Can you restore strength to muscles contolling ejaculation? mine arent as forceful or intense as before? -

Can you restore strength to muscles contolling ejaculation? mine arent as forceful or intense as before? -

as a 44 year old I find that my semen doesnt discharge as forcefully as before. It sort of takes it time exiting after climaxing....

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Oh... they are the same muscles that control the urination too. Anyway, with the age the loosening of those muscles is a normal fact.
I think it’s not the only event you’re suffering lately, and however you will never be able to reinstate the prior (young) situation, of course.
The question concerns the Sphincter Urethra Muscle and the Perineal Muscle mainly, but Cowper-s glands, Blister, Prostate, Urethra and Testicles too. Maybe there are some rehabilitative methods, but I think that after an obligatory urologic control they should be associated to a pharmaceutical treatment too.

Can you restore strength to muscles contolling ejaculation? mine arent as forceful or intense as before? -

Im confused about ejaculation/puberty.? -

Im confused about ejaculation/puberty.? -

I am currently 13 and two months old. I am fairly short, only about 5- 1-. I have a plumper than normal body build and not much muscle. I am confused because I think I-m under developed. As far as puberty goes, I probably started in about fifth grade (I-m in 7th now) because that-s when I had my first crush and my voice started to crack (it still does, and its kind of embarrassing). But anyway, In the last six months I-ve started growing more hair, like under my arms (only about 3-5mm long) and in the pubic area (about 5-8mm long). All my hair except the hair on my head is very hard to see because its light blond, almost white. In the 12-18 months I-ve noticed I have B.O and so I started using deodorant and that-s pretty much taken care of. What I-m most worried about is my penis. Un-erected it-s only a little over two inches and erected only about three-and-a-half. When is supposed to start growing? Also, I-ve tried everything but I cannot ejaculate. I-m out of ideas for that. I-m worried partly because my girlfriend (we-ve been dating for about 8 months) wants to move forward in our relationship, and says we should have sex. I know I-m a little young but I-m worried to refuse. I love her and want to stand by her side on this but it becomes a problem with such small, seemingly underdeveloped genitals. I do masturbate at least once a day but it seems awkward and foreign because I can-t ejaculate. I try so hard to but I can-t get anything to come out.When is the right age to be able to? Is there anything I can do to make it happen? I-m so confused. Whoever-s reading this I thank you for taking the time and please, please provide some answers to my question. I would most grateful.
- John

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I had the same thing happen to me, I was masturbating two years before I started ejaculating. I think you are not as far into puberty as you think you are. When your body is ready you will ejaculate and there is nothing you can do to hurry it along. You have small undeveloped genitals because you are a child and not ready for sex. Stick with masturbating and forget about moving forward. Just slow down and enjoy your childhood, there is plenty of time to do adult things when you are an adult.

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It will *** around . But don-t be having sex with your GF. You and her are way to young.Neither of you are ready to have sex physically or mentally.And your really not ready to be parents. Keep jerking off. Don-t cave to what your gf thinks shes ready for.

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you-re just a late bloomer and i think you should wait for the sex part.

answer please
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhEuW9D1YeS8IcK2ZNG8Kxnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090425125020AAHFs5G

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TAKE IT EASY. THATS NORMAL I GUESS. I WAS LATE LIKE THAT I GUESS BUT IT ALL WORKED IN THE END..

THERE ARE NO TIMES ...EVERY ONE IS DIFFERENT.I WAS 15 OR SO I BELIEVE.

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First off....as a mother, I am very against you having sex at your age. I also know, however, that I am probably am not going to be the one to stop you. If you are determined, then don-t worry about ejaculating. As long as you can get hard, just enjoy the act. You don-t need to ejaculate unless you want to have a baby and I suspect once your girl touches you, thing will go well. You could also just masturbate each other instead of intercourse. And lastly, if this girl really loves you then she will wait until you are ready!

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Every person develops at a different time. You won-t stay the same way for to long so just try not to stress out about it. As for your girlfriend I would say I don-t want to go to the next level yet and if she isn-t okay with that I would find someone more respectful.

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Basically, you-re normal.
But there-s something called -Independant assortment- which means that genes separate separately (like, its a myth that people with blond hair are taller, for example). So your penis size has nothing to do with height, weight, or whatever else.
People develop later. Don-t worry if you can-t ejaculate, it happens to some people as late as 17 actually. Most people can by grade 8 though.
You are too young to have sex with your girlfriend, even though you want to. Seriously, don-t. You-ll regret it later for one reason or another.
But if you can-t ejaculate, jerk off for like an hour. see what happens. if nothing does, then wait.

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Medically you are not even CLOSE to having fully gone through puberty. You should not be worried about ejaculating until you have completed puberty which could be in three to five more years. If you do not know or understand your own body and its workings, you should not be considering having sex with someone else.

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Relax, man. You-re not doing anything wrong, and there is nothing wrong with you. I-d suggest you wait for sex, also, but if you decide to, don-t worry. Just because you can-t ejaculate doesn-t mean you can-t have sex. In fact it might work in your favor by making the sex last longer. In any case, be smart and protect yourself and girlfriend.

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