Erection, no Ejaculation and not much foreplay? -
I have been intimate 4 times with this guy. I really like him. But our sex life is, well, lacking. He doesn-t seem to be into foreplay, he just likes to be inside me most of the time. He is 52 years old. He says he enjoys sex and he gets and stays erect but he doesn-t seem to want to have oral sex much or touch my breasts very much. I don-t get it. He seems not to be able to relax or something. What can I do to help our lovemaking get better? I-ve never experienced this problem with a man before. Thank you.
You got ta get nasty with
,
Him
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And do it slowly too don-t be in a hurry
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I am 50. I should have expected a man of that age to have at least some idea of how to please a women.
Apparently not.
The trouble is, men have very fragile egos. You are going to have to let him know that he basically sucks in bed, without hurting him too badly. Gentle guidance so you can get what you need from him. He will need to be taught.
Good luck with that; it will not be easy (I expect).
He sounds boring. As awkward as it is, I-d have a talk with him about what he likes and doesn-t like. Come up with a compromise. Make things different for the both of you, and maybe he-ll grow to like (or hopefully love) it.
Maybe he is gay!