Premature Ejaculation... ? -
My boyfriend ejaculates prematurely sometimes, and I was wondering if there was anything I could do to help!
I love having sex with him, but sometimes I have to finish myself off later! We-ve not been together for very long, and kind of only just finding each others sexual preferences! It seems to get better with time, as he relaxes around me, but he feels crap and I feel, well, horny!
Any suggestions?
The extra strength condom can help here!
If you can get your bloke spend more time in -preparing- you, I think you will soon find a sweet spot where neither of you are uncomfortable after sex and practice will only make it better.
Try different positions - you might find one that works better for you, and a little less over stimulating for him.
But concentrate on him spending more time on you first! It will help you both! He will not feel any failure, you will not be left horny!
Talking about it will just make the situation worse.
He-ll get so nervous about this happening that he-ll make it happen (self-fulfilling prophecy), or he won-t be able to get it up because of performance anxiety.
Make him go slow. Say it like you like it, -o slower baby, that-s what feels good. . .- He-ll be embarrassed if you make it obvious it-s to make him last longer, -maybe we should go slower. . .-
Switch up positions more often, it-s almost like starting over again.
I-ve heard that if you give him head until right before he comes - then have sex, it will make him last longer.
Also, why does it have to end just because he came??
Some guys remain hard - can keep going. Or he can touch you go down on you, or caress you while you touch yourself. . .
Maybe you guys should put more of an emphasis on foreplay - you should get off (by yourself, touching, or oral), before having sex. .
well as he relaxes it might last longer but then again it might not...I say that u two should have a lot of foreplay to help you get going and to help him train his coming to fast...this is what u do...either u jack him off to the place right before he goes off (u can do this with sex too) and stop for a little about he helps u...repeat about 4 times before his finishes...this might take u to 2 to 3 month before he will finish u off....
THIS DOES WORK...I use to shot way to early (way to early)...and now I can finish my wife off sometimes before i am done...try it...the train can be fun for u both too...
don-t hurry things a break in intercourse might help I know it sounds funny but when you feel he-s close stop either you get off or he gets off just kiss cuddle for a couple of minutes and then continue if he-s interested in the break he-ll have been manually stimulating you ,or you could try wants called a tactical w-nk before you really start which should relieve the need to c-m so quick
Experiment with foreplay
Dont hav to have full on sex all the time. Play with foreplay and see if he does it then.
He might just be nervous because by the sounds of it, you gotta high sex drive and he might not.
Relax him.. If you no what i mean and tell him to relax and not to be nervous. Introduce sex toys aswell.. Such as c,ock rings. They make the man last longer.
:) x
He-s still learning, you-ll have to teach him what foreplay works for you and how to get you to climax before he does. Spend more time touching and fondling before you dive into sex. Failing that you can get a desensitising spray for him to delay his ejaculation.
If he masturbates before you two have sex, it-ll take him longer to get fully aroused and climax and he-ll be able to hold it off much better...
Orgasm might be less pleasurable for him but hey what man would deny himself of more sex? lol
i think your best solution is to buy your boyfriend some -delay ceam-
i heard it helps a lot, it delays the ejaculation
you can buy it from www.magicalpleasures.co.uk
Less foreplay for him, more for you. Advise him to slow down or stop when he feels he-s close to losing it. Help him with this by being patient. It will continue to get better with time.
If erection is weak Viagra is recommended
If erection is ok a spray of lidocain .procaine or any surface anesthetic is applied on the head of penis 5 min before contact
Tell him to have a w@nk before you see him. Also, even if he does come first, HE should be finishing your off. He doesn-t need an erection to munch.
he just needs to relax a bit more and he-ll be fine, if he shoots early try to keep his interest and i-m sure after a few minutes he-ll be capable of going again.
viagra or a rampent rabbit or both
Here-s one! Have him give you oral until you orgasm as part of foreplay! See how that works! ;)
Have him take care of you. A real man would know...ladies first.
Premature Ejaculation... ? -