Ejaculation delay - spray? -
Did anyone try the spray that delays ejaculation?
It-s to be sprayed on the penis head shortly before intercourse...
How long before intercourse should it be sprayed and how effective is it in solving premature ejaculation?
It depends a bit on your personal sensitivity, but most of the ones that I sell at work are between 3% and 5% benzocaine (think Orajel). -Stamina-, -Stay-Hard- and -Max Width-. The two better quality ones are the Kama Sutra brand -Desensitizing Pleasure Gel- and the Shunga brand -Pleasure Balm-. Both taste nice and are a bit stronger (5.5%) than the novelty sprays and balms. The way it works is by numbing your nerve endings so you don-t feel enough stimulation to reach orgasm quite as fast. To see if it would work for you, masturbate one night and time yourself, then go find some Orajel or other generic toothache jelly containing benzocaine and rub some on the head of your penis, then masturbate again. If you think it-ll help you last longer during intercourse, then buy some! Just be sure to wipe off the excess before you enter her, you don-t want her to lose sensation too.
Cock rings are a good choice too, the rubber and nitrile ones are very cheap and you have a 50/50 shot (from anecdotal evidence, no promises) of either having a much harder time reaching orgasm or a much more sensitive penis.
Have fun, and please be safe. :)
Ang is right about the way it works more or less. Perhaps you should not sacrifice your pleasure just because you don-t feel that you last long enough. Many times this is a psychological problem. Try not to worry about it, and don-t let societal pressures make you feel inadequate. As far as her pleasure, you could try manual or oral stimulation after you are done to help her climax. Possibly a toy if she is comfortable with that. The less you worry about it the less of a problem it should be. Focus on having fun together. You can also perform exercises to control it like urinating a little and then stopping and so on and so on for better muscle control.
Psychological factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem, and fear of sexual failure cause are the major factors of such type of problem. Your partner can help with gradual development of intimacy and stimulation. Such techniques also can help relieve anxiety, fear and other psychological factors and change the mood.
However if you want to increase the time you will have to learn to focus on gradual training and improving mental habituation to sex and physical development of stimulation control. One ebook names as ejaculation trainer claim to end premature ejaculation within 1-4 weeks and one medicine known as semenax also make certain claims and guarantee for money back if you are not fully satisfy. You will find information about this and other products on following website: -
http://www.lifestyle-health-fitness.com/...
getting drunk works too.
Seriously you need to desensitize the head. make it a little numb and you can do that by taking it in the palm of your hand and roughing it up a little..pinch the head twist it, it gets numb fast and will help a lot