Thursday, December 13, 2007

On scale 1-10 how bad/dangerous is frequent masturbation amp; ejaculation? -

On scale 1-10 how bad/dangerous is frequent masturbation amp; ejaculation? -

09, very risky especially if you are clumsy, I always end up hitting myself in the chin.

it actually helps you produce more sperm.... me and my husband are trying to concieve, and due to the fact that he already did one tour in iraq, he did a lot of research.... you can only imagine... lol it won-t hurt anything, but if you do it to much it will cause pain to you.... (speaking from my husbands point of view)
Well, the frequent masturbation can irritate the skin, and sometimes cause cuts to form. As for the ejaculation, i-m not so sure about.
Not only is it not harmful, the urge to masturbate is meant to help keep your sperm in optimal condition. Read the article below and scroll down to -sperm warfare-:
2. Doing it too frequently might result in some chafing or soreness. Be sure to lubricate properly and clean up thoroughly afterward.
It is not bad for you...

I asked this is CPR (Creating Positive Relationships) =]

She said there are no symptoms. hahaha
It depends on if you are masturbating so much that your penis is sore and literally raw. If you masturbate and ejaculate once or twice a day I would say the number would rate at 0.
-10, because for men and even woman, it-s very good for health. In men I think it-s the best to flush carcinogens and keeps your junk safe from cancer.
3
You can cause irritation from frequency but that is the only harm... rubbing yourself raw... lol
masturbation is healthy prevents prostate cancer and many other things
0
8: anytime you become dependent on stimulation, it-s not good
lol it is not bad for you, it relieves stress which is good for you.
IT is not dangerous at all.
0 (or 1 if we use your scale)
Pretty dangerous....you might hit somebody in the eye with that stuff!!
0
0
0
1
0 lol
-10000000000000000000000000
-99999999999999999999999999999999999
How about 0?
umm it makes last less
in actual sex so for girls 10
for guys 0
11?! your penis can blow up!
r u serious? YOU WILL DIE
11
10
YOU WILL GO BLIND!
On scale 1-10 how bad/dangerous is frequent masturbation amp; ejaculation? -

How to over come premature ejaculation? -

How to over come premature ejaculation? -

Depending on severity, chronic premature ejaculation can be significantly reduced, or completely cured. Most sex therapists prescribe a series of exercises to enable the man to gain ejaculatory control. While the exercises are intended for men who suffer from premature ejaculation, other men can use the exercises to enhance their sex lives.
By far the most common exercise is the so-called start-stop technique. While the technique varies, the purpose is to get the male accustomed to maintaining an erection for an extended period of time while gradually increasing sexual tolerance. In doing this exercise, the male obtains an erection through self-stimulation, or masturbation. After achieving an erection, he stops stimulating himself until he begins to lose his erection; at that point, he begins to stimulate himself again. Gradually, over a period of several weeks, he is able to stimulate himself for longer periods of time, eventually gaining ejaculatory control. In order for this technique to be successful, the male should avoid feeling discouraged if he ejaculates rapidly; instead, he should use his sexual responses to learn how to vary the technique in a way that most benefits him. The male can choose to integrate his partner into these exercises.
Kegel exercises, which consist of flexing the pelvic muscle, also play an extremely important role in achieving ejaculatory control. A person can locate his or her pelvic muscle by using it to abruptly stop the flow of urine while urinating.
Kegel exercises are easy and can be performed inconspicuously at any time, unlike the more difficult start-stop technique. The exercises vary, but their aim is to strengthen the pelvic muscle. The male might flex his pelvic muscle for ten seconds, relax for ten seconds, and then repeat the cycle for as long as he can. Or he might flex the muscle ten times, relax, and flex it ten more times, and so forth. Eventually he will be able to flex his pelvic muscle for longer periods of time. Together with these exercises, he should practice learning to release all pressure from the pelvic muscle, which enables the relaxation necessary for sexual satisfaction. The male might also benefit from performing these exercises while erect. While Kegel exercises are helpful in overcoming premature ejaculation, they have been shown to improve the sexual response in both men and women.
The idea behind these pelvic muscle exercises is that with a stronger muscle, the sufferer can stop the flow of ejaculate at will, and he will be able to achieve the orgasm without ejaculating or losing of erection.
The male can evaluate the progress of exercising while urinating. He must try to release only a tablespoon of urine and stop the flow for 2-3 seconds, then to repeat the cycle. When he is able to hold and release the flow without any problem, a good control has been achieved.
The male-s partner is usually integrated into the exercises. They can stimulate the partner using the stop-start technique. When the male has achieved some level of ejaculatory control, he can insert his penis into his partner without thrusting. After his penis becomes accustomed to being inside his partner, thrusting can be gradually included, according to the male-s abilities, using the stop-start technique. In less severe cases, the male might overcome his premature ejaculation early on, making exercises with his partner superfluous.
Men who suffer from premature ejaculation should also practice other forms of relaxation, such as taking long, deep breaths. SSRI antidepressants have been shown to delay ejaculation in twenty to sixty percent of men. While drug and alcohol abuse are linked to several forms of sexual dysfunction, men who suffer from premature ejaculation might benefit from alcohol in very moderate amounts prior to intercourse, such as a glass of wine over dinner. Other pharmaceutical products known to delay male orgasm are; opioids and diphenhydramine.
The male-s partner plays an essential role in enabling him to overcome premature ejaculation. Without understanding and emotional support, the male is unlikely to obtain the level of relaxation required for sexual satisfaction. Both the male and his partner should communicate their feelings openly and with sensitivity. The male should learn to sexually satisfy his partner, orally or otherwise, while they work with him to overcome his premature ejaculation.
Hypnosis has also proven very effective in the treatment of Premature Ejaculation. It is believed that ejaculation is a subconcious habit and by giving the mind hypnotic suggestions to last longer, the problem can be greatly alleviated if not completely cured. Most men report dramatic improvement after only a few sessions of hypnosis.

tie a knot in it hehe
as I understand it, premature is either because the guy is young, over enthusiastic, or hasn-t had sex in a long time so is over anxious....But, sometimes it-s a good thing to have premature. It-s nothing to be embarassed or sensitive about.
practice sex more and just work on control.

It-s all about holding back. Realize that pleasure can last longer, the longer you hold back. good luck
Shag it out first and then penetrate.
not to think more about sex and try YOGA to stop premature ejaculation
viagra pills!!!
use a double condom this will reduce the sensation a Little
How to over come premature ejaculation? -

Help me control my premature ejaculation? -

Help me control my premature ejaculation? -

I am in my tweens age group.Whenever I have sex with my gf I always have ejaculation just a few minutes after penetration.And I think that this is causing some trouble to my gf as she has never said to me that she ever had good orgasm. Even when I masturbate I come very early.This is a really embarrassing problem for me and is ruining my relationship grossly.kindly answer to my questions below ...

If this is premature ejaculation then can you please explain it?

What causes it?

Is there any good training program or book to control it QUICKLY ?
From the problem you stated it appears that you are suffering from Premature Ejaculation.Many men suffer from it but most of them are shy to tell it publicly.I am happy that you have been frank enough to expose your personal problem to the world.I have done a bit of research and tried to write a lengthy response to all your questions.Hope this helps out many other men like you...

What is premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems. The condition is most often described as being an inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. The definition of when ejaculation is premature is subjective. While some men have trouble controlling their orgasm upon entry, others consider 5-10 minutes of copulation too little time. How long a man is able to last is not the important factor in diagnosing premature ejaculation. The crucial issue is if a man is satisfied with the length of coitus.



What causes premature ejaculation?

Most men have experienced this problem at some time in their life. Premature ejaculation was once thought to be caused by drugs or certain infections such as urethritis, but popular wisdom suggests it is more psychological in nature. The exact cause of the condition, however, still remains a mystery.

Premature ejaculation often occurs during the first experiences with sex, and in this case is most commonly attributed to anxiety. The majority of men gradually learn to control their orgasm, and have no lasting effect. Some men will develop a longer-term anxiety toward sex, which can cause a prolonged experience with premature ejaculation.

Sexual behavior is also a factor. The longer the period since last ejaculating, the quicker young men typically reach orgasm. Younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older men, as experience seems to be associated with ejaculatory control.



Any good training book on premature ejaculation?

Luckily I don-t face this problem, thus I haven-t personally read any book on premature ejaculation! But my cousin was suffering from this same problem and he was really worried about it. I had asked him what he did to control his situation. He said that he first tried to search the internet for getting free information on techniques to control the timing of ejaculation. He did find some techniques but could not follow them because there were no accurate instructions on how to practice them correctly(once he had even bruised his pennis while following a squeeze technique in faulty manner! ) So I suggest you to buy some good book on premature ejaculation rather than going for free methods and risking your parts. My cousin afterwards had bought an ebook called Ejaculation Trainer written by Matt Wutzke .He said that it had helped him a lot to extend ejaculation by an extra 15 minutes within 1-2 weeks and he has been improving since then. I first had thought that the book contained some advice on using drugs, but my cousin said that this book had techniques to treat PE naturally without any drugs. Now I don-t want to appear like a sales-person promoting that book, thus I am not giving you any links to buy this book. Rather I searched for a review of this ebook on Google and luckily found an unbiased review of this book whose link I am posting in the sources box below.

Hope my answer helps and I wish you good luck to get over this problem like my cousin did
most young guys in early sexual relationships with a partner have this issue and it is only with practise that they improve their performance
You are right though that sex with a partner should satisfy the needs of both parties and not just the guy
You say it happens when you masturbate also , so practise edging , which is fairly straightforward . You cease stimulation as you feel orgasm approach , then commence again after a little while . You do this stop/start for as long as you can and over time can build up to longer sessions
Similarly during intercourse , you can stop penetrative sex , and switch to using your hand or mouth to arouse your partner and this will lengthen the session . However if all else fails and you do orgasm too quickly , just continue stimulation of your partner and at some stage you will become erect again and 2nd orgasms will normally take longer anyway
Just keep practising , be honest with your partner about how you are trying to improve your technique , and above all just enjoy the time you have together rather than worry about ejaculation before she has reached orgasm
you could try the masturbate and stop Technic play with your penis more and more slowly as you approach orgasm then stop when it feels you are going to come wait a moment then start again this Technic helps you to recognises the feeling just before orgasm you then have to transfer the knowledge to your love making.
If your girl friend cannot get to orgasm before you it-s not necessarily that you are coming to quick it could be your foreplay Technic which you need to improve on when we girl say we want a man that can last it does not mean that we want him to be on top for thirty minutes or so get the foreplay right and you should not need to be (on top ) for more than five to ten minutes max good luck happy humping ;-) x x x
book mike castleman-s -great sex- he adress pe in it, and the two ways of trying to retrain your body.

that said, if your gf hasnt had a really good climax, you arent doing your job. 70+% of women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. if you arent doing oral, using your fingers or a toy to give her a climax, you have a lot to learn about sex.
Hi Tamas

You need to relax more and have a lot more foreplay.
When you are both relaxed then have penetrative sex.
You will be fine.
Try not to think about the premature ejaculation though as the anxiety of that may affect your sexual performance.

Best wishes
Andy
What the hell are you doing having sex anyways if you are only in your tween!. Have you ever thought that this is the problem.
Help me control my premature ejaculation? -
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