I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -
I-ve been using this technique for several months on daily basis for about 20min to 45min. I would masturbate until I am near the point of no return then stop and start again. Its very hard for me to not ejaculate during practice/masturbation, but I can make it through the session if I focus very hard. Sometimes I ejaculate a bit, but then can keep going. However I feel I am not making any progress anymore and it does not translate to longer sex in the bedroom with my partner.When I don-t have sex for a few days, I can last maybe 30seconds. With masturbation and practice I can perhaps do 2min of light sex. Will I ever get 5 -10min of strong solid thrusting/sex? Sometimes I can last 5-10min if I wait 4-5hrs after the first short session, but my partner hates this. She wants me to perform on demand. This problem brought me so much sadness. BTW I-m 32 and start having sex at 30. The only way I can have good sex is with medication, which I don-t want to rely on anymore. I do have a bigger than normal size penis and wonder if my glands are larger than normal.
Thanks
Stop and start won-t cure you but it will teach you how to control it, and the practice is so much fun. Your dick size doesn-t mean anything.
Have you tried to make your pubococcygeus muscle stronger? Many men have a weak one. I know I did. Kegels might really help you. Look at
http://kegelcoach.com/
and see if it helps you too. I had lousy control but turned it around. Weak muscles don-t perform well.
It-s all in your head, learn to control your emotions.
Your like a horse procreating. Think about it.
damn man you really need to speak with a doctor...
well technique can play a role. while thrusting try to stay relaxed and keep ur mind off ur partners body e.g massive ****, **** u no all dat stuff. keep ur mind of it and keep goin after u feel ur partner is fully in her orgasm and broken a sweat grabb her boobs/ **** and go crazy. this is something u ant do the first time u-ve had sex u cnt keep ur mind off her. but after a few times u should be able to block out that voice in ur mond that tells u to go madd. keep ur mind off her and keep goin. try oral with her b4 u start gives her a head start of finger her untill she the point that she squirts den stop. after dat u thrust for bout 3 min straight and they go madd.