HELP!!!Im 16 and can only masturbate for 5 minutes on a good day and am worried i will have prem ejaculation..? -
when i start having sex...what should i do?
working on lastign longer by pausing or slowing down
as for the big moment, masturbate before hand... i forget wehter this makes it longer or shorter....
Continue masturbation to train yourself.
Do the stop and go method.
Your average male lasts around 5 minutes and masturbates regularly. So you are totally normal.
When you start having sex, don-t think of -sex- as just putting your penis inside a girl, wiggling it around for awhile and feeling really special after wards.
Sex is all about intimacy and passion. It involves touching, kissing, foreplay, oral sex and of course, physical attraction and preferably, love as well.
So when you start to have sex don-t think that just because you orgasm, sex is over. You can still mess around and do things. Most men, especially young men, only need a few minutes to recover when they orgasm. Some men don-t even lose their erections and can just keep going! Just relax, and take the time to be intimate with your partner. Cuddle, make out, go down on her - let her go down you. Just don-t limit the sex play to just intercourse and ejaculation.
And as I always tell people great lovers are made, not born. It takes time and practice. In the mean time I would suggest you find some serious literature that can teach you the secrets of great sex. Serious stuff, not like porn but self help books. The Kama Sutra is a good start.