Premature Ejaculation? -
I-m really worried, I-m 15 and learned about premature ejac at school. Whenever I masturbate, i will have an ejaculation after about 30 seconds with lotion. Literally like 20-25 if I-m watching any porn.
What-s worrying me is if I am ever married/ having sex that my partner won-t get any enjoyment because of this
Will the time to ejaculate increase when I-m older?
You will almost always ejaculate faster when you masturbate than when you are having sex, but it is a good exercise for you to start learning how to delay the ejaculation. When most men masturbate they use the most effective stroke as rapidly as they can bringing themselves to a rapid orgasm. Try aiming for a time. Start with something small, say 1 minute. Vary the strokes and speed to maintain your erection while not ejaculating. Increase the goal time slowly. Once you get the hang of how to slow down and prevent an unwanted ejaculation, then you are set and ready to use those skills to please a woman.
That-s not unusual for 15. After you finish puberty (like 19-20) your hormones slow down and it takes you a little bit longer to reach orgasm. Also, with practice you can control it more... you can have sex but kind of ignore the feeling so that it lasts a good while, and then really focus on feeling it when you want to have an orgasm.
If you still have a problem with finishing too quickly, there are things you can do. The most common is to masturbate maybe an hour or two before having sex. That way you-re not as horny and you-ll be able to last longer. You can also buy products such as a desensitizing cream, it numbs you up a little bit temporarily so that you can last longer.
One other idea is to really get the girl going first, by either fingering her or giving oral or something like that... and then start having sex once she-s already really turned on. That way if you only last a couple of minutes it could still be enough for her.
So it-s really nothing to worry about, you will eventually start lasting longer and you can work around the problem if you have to.
dont go so fast! seriously you have to practice now,so you wont ejaculate in 30 seconds, unless you want girls to dump you
Girls will laugh at you, hard, and it will hurt.
You-re young. I think this is probably normal. Don-t stress over it. Keep practicing, you-ll get better.
Go to Church.
Premature Ejaculation? -