Please help me - ejaculation? -
im only 17 and each time i masturbate it takes forever if i do it without watching a movie but if im watching one it takes me about less than 3 min. , i tried to do it with a condom while watching a movie i still ejaculate quickly but the best ive done is the stop method i stop for about 5 times and after that it takes me forever to ejaculate, im still a virgin and ive been goin out with my gf for about 3 months and im afraid when i have sex to ejaculate too quickYou know, just a suggestion. Since you say that when you stop for a bit, and continue again, it makes you last longer. So then I would advise lots of foreplay. She plays with you, and before you ejaculate, switch and you pleasure her. Do this several times before actually having sex. This would also make sure that you both are comfortable with each other, and each other-s bodies.
Don-t worry about it too much. It-s pretty common for a virgin to ejaculate quickly for the first while with your girlfriend. Once you get comfortable, and are more relaxed, you-ll be fine, and will be able to last longer, I-m sure.
When the times comes (no pun intended), and you have sex with your gf, you will probably ejaculate quickly. Its a part of life, unfortunately. And if you worry and agonize over it, you may end up taking forever to finish when you-re with her. Or worse - it may not get hard.
Just relax, don-t worry about it, and whatever happens will happen. If she loves you, then she wont care if you pop quickly. There-s always next time, and the next, and the next .....
And one last thing .. if you blow your load before you even get to put it in her, don-t worry. That-s really common and normal. Guys just don-t talk about it.