Premature ejaculation problem? -
So I have this problem with premature ejaculation. I last a few seconds at the most. 10 or 15.
The thing is that after the first time it-s really hard to ejaculate. I could go on for hours if I wanted to.
Is there a medical reason for this? I can go for just a few seconds the first time, but then the second time I can go for hours.
p.s. I-m not circumcised.
Johona: I used to have your very same problem. After first ejaculation I could last a lot longer. Regretfully, the sensations are not the same, and besides, the first one matters (reputation).
There are medical reasons, yes, the scientific origins of premature ejaculation. I classify them as behavioral reasons (your body is not working well) and psychological reasons (your mind is off-track).
Behavioral causes of premature ejaculation:
1. Low levels of serotonin: This is a chemical that regulates your ejaculatory reflex and scientific studies have found that premature ejaculators lacks in serotonin.
2. Ejaculatory muscles not well trained: Your PC (pubic) muscles are in charge of your ejaculatory response, and if well trained should be able to overcome low levels of serotonin, but usually they aren-t in spite of how easy the training is.
3. Oversensitive penis skin: Sometimes your penis skin is so sensitive, and your mind is not well trained to sense the arousal that you just simply go overboard too fast, and coming too soon then.
Psychological causes of premature ejaculation:
4. Stress: Recent episodes of excessive psychological burdens such as financial problems, boss is a jerk, close relatives problems, pressures to perform well in bed, could wreak havoc your mind, which in turn could, for example, reduce your levels of serotonin, and...well premature ejaculation knocks the door.
5. Traumas: Maybe your first time was lousy, or a guy had a hard childhood...the kind of episodes that leaves a vivid mark on your subconscious, less common but not impossible.
Those, my friend are what I would say the most common scientifically supported causes of premature ejaculation.
Fortunately, there are safe and natural and homemade solutions for each and every cause. For learning how to prevent premature ejaculation I would recommend this site:
http://www.men-sexhealth.com/Premature-E…
I have used Trojan Extended Pleasure condom, that has a cream on the inside that makes the penis a bit numb. It works well for me most of the time. When it works, I could last an hour or more if I wanted to. It pretty much lets me decide when I want to climax.
But there are times when it doesn-t work. If it makes the tip of the penis too numb, you lose some of the pleasure sensation of thrusting. This can sometimes lead to loss of erection and affect intercourse. It can also leave you looking to climax long after your partner has, but this is usually not a problem.
If you are uncircumcized, you can experiment with either pulling your foreskin fully back and expose your tip before putting on the condom, if letting it cover your tip. If you let the foreskin cover the tip, then the condom does not numb your tip as much and that may be good for you.
So if you want to increase the numbing, pull the foreskin back so the condom touches the exposed tip. If not, wear the condom over the foreskin.
You need to experiment a few times before this condom works right for you. Don-t give up after the first time.
Even with this condom, there are times I climax too soon. That usually happens when I am with someone new and having some discreet fun.
Exercise To Cure Premature Ejaculation
The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.
Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.
http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…
Alot of males suffer from a premature ejaculation disorder. There is certain methods you could look up to help but nothing is full proof. It really isn-t a big deal by yourself and with a girl try your best to not concentrate on what-s going on.
The second part is because all of your -bodily fluids- are gone and it takes a while from them to build up again.
Masturbate more this should help it helps me!