I cant understand.Ejaculation in drops while penis is still erect. What is this which doctor should I consult? -
I am 30. single. And you will find it strange that I have never had sex in my life..!!! But I want you to take my question seriously and give me a proper piece of advice. I usually have wet dreams once or twice in two weeks. When I see porn movies or read erotic novels I get a quick erection. after some seconds of erection I begin to ejaculate drop by drop and my penis remains erect. then it goes down again and some drops come with urine too. I had a gf. once I took my arms and kissed her then laid her on bed and went over her (of course clothes were on) . till then my penis was erect and I was feeling anxious. my penis touched her thigh and i got an immediate ejaculation. she did not notice it and I got up and left. what can I do to solve my problem, which doctor I should go to. and is there any exercise that can help me?Your problem is not being able to get a girl. If she loves you, these other things will not be a problem. Go to a psychotherapist and talk about your problems.
the drops at the begining are called PRE_*** ... this is normal and can be a steady slow flow or just a moistness, or perhaps even none at all, really depends on how turned on you are.
When you had the experience with your gf, premature ejaculation certainly is quite normal for someone experiencing their first sexual encounter.. it happens cos you are woried about comming to quickly, or it can happen cos you are just so tense and turned on dont worry, it will go of it-s own accord when you have had more experience.. try counting patterns on the wallpaper or thinking about work or someone not attractive to you... or tell the person you are with, that it has been a long time since u had sex, and that youa re out of practise... they will be happy to help or lend u a hand...
I-ve never heard of a doctor for this kind of problem but a check up may be useful. If nothing else I recommend just relaxing. The fact that in the olden days men hit their prime and had children at the age of 18 and that your body has made a lot of sperm with no released causes your testosterone levels to be extremely high. The only real way of controlling your body is to relax and test things. The penis is just like any other muscle, ex:arms and legs, it can be controlled to an extent just by your actions and state of mind.
Masturbation is also another way to release your fluids in a controlled manner. This should also stop a lot of your wet dreams because there isn-t as much build up of testosterone and your free to think of other things other than sex.