Saturday, September 12, 2009

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

When my girlfriend and I have sex. I only last a few minutes, then i ejaculate and lose my libido HELP!!!


I know of one technique you can try, it would be easier if there was someone to do it to you but you can probably do it yourself.
The idea is to bring yourself close to climax and then stop and apply pressure with you thumb or finger to the penis just below the glans on the underside of the shaft. This should stop orgasm. Repeat this exercise a few times per session, either during masturbation or with your girlfriend. If the two of you can talk about this then you can actually make it fun, part of your lovemaking.
Eventually you should learn to have a bit more control, and things will last longer. Have fun with it though, it`s a common problem and will not last forever.
condoms umm i don-t know how to say thins but contact a doctor
go to a adult store and get a ring.. it fit over the base of your thing.. and it should do the trick.. but remeber most men only last a few second to a minute.. i ask my ex sister in law that question and she was prosititue when she was young and that is what she told me
What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

I-ve been using this technique for several months on daily basis for about 20min to 45min. I would masturbate until I am near the point of no return then stop and start again. Its very hard for me to not ejaculate during practice/masturbation, but I can make it through the session if I focus very hard. Sometimes I ejaculate a bit, but then can keep going. However I feel I am not making any progress anymore and it does not translate to longer sex in the bedroom with my partner.

When I don-t have sex for a few days, I can last maybe 30seconds. With masturbation and practice I can perhaps do 2min of light sex. Will I ever get 5 -10min of strong solid thrusting/sex? Sometimes I can last 5-10min if I wait 4-5hrs after the first short session, but my partner hates this. She wants me to perform on demand. This problem brought me so much sadness. BTW I-m 32 and start having sex at 30. The only way I can have good sex is with medication, which I don-t want to rely on anymore. I do have a bigger than normal size penis and wonder if my glands are larger than normal.
Thanks
Stop and start won-t cure you but it will teach you how to control it, and the practice is so much fun. Your dick size doesn-t mean anything.
Have you tried to make your pubococcygeus muscle stronger? Many men have a weak one. I know I did. Kegels might really help you. Look at
http://kegelcoach.com/
and see if it helps you too. I had lousy control but turned it around. Weak muscles don-t perform well.
It-s all in your head, learn to control your emotions.

Your like a horse procreating. Think about it.
damn man you really need to speak with a doctor...
well technique can play a role. while thrusting try to stay relaxed and keep ur mind off ur partners body e.g massive ****, **** u no all dat stuff. keep ur mind of it and keep goin after u feel ur partner is fully in her orgasm and broken a sweat grabb her boobs/ **** and go crazy. this is something u ant do the first time u-ve had sex u cnt keep ur mind off her. but after a few times u should be able to block out that voice in ur mond that tells u to go madd. keep ur mind off her and keep goin. try oral with her b4 u start gives her a head start of finger her untill she the point that she squirts den stop. after dat u thrust for bout 3 min straight and they go madd.
I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

HOW CAN PREMATURE EJACULATION BE STOPPED? -

HOW CAN PREMATURE EJACULATION BE STOPPED? -

CAN DRUG CURE IT? IF YES WHICH DRUG?


No erectile dysfunction cannot be cure by any exercise like pushups and other, this is really a big problem so you have to treat it from medical product like viagra!

Viagra is used to treat the condition of erectile dysfunction in men. Erectile dysfunction is also called impotence, which is where a man is unable to keep a proper erection which is required for satisfactory sexual activity. Viagra has proved to be quite a success, where the treatment of erectile dysfunction is concerned.

Viagra works by relaxing the muscles in the erectile organ which increases the blood flow into the organ, which in turn enables a proper erection. Viagra is also called sildenafil which belongs to a group of drugs called the phosphodiesterase inhibitors. This oral prescription allows a man to lead a normal life in terms of sexual life with his partner.
Hi
Speaking with psychologist often can be very useful. Patient can come to consult the doctor along with his partner. Specialist will help to release stress and to improve quality of sexual life.

Sexual therapy.

There are some exercises that help to learn to delay ejaculation, that can be done alone or with the partner.

1.

Compression method. Partner stimulates your penis with her hand until his erection. When she feels that ejaculation is coming she compresses penis head for several seconds. Erection is coming down partially. In 30 seconds partner stimulates penis again. It should be repeated several times and finally ends with ejaculation.
2.

Interrupter method. Partner stimulates penis until ejaculation. At this moment she stops stimulation and waits until the man cools down. Then again she starts to eat penis with her hands. It repeats until ejaculation.

Pharmacological therapy.

1.

Antidepressants. Drug side effect of some medicines belonging to that group (paroxetine, flouxetine) is orgasm delay. That is why they can be used on doctor’s orders to treat premature ejaculation. If those medicines do not help then doctor prescribes another type of antidepressant called clomipramine.
2.

Creams containing local anesthetic (for example, lidocaine) are used for many years to treat premature ejaculation. Cream application on head of penis opiates sensation and delays ejaculation. Before sex cream should be washed off to avoid its contact with woman’s genital organs.
heres whats u need to do to stop it first u need to get used to watching alot of porn and getting used to have ur dick rubbed againt a girls *** so when ur in school act like ur squished and manuever ur way between two girls and let ur dick rub again there *** then do it for awhile then when ur gf starts dry humping u take her buy the hips and rlly fck her hoped i helped
YOu need the opion of a doctor for that.

Im sure you will get an answer with someone messing with you like x, so go see a doctor so you dont take something that will make it go even faster!!!
You have to learn ejaculatory control.......:)


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naturally beat the premature ejaculation?

WWW.PREMEJACULATION.TK
during puberty erections happen all the time and there is no way to prevent or stop them but it will get more controllable as puberty progresses
think about fat pigs !
HOW CAN PREMATURE EJACULATION BE STOPPED? -