I have a problem with Pre-mature ejaculation...? -
For the longest time since I have had been having sex (since 18) I have had a major issue with Pre-Mature ejaculation.I am currently 24 years old now. I am also married.
I have been married to my wife for 2 years, and dated for 3 years before that.
We must of had sex at least once a day, sometimes twice a day since we have been together.
SO doing that math that is 365 days a year times 5, which is rougly 1,825 times. This is no joke, and it-s not exagerative. We are a very sexually active couple.
WHY WHY WHY. Do I still the issue with pre-mature ejaculation. Don-t you think by now, I would of been able to last longer??? Is there ANY techniques out there to improve my longevity in sex, or duration??
Fleshlight has stamina trainers that work to improve how long you can go without ejaculating.
I saw them advertised on a site once.
Give that a try.
ejaculation is rlly all in ur head. when u feel like ur gona ***, u can do a few things to prevent it. 1)slow down. 2) switch positions 3) hold it in like u have to pee, i know its hard. 4) act like u dnt have to *** AKA take ur mind off of it. this should help ur package realize that it cant control u. u need to take control urself. it takes time for ur body to get used to it, but just give it time and practice and it should help. best of luck! : )
squeeze the tip of it for about 20 seconds and make sure you mind isn-t just thinking about that switch positions , when you feel you have to hold your tip for a while then proceed keep doing this for a while and in no time it will be nothing...it wont be a prob for you
Sounds like you may still be trying to be Macho Man! There-s no sin in foreplay, and taking things slow - easy - enjoy the ride. You don-t have to ride like a bucking bronco. Try stopping just before you feel like you-re going over the edge - then - in a few minutes after the feeling subsides - start back up again. You can do it over - over several times before the grand finale. If that doesn-t work - see a doctor to see if he can prescribe a medication to help you delay it.
its all in your head,brother. try not to think about the sensation so much,and pay more attention to the tv,or your surroundings,or something. it-ll delay the process,big time. trust me. you can delay it some by getting drunk before you have sex,too.
Above is good - also, try a -desensitizer- gel- kinds numbs things and leys you last longer --- If you can-t find in a local store-go online.