clench those muscles any time you want. Driving in your car, sitting at a desk, watching Football. It doesn-t matter as nobody knows you are doing it. Clench those muscles for 15 seconds and then relax for 15 seconds and repeat.
I went from a Minute Man to the point where past girlfriends and now my Wife have begged me to stop! Some idiots will give me thumbs down but I assure you that this works.
After two weeks you will see an improvement. After 6 months you can go for hours just by clenching those muscles.
I swear to High Heaven that this works!
I suffer from PE on and off, and when I want to make sure that I last long enough, I use Trojan Extended Pleasure condom. It makes the tip of the penis a bit numb so you don-t feel the urge to ejaculate. It works every time, and with it, I can last an hour if I wanted.
I had a bad spate of that, so I used Num-ze-dent
It is a topical cream used to ease the pain of teething, but it also took just enough edge off so i could have a normal sex session
You can-t.
It-s not like you can magically make it stop.
It happens, everytime. Get used to it.
maybe ur not used to feeling pussy. Sex is a very intense sensation. U could just keep having sex and eventually last longer, or u can get a fleshlight.