Premature ejaculation problem? -
so i had sex for the first time a few days ago but the problem is i came about a minute after penetration. is this normal for a virgin at my age (16)? will it ever get any better?
I was 35 when i first had sex, i was worried sick about that problem, but for some unknown reason, i lasted 20 or 30 minutes, i just took it slowly, and didnt get over excited. and she was a virgin too. I am sure you will last jsut as long or even longer in the future, do not worry ok..
Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation
The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.
http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…
Kinsey clearly showed that more than 70% of heterosexual males orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration.
The length of time it takes you will get longer as time proceeds (and as you practice). Likewise, masturbation is known to help increase the length of time you last.
So yes, it will get better over time. Don-t sweat it, you are fine. If you are worried about pleasing your partner and you happen to be heterosexual then I suggest going down on her first for 10 to 20 minutes. If you happen to be homosexual, don-t worry, you have pleased him, I promise (I-m gay myself, I know what we like.).
Be at peace, kind thoughts,
Hermes
1st of all,it won-t get worse!! But ,yeah it gets better.Most men last about a minute,under most situations.Seeing that it was your 1st,as you say,I-d imagine you were pretty worked up.A minute under those circumstances is damn good.You-ll need to learn a lot more about HER orgasms before you get good though.Put your mind on that and you will be a lot better off.
Don-t worry about it man. If she-s the girl for you, she won-t care!!
I can-t comment on if it-ll get better, but I believe if you jerk off using the stop-n-go method, it-ll get better.
Good luck
Yes. The more you do it, the more your body will last holding it in. Practice, practice, practice. She probably understands if it was ur first time.
Your performance will improve with time.
My ex boyfriend only lasted about 30 seconds so hey you got it better then he does lol!