HELP!! is there a cream or spray that i can uses for premature ejaculation I need help? -

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Premature ejaculation problem? -

Premature ejaculation problem? -

so i had sex for the first time a few days ago but the problem is i came about a minute after penetration. is this normal for a virgin at my age (16)? will it ever get any better?

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I was 35 when i first had sex, i was worried sick about that problem, but for some unknown reason, i lasted 20 or 30 minutes, i just took it slowly, and didnt get over excited. and she was a virgin too. I am sure you will last jsut as long or even longer in the future, do not worry ok..

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Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

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Kinsey clearly showed that more than 70% of heterosexual males orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration.

The length of time it takes you will get longer as time proceeds (and as you practice). Likewise, masturbation is known to help increase the length of time you last.

So yes, it will get better over time. Don-t sweat it, you are fine. If you are worried about pleasing your partner and you happen to be heterosexual then I suggest going down on her first for 10 to 20 minutes. If you happen to be homosexual, don-t worry, you have pleased him, I promise (I-m gay myself, I know what we like.).

Be at peace, kind thoughts,

Hermes

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1st of all,it won-t get worse!! But ,yeah it gets better.Most men last about a minute,under most situations.Seeing that it was your 1st,as you say,I-d imagine you were pretty worked up.A minute under those circumstances is damn good.You-ll need to learn a lot more about HER orgasms before you get good though.Put your mind on that and you will be a lot better off.

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Don-t worry about it man. If she-s the girl for you, she won-t care!!

I can-t comment on if it-ll get better, but I believe if you jerk off using the stop-n-go method, it-ll get better.

Good luck

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Yes. The more you do it, the more your body will last holding it in. Practice, practice, practice. She probably understands if it was ur first time.

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Your performance will improve with time.

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My ex boyfriend only lasted about 30 seconds so hey you got it better then he does lol!

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Frequent ejaculation? -

Frequent ejaculation? -

I-m around 13-15 and I often ejaculate. But if I ejaculate 2 times a week would that like harm my body health because I-m letting off precious DNA......?

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No it wont harm your body. You can do 12 times a day or 1 time a month and it wont harm your body at all.
LUKE S:-)

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Well -- the short answer is NO, not at all.

1.) 2 times a week is NOT frequent. Most males ejaculate at least daily -- and often more than daily -- just for comparison.

2.) You don-t LOSE DNA in sperm, your dna is copied to the sperm, but it is copied automatically -- you can-t lose any of your dna or take any damage from ejaculating. Every cell you have contains your dna, sperm is made literally ONLY to be ejaculated, and you don-t lose any dna when it is ejaculated.

The long and the short is that masturbating and ejaculating are good for you -- not bad. You take NO damage, although if you do it daily or more often, you do reduce your risk of prostate cancer for life.

You are fine, believe in yourself.

Kind thoughts,

Hermes

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2 times a week? Most guys your age do it 2 to 3 times a DAY! Masturbation will not cause any harm to your body, and ejaculating will not release anything that can-t be replenished. So... as long as you are not letting masturbation interfere with your normal daily activities and social interactions, have at it!

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It won-t harm you but it is in a way killing a unborn baby because it has potential to be a baby but God created wet dreams so don-t let anyone tell you different btw wet dream - ejaculation during sleep

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honestly people may say itd doesnt matter but think about it yourself its sorta commensecne, if its not going in anyone then its going to waste, sure more will come back but then again whats gone is gone

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Ejaculation Problem!!!!? -

Ejaculation Problem!!!!? -

Its been one year that we are married but I cannot ejaculate. I can ejaculate during mastubration but not during intercourse. We need a child now.....also wish to enjoy our sex life. We love each other and enjoy foreplay. But the problem is that I cannot ejaculate even after 30 minutes of strokeplay. Expert guidance required!!!

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Sometimes in your position the anxiety due to your having to perform can be an issue. Tell her to try doing kegels to tighten the walls of her vagina and you should try some pc muscle excercises to be able to control your ejaculation. Try some tantra techniques or look into taoist sex techniques.
there might be several factors contributing to your situation. You didn-t mention if when he -takes matters into his own hands- you provide additional stimulation . For instance to his legs, testicles, perenium etc. You should discuss this with him but at a time other than during sex. it is quite posible he achieves orgasm easier and with more intensity while maturbating and with your assistance. Aside from being erotic it is considerable less strenuous. Quite frankly shortness of breath or muscle fatigue may be inhibiting ejaculation during intercourse. Try increasing foreplay to get him closer to climax before intercourse. Try running your nails on his knees or reaching under to touch perenium. Possibly even add verbal stimulation and encouragement. If a guy sense he is on the clock ,lets say that might delay orgasm. do some genital excercises too. Most of all relax. Your brain is a tricky thing. Relax.

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As you know that testies produce sperms,as u said that u ejaculate in masturbation,don-t try to masturbate for 5 to 6 day-s than have a intercourse,diffeniately you will ejaculate,don-t forget to eat onion as it is responsibble to produce sperms in testies..This may help you.

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It very simple to solve. Get your wife to masturbate you till it almost going to ejaculate then have intercourse. Did you use this method already. I can-t see how it shouldn-t work, if you say you can ejaculate by masturbation.

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Ya, Mako has a good idea I was thinking the same thing. If only you can make yourself ejaculate, masturbate and have your wife masturbating with you. When you are about to ejaculate start intercourse with your wife and finish. Good luck!

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As u kown our testis produce sperm daily , all u need to do is abstain from sex and masturbation for 1 week and then participate in sex , eat some spicy food before , ceate a mood for u both and then start the program , it works dear , so happy ejaculation

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Well the problem is easily solved :lay on your back and masturbate and as soon as you come she slides over your penis while you ejaculate:success guaranteed.
Flash.

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you should not masturbate or have sex for a few days before your wife is about to ovulate then when she is go at it! it should be waiting to come out

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watch porn beforeu have sex

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Ya, Flash has a good idea I was thinking the same thing

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