How to cure premature ejaculation? -
Hi.I believe i have serious premature ejaculation.
it is so fast that i can ejaculate on the first time i touch the vagina. it is really relay really sensitive.
I tried the kegal exercise but i cant really do it ( i dont have what it takes- self control)
I dont really want to take any medicine or perscriptions that require me seeing the doctor.
I was thinking if it is possible just to have sex, and with the time, when i get used to the feeling it will be cured by it self?
I am 19 years old and it is very important for me to try and fix this problem so i could enjoy my sex life as long as i am young.
Just to mention i am really shy when it comes to have sex with girls because of my problem.
so please give a way to cure my self, by my self!
Please, people with personal experience, or people who are expert in the subject please help me!!! im despert!
All my friends are f****** around and i always saying now because i-m shy!
please help
This is very common at your age, I-m sure that your friends are also going through the same thing. Nothing to be embarressed about.
You need to desensitse yourself. Do you masterbate? That is an excellent way to to make yourself try and last longer ( alone or with a partner).
If you feel that you aren-t going to last, you can bring her to pleasure first, before penetration by oral sex.
My one boyfriend was like this and this will change, don-t worry.
The only way you are going to get rid of it yourself and not by going to see a doctor is get some outstanding self control. Otherwise i think you should go see a doctor cause if you are so worried about it affecting you then go fix it and see the doc it will only take one time at the doctor then you have pills and your set to go and don-t have to worry about the issue again good luck.
I know you don-t want to take medicine, but the SSRI antidepressants like Prozac have the side effect of delaying or even eliminating orgasm. Otherwise, this should get better over time. Practice, practice, practice.
Or, you could just think about Rosie O-Donnell when you are having sex.
First you have to see if your problem is in your head enviroment, Also remember this happens to every man at least once in their lives but if you beat yourself up to much you will be traumatised. the Non medical ways to do it is to do any of the following:
1. masterbate and ejeculate prior to having sex.
2.pull out pull back in during sex
3. When you feel your about to ejaculate early thing of a non arosing image baseball, dead dog, ect.. then think of a arousing image.
4. Try visualisation., see yourself doing it
5 do not rule out that your problem could be in your head if so see a therapist.
If you have to see a medical doctor their is no shame treatment their is shame in not geting treatment
Good luck practice safe sex