Ejaculation problem please help? -
When i masturbate it only takes 25 mins or so and im done. When my gf and I have sex i can never orgasm because it takes me to long too and she is done, dry, and sore way before i orgasm. i always have to watch porn to finish. It is really taking a toll on our relationship because not only does she feel bad for not being able to make me finish, but i feel like im hurting her and it isnt pleasurable since she often just has sex way past the point its pleasurable to her just for me. i dont want this happening anymore are there any techniques to make yourself ejaculate faster??You need to stop masturbating to porn. I know that-s not what you want to hear but just hear me out on this... So your body is use to getting off in a particular way. Basically you need to retrain your body and brain to *** with sex. If you need to masturbate use pictures or fantasies of your girlfriend and use KY or lube to make your hand more wet like a real vagina. If you really want to *** with her your going to have to make some drastic changes to your routine. Obviously the porn and self satisfaction is not getting you any closer to making it happen with your girl... If you could go 3 days cold turkey and then try some fourplay before sex it just might work for you. But don-t forget, you can-t learn a language in just a week so you have to keep at it..
Let me know if it works. My BF is in the same boat... 2 months and he still hasn-t got off with me...
I would have said that was a good thin but i guess if its hurting its not. Most people ejaculate to fast. I used to at one point.
For your situation try different positions. Try foreplay for ages not just a few minutes. This will get you totally worked up and then when you do go for the main game then you should have no problem.
Try looking on the net for new ways of doing it and look for different types of foreplay as well.
I dont mean that insulting like you cant think yourself i mean you will no doubt find things you never knew or imagined possible.
My husband and I have this same issue. He makes me come several times before he goes. Often I am tired and just friggin done way before he is. It makes me feel bad... makes me feel like my puss isn-t good enough since he can whack off and ejaculate just fine.
We have found doing 20 minutes of forplay... watching porn and playing with each other... 69.... you know.. just forplay, has helped quite a bit.
Good luck.
Unless you-re trying to get her pregnant, you don-t have to finish vaginally. Have you tried finishing between her legs, instead, or on her shoulder, etc.? Perhaps the novelty of the sensation will be sufficient to bring about a sooner ejaculation. Make sure to cuddle afterwards.
do it like they do it in porn;
after she finishes, and comes down from her climax,
start jacking off and come on her boobs, and if she lets you (and dont be surprised if she doesnt, most girls thinks its offensive) on her face.
sorry to hear about your problem...]:
Foreplay definately. The girl doesn-t have to orgasm just by penetration. Work the clitoris and she will orgasm that way possibly? Get yourself some lubricant to keep her moist as well.
(That sounds crude, but it-s a genuine answer)
just try masturbating before you have sex. just dont do it all the way. make sure no semen comes out. then you can finish with her. that sounds so mean. well good luck.
you can try jack off be for or during sex jack off and you can get some lube ky or some Vaseline to keep hear form getting dry or be for you can eat hear out be for you use lube
Foreplay, sometimes the pregame is just as important as the game.
look at porn a little earlyer. Or masturbate more often for less sperm in your balls.