Premature Ejaculation? -
My friend in village isI 42 yrs male having PE since adolescence. He ejaculates within a few seconds. He has tried various exercises and techniques which did not help. Now on his own, he has started on Clomipramine 25 mg 4 hrs before bed time. He is asking me till when should he continue the same and when will the effect start showing. Please advise
Dear PE is not so simple. I can tell you one thing that if PE is not treated comprehensively then it remains lifelong. WIth your friends case its a typical SPPE condition where ejaculation is involuantary within one minute of start of intercourse. SSRI or other antidepressants are not permanent solution. They just subside your sexual urge to ejaculate so kill the natural joy of sex.
The treatment of PE aims to make your mind to overshadow the impulse of ejaculation so that you can ejaculate by your will and not by impulse. Its important to re train your inner mind how to sustain the hypersensitivity of sex.
Dr Anil Kumar
Sr Sex Specialist
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
There are three reasons why your friend may be suffering from premature ejaculation.
One reason could be, that as an adolescent, the masturbation habits you developed may have led to this. Typically adolescents masturbate with the intention of reaching orgasm quickly, thus premature ejaculation has been “grooved” into your system.
Now for the second reason, let’s face it we’d all like to be able to make love for hours. There’s one problem though. The body sees sex as a means to reproduce. That said your body is going to try and reproduce as fast and efficiently as possible. This is why premature ejaculation mostly affects men in their teens and 20’s.The catch is, now you have to learn how to control it.
3.The third cause of premature ejaculation is the inability to handle and control intense arousal and sexual stimulation. Once arousal reaches a certain tipping point it becomes almost impossible to hold back ejaculation.
In your pelvic region, various muscles come into play during the ejaculation process. If your friend can identify those particular muscles and if he can use exercises to develop control over them then he can attain total ejaculation control. For controlling premature ejaculation focus on various emotions, thoughts and perceptions that are proven to cause premature ejaculation.
There are some techniques like heart rate technique, breathing technique, training of glans, masturbation and sex techniques. Your friend may find the detail on website given in source