Premature ejaculation? -
Embarraing problem this, but the past few time me and the wife have made love its lasted less than a min, last night was the worst ever, we where getting into it and before we even got to penatrive sex I had fired :( Luck she didn-t notice and I made up an excuse I was tired, but its so embarraing. I-ve never had any problem in the past and I think because its happened once I-ll be cautious of this from now on..Don-t make a big deal out of it... once you get off, tell her the second time will be best. Women have multiple orgasms and you can too... it just takes a little longer to recover. But during that time play with her. She-ll love the extra attention and time you are taking with her. Don-t see it as you -spoiled- something but that she turned you on so much that she-s great and you-re ready to do it again.
there are books about this problem at bookstore
Early Ejaculation is the most common sexual problem in men, affecting 77% of men. Some study let suppose a genetic link to certain forms of premature ejaculation also if Psychological factors also commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy. Depending on severity, premature ejaculation symptoms can be significantly reduced. In mundane cases, treatments are focused on gradually training and improving mental habituation to sex and physical development of stimulation control. In clinical cases, various medications are being trialled to help slow down the speed of the arousal response. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI) antidepressants have been shown to delay ejaculation in men treated for different psychiatry disorders. Therefore, the study about those antidepressants still is in progress. Around there are some methods to control PE as to have longer foreplay and stop sexual act at the point when the man first feels he is about to ejaculate, usually within the two minute point, he, and his partner pauses with intercourse completely.
I wouldn-t be overly concerned but I would reconsider the FYI to the wife. WE are astute sensitive creatures and she notices more than you think. This is a typical problem that can easily be resolved with the old spice it up and seduce each other tech niches. Have fun and take the flirting and for play to a new levels, make each other feel important and sexy, communicate openly and build that trust.
it could be a medical problem like enlarged prostate or high blood sugar level, blood sugar level effects muscle control and the muscles that hold you back could be weak from this and letting you shoot early so instead of meds or or over the counter junk try talking with your doctor on your next visit. it may be an early sign of an illness and your doctor wont mind they hear it all the time.
i wouldnt worry you were proberly just over exited and ***** wait. im sure ur girl friend would understand.
Ok man this is gonna sound weird but start masturbating. Like a lot. At least one time per day. This will A: build up some -stamina if you get me. And B: make it much harder to -get there-. Both will lengthen your time.
I envy you.
eh man that sucks...idk beat off a few min before you go to bed or get ready to do it...you kno right before so it will have 2 reload , but give it enough time so usable again..and don-t think about things that make you supper horney when ur doing it....if that doesent wk id go see a doc and get some meds or something
First off, DO tell the wife. We do the laundry, we notice.
I know its very embarrassing, we love you and want to help.
Lots of great advice already on the answers list, the very medical one, is actually correct. I worked in a doctors office for many years and you need to see a professional, this is not just a -sex- thing, its a symptom- emotional or physical.
Lets get it fixed. Don-t worry, trust me- you don-t have to be a wild thing every time, sometimes, it nice for the girl to just receive....there is much more to intimate relationships that intercourse. Ask any pregnant woman? My hubby got more BJ-s than a rock star during the pregnancies.
Best wishes- its normal for most guys, just your brave enough to admit it.
there is nothing to be ashame of about it, it-s a really common problem. Luckily there are also several ways to overcome premature ejaculation. Check on
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