Ive Premature Ejaculation at 23? -
Hello everybody.....i am 23....male (of course) and i have PREMATURE EJACULATION....which is starting to affect my beautiful relationship with my woman...although we found a system so that i ejaculate then for the second time give her an orgasm...i used to have it when i was around 17-18 and it went on to around 21 then its stopped till 5 months ago....i ejaculate in less than 4 minutes...you can scream....and its not cool at all....my girlfriend went back to her country since we live in china (she went for an exam) and now am here alone....i wanna prepare for her before she comes back so that i can give her the orgasmes that i used to give her... can i cure it?? can it go away?? what can i do about it?? i dont need a doctor or medication....i need something done naturally....but if u only have medication to advice me then its okay....please help because i know that you know that its very FRUSTATING.Premature ejaculation primarily has a physiological basis. Biologically, men have an orgasm approximately 2-3 minutes after penetrating the vagina. Women, on the other hand, typically take more time to reach the climax. Since in most cases, the partners may not climax together, they are not satisfied and the ejaculation is termed premature.
However, premature ejaculation may be caused by a variety of psychological and social reasons. It is seen that it occurs frequently when the man is under mental stress or anxiety. Anxiety may be due to the fear of non-performance, the fear of being discovered (as during premarital or extramarital sex in our society) or anxiety related to contraction of sexually transmitted diseases or an unwanted pregnancy.
The following techniques may be beneficial in delaying ejaculation:
1. The -stop and start- method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the -Masters and Johnson method-, is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.
2. The squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby -cancelling- the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.
3. Desensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.
4. The couple can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.
The optimal medical treatment for PE has not been established and the U.S. FDA has not approved any drug for its treatment but many studies have shown that a group of drugs called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and drugs with SSRI-like side effects are safe and effective to treat this condition. Dapoxetine is a novel, fast-acting serotonin reuptake inhibitor which under FDA review for the treatment of premature ejaculation. Recent phase 3 clinical trials in patients with premature ejaculation have shown it to be effective in improving the time to ejaculation without any major adverse events, except nausea.
ohh you need to go slow then eventually speed up a bit.. a few -half digs- than go deep once every while.. :) you really need to control the desire to shoot and prolong the period..
i would prefer using -natural- solution to cure rather than taking pills :)
i have learnt quite a few techniques myself from one book.. hehe..
remember there-s a saying -it isn-t the size of that matters, it-s how long and how many times you can make it stand- :)
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practice practise practise! with her on top, facing you is easiest.
and four minutes, as pathetic as it sounds, is not classed as premature ejaculation. although you should be aiming around 25 minutes to satisfy your woman.
just clam down and don-t get worked up when your having sex your age has nothing to do with it guys jack off premature ejaculation
Adolescents frequently go through bouts of premature ejaculation because of their high energy levels and sex drive. When they acquire a girlfriend there is a feeling of extra necessity to perform and bring her to orgasm. This anxiety is normal and, I in fact know of a lot of guys that ejaculate way sooner than you. Overall, it is a noraml thing to be going through, but your 4 minute time-frame is actually not premature at all. The ability to -go again- is where you should focus. Since you have that ability, it becomes a good sexual tool.
As far as lasting longer and natural exercises to help that: studying tantra (tantric sex) I hear helps a lot of people. Also, frequent masturbation is another thing that desensitizes male arousal (more on the line of -practice makes perfect-).
If your goal is to help her orgasm more, than some male on female foreplay can be utilized. You can give her oral, just to name one option. It-s like giving her a head-start. I have heard men discuss to me that they can have all the pleasure they need just by giving their girl oral. However, they say that once they finish her off, they (both partners here) get way more appreciation for the actual intercourse because of the already kickstarted arousal. She-s even more into it after you give her some attention, leading her to appreciate the intercourse on a higher scale.
Best regards,
Jon
According to your question it seems that your a strong person, because in sex every animal try to reproduce so ejaculation has to be done fast.For example , as we know the strongest animal in the jungle is lion ,they ejaculate within 4-6 seconds...But in Society we should think about girls too right? Dnt get up set your a strong person.
what you can do is masturbate once before having sex with her(atleast 30 min before). Or when your above to ejaculate pull away the penis from vagina and using your hands press the area below the testicles ( area between anus and testicles) this will push back the semen. Or in pharmacy you can find drugs such as CUPIDS which delay the ejeculation.And you can involve in anal sex ONLY IF YOUR PARTNER LIKES coz during anal sex ejeculation is delayed in minor amount.and change the sex positions regularly and don-t try always to stimulate the partner by only using penis........try these methods ,medical treatment will be more use full , take pills to prevent prejeculation , its available in many pharmacies...............thank you ,good luck with your love.