Monday, November 24, 2008

Id like to increase my ejaculation force, what would help in this matter? -

Id like to increase my ejaculation force, what would help in this matter? -

I-m a 37 year old male,

You can try the Kegels,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exerc…
If you abstain from ejaculating for a week or more, that will help. And then before and while having sex or masturbating, drink a lot of water. Also, practice -edging- as much as you can stand to. If you do all three of these things, I bet you will see real results.

Something else that helps me a LOT is being with a person who really turns me on. When that is the case, I don-t need to do the other three things in order to ejaculate forcefully and copiously. (I am 44 years old.)
You may want to try -pelvic floor muscle- exercises.

Try this:
Next time you are urinating try to stop mid stream hold it for ten seconds then release. Try this once a day for a couple of weeks and you may notice a more intense orgasm and more force.

Chris-Registered Nurse
If you are 37, you should know the answer.
But, you should abstain from any form of masturbation, or sexual contact, the longer you do, the longer the buildup.
A few of my friends who are into bodybuilding take ejeculoid.
I-m not sure where you can buy it, but possibly on ebay or from a drug store online.
Or try a power/body lifting site, or your local health food shop!
May the force be with you....
no lie i read eating fruits and vegetables help.

idk if its true but hey try it.
stop masturbating for about a week or two.
Id like to increase my ejaculation force, what would help in this matter? -

Im 32yrs married and getting premature ejaculation with in a minute during sex. Pl advice me what shall i do. -

Im 32yrs married and getting premature ejaculation with in a minute during sex. Pl advice me what shall i do. -

during sex with my wife i-m coming out within a minute.i feel very shame about that. if i try masturebation it-s take long time to come out. i dont know what to do. once i tried vigra but i didn-y work, please advice me shall i consult to doctor or is there any way to improve it yhanx

The same thing happens to my bf, when I am above he last like seconds!!!! grrrrrr it really makes me mad, but he tells me he feels nervous when I′m above and that makes him come quickly, when he′s above there′s no problem, but when I am up I don′t know why he comes, anyway. I think you shoud try positions, maybe in other positions you can hold on more. And he has told me too, (and I know cause I have noticed) he is very concerned about giving me placer and making me have an orgasm, that makes him feel some pressure I think, that I might leave him or something because he doesn′t satisfy me, I told him not to worry. Anyway, you should talk to your wife. Maybe there is something going on with your head. By the way I am 24 and he′s 31, maybe there′s his worry.
Good Luck!!
;D
In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
There are topical creams available at any store like Wal-Mart that will help desensitize you so you last longer. One of them is brand-named -Mandelay-... they really work. Hope this helps you.
You have your partner play with it until you get close then stop do that over and over and it should slow you down.
Relax first. make sure you keep your breathing at a regular pace. the one thing you can do is get used to the feel of her vagina. Do this by going down on her for a longer time and putting your fingers in here. That will help you get used to the heat and moisture. The main thing is to stay calm. Just another day at the office. Also go slow. Don-t get in there and hump like a jack rabbit. Take your time. Put it in and just stay still. Again, get used to the feel and stay calm.
see a doctor. there are options now days. hope it gets better for you.
alot of guys have that problem, ive had it my whole life,all you can do is make up for it with other things to keep your wife happy.
There is a way to have an orgasm without ejaculating, so that your penis stays hard, and you can keep going as long as you-d like. Check out Mistermanpower.com to see what I-m talking about.
I have no prove on this but it is merely a suggestion. Since premature ejaculation is believed to be a psychological problem rather than a physical one, I suggest you see a certified hypnotherapist. Let me know how it goes ;)
you can see the Dr =tell him/her that you tried Viagra and then the Dr. can do tests to see if anything else is wrong =good luck
go to menhealths.com they have some good excersises to help
Im 32yrs married and getting premature ejaculation with in a minute during sex. Pl advice me what shall i do. -

Does the blue pill help stop or control premature ejaculation? -

Does the blue pill help stop or control premature ejaculation? -

no, the blue pill (viagra) helps only erection dysfunctions, so not the premature ejaculation.

if you suffer of premature ejaculation you might check
http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
and find out which is the best cure for your problem

Hello,

If your -blue pill- is Viagra, then no, I-m afraid it doesn-t help ejaculatory problems. It just adds strength to your -hard-on- (erection).

Premature ejaculation is a difficult problem. In a sense, all ejaculations are premature (!) but if you are having one before entering the woman, then that is unusual. If you are having an ejaculation inside the woman but before the woman is satisfied, then it may be that you haven-t -warmed up- the woman enough before you entered her. That is why you are being advised to extend you fore-play,

There are drugs that delay male orgasm. The anti-depression drugs in the Prozac group can do it, and the anti-anxiety drugs in the Benzo-diazepine (-Valium-) group, can do it. You would need to consult your GP. The notorious male orgasm-delayers are morphine and heroin, hence the expression, -unemployment stamina,- but I am strongly advising against them. Alcohol intoxication can also delay orgasm, but not very reliably.

Hope this helps. Belliger
ask a doctor ok
young guys, be patient. focus on foreplay...its takes a lot of practice.
This is what I do, and it works incredibly. You-ll write back thanking me after you learn this. There-s way to have orgasms without ejaculating, so that you don-t lose your -manjuice- but you orgasm. When you don-t lose your manjuice, your dikk stays hard and you can keep going. Mistermanpower.com has a guide on how to do this. Its great cause you don-t lose your erection, and you can have as many orgasms as you can handle, it just takes some practice.
look up on 4play first.
Does the blue pill help stop or control premature ejaculation? -

Lengthen the ejaculation time? -

Lengthen the ejaculation time? -

The Exercises




Week 1 – Simply alternate between exercise one and two. Example, if you start on a Monday do exercise 1, Tuesday do exercise 2, then on Wednesday go back to exercise 1.




Exercise 1)

Step 1) of this exercise is to stroke your penis with a dry hand (Yours or your lucky partner-s). Relax, and take note of every sensation that occurs in your body, especially your penis. This is the key to every exercise you-ll learn. I cant stress this enough, become aware of your body. Continue stroking until you feel close to ejaculation (level 8). At this level come to a complete stop and release your hand from your penis. Relax, take a few deep breaths and allow your penis to subside




As your penis subsides you should experience the descending levels of 8,7,6,5 and so on. Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation until you proceed to Step 2.




Step 2) begin stroking your penis with a dry hand. Once you feel yourself at the level near ejaculation, stop. With your fingers - thumb pinch the head of your penis. Pinching so that your thumb is in front of your penis and your finger(s) are behind it. Apply moderate pressure for about 30 seconds and let your erection subside.




As your penis subsides you should experience the descending levels of 8,7,6,5 and so on. Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation until you proceed to Step 3.




Step 3) Resume stroking your penis until nearing ejaculation (level 8). Stop at this level, use your index and middle fingers to apply pressure to the PC muscle (this is the area in between your testicles and your anus, you will read more about this muscle later in the section “exercise to better sex”). Apply pressure for about 30 seconds. Make note of your sensations and let your penis subside.




While doing these exercises, you are learning the increasing - decreasing feelings of arousal. With some practice, you will be able to bring yourself to level 7, keep it there or bring it down to 5. You will then be able to take it to level 10 whenever you want to. You-re in complete control.




As your penis subsides you should experience the descending levels of 8,7,6,5 and so on. Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation until you proceed to Step 3.




Step 4) is final step for Exercise 1. Stroke your penis with a dry hand allowing yourself to go through all the levels. This time do not stop. Feel all the sensations and allow yourself to ejaculate fully.




Exercise 2)

Step 1) Begin this exercise stroking your penis with a dry hand. Relax, and take note of every sensation that occurs in your penis. Continue stroking until you feel close to ejaculation. At this level (level 8) come to a complete stop and release your hand from your penis. Relax, take a few deep breaths and allow your penis to subside.




Remember to notice the sensations of your body while your penis subsides. Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation until you proceed to Step 2.




Step 2) Begin stoking your penis with a dry hand bringing it to a full erection. As you are bringing your penis to a full erection. Remember to take note as you move from levels 1-4. Are you able to maintain at a level or did you jump to level 7,8 or 9? At the point near ejaculation, stop again. This time gently push your penis forward (toward your balls) and let your penis subside.




As your penis subsides you should experience the descending levels of 8,7,6,5 and so on. Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation until you proceed to Step 3.




Step 3) Repeat step 1 and step 2 continuously until 20 minutes elapsed. For each step, remember to stop before ejaculation and resting 2 to 3 minutes. If only a few seconds have pass before becoming close to ejaculation in one of the steps. Don-t worry. It does not matter how many times you have to stop and restart! Just stop, take a mental note of the sensations and levels then continue to the next step.




Step 4) When your 20 minutes are up. Go ahead, take your level up to level 10 (orgasm) and let it fly.







Week 2 – This week you are going to step it up a notch. While alternating between the following exercises, use a water-based lubricant. Vaseline is the best but any water-based lubricant will do.







Exercise 3)

Step 1) As always get a real hard erection. At this time, you should have a feel for the sensations that build before ejaculation. Stroke your penis with your lubricated hand. As your levels of arousal esculate change stroking techniques. Switch from the wrap around technique (above) to stimulating only the head of your penis. When close to ejaculation (level 8), quit stimulating your hea and gently applying stimulation to your genitals. Making sure not to hurt them. If this does not decrease your level of arousal come to a complete stop and breathe deeply.




Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation and proceed to Step 2.




Step 2) Stroke your penis with your lubricated hand. Again, as you feel your arousal escaulate change your stroking technique. This time switch to stimulating only the base of your penis. When close to ejaculation, quit stimulating the base and gently apply stimulation to your balls. Making sure not to hurt them. If this does not decrease your level of arousal come to a complete stop and breathe deeply.




Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation and proceed to Step 3.




Step 3) With a lubricated hand stroke your penis to full erection. This time when nearing ejaculation do not stop, merely slow down. Then gently pull your testicles away from your body and keep stoking. In most men, pulling the testicles away from the body will help subside the urge to ejaculate. If this does not help reduce the urge to ejaculate, then come to a complete stop. Try to keep the slow stroke going with the testicles pulled for as long as you can.




Allow 3-4 minutes of relaxation and proceed to Step 4




Step 4) Repeat step one, two and three continuously, until 15 minutes have elapsed. For each step, remember to stop before ejaculation and resting for 2 to 3 minutes. If only a few seconds have pass before becoming close to ejaculation in one of the steps. Don-t worry It does not matter how many times you have to stop and restart. Just stop, take a mental note of the sensations and continue to the next step.




When your 20 minutes are up. Go ahead and proceed to orgasm.




Exercise 4 – Exercise 4 is the same as exercise 3 with one important exception. Do not release your hand from your penis. If you feel close to ejaculation – you may stop but do not remove your hand from your penis.




Exercise 5 – Things are going to get tricky with this exercise. This is the time where dedication and perseverance will reap your greatest rewards, long lasting sex. Exercise 5 is exactly like exercise 3 except you cannot stop. You may slow down to a turtle but you cannot stop for an entire 20 minutes. Keep your penis enclosed and keep it in a wet atmosphere. As you can guess this is to stimulate sex.




Well, with the first two weeks of exercises you should have learned to condition your sexual practice. You should have gone from little control; to being able to last at least 20 minutes. You-ve been able to last at least 20 minutes with a dry hand and 20 minutes with a wet, enclosed hand. If you have not successfully completed the exercises or could not keep control for 20 minutes. You will need to go back to the beginning and do both weeks again..




Many men who were successful and did learn to control ejaculation for 20 minutes elected to do the exercises again. You may elect to add an extra 10 minutes to the exercises just to strengthen your new skill.

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