Pre-mature ejaculation? -

Pre-mature ejaculation? -

Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now and we both really like each other and are very comfortable with each other.. we have done everything together except have sex..

last night we decided it was going to be the night to lose our virginity, were both virgins, we were both ready to go.. if you get me but as he was putting the condom on, he came.. so that was the end of that.. this has happened before usually when were making out and feeling each other.. is he ok? Is that normal?

Were meeting again tomorrow night so we-ll try again, hopefully it wont happen again :|
also, im a girl.. im scared about the pain, and he knows this... what position is best for my/our first time? would i be better on top or should he? pain wise? i strongly HATE pain

thanks x

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Ok here is the thing with pre mature ejaculation... it happens alot... people just dont like to admit it, now this is all you got to do, keep trying, thats it, once it becomes customary for him to be aroused like this then hell stop, it might take a while but it will happen, for a virgin its especially hard cuz htink about how a guy thinks sex sex sex school sex sex sports sex sex sex tv sex thats it especially in teen years so when the time comes, of course hes gonna be excited, so dont worry time will take care of that


now about the pain, the easiest way to keep away from it is to let him finger you a bit before insertion, try doing two fingers if you can and if not then tell him to rotate his finger and try to hit the walls of your vaginia to kinda make a little room, yes the vagina is going to close again i mean of course, but it will be ready, missionary is best, tell him to go in slow and keep your legs open wide, tell him not to put it all in at once maybe a half inch at a time and very slow, when hes in it might hurt a tiny little bit since you took it slow, just tell him to move in and out verrrrrrry slowly, once he can speed up , tell him to grind, this action will again get the vagina ready for what is to come, and when it dosnt feel like its a struggle anymore, let him go at it, starting slow and barlely getting faster every mintue or so

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is uncontrolled Ejaculation, either before or shortly after sexual penetration, with minimal sexual stimulation and before it is desired. PE may result in an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both partners.

Premature ejaculation (PE) is the most common sexual dysfunction in men 18 – 40 years of age. Premature ejaculation is very common. Recent studies show that up to 1 in 3 sexually active men are affected by this problem.

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This sounds normal we all go through this we are so horny and the first time we can ejaculate rather fast we seem to lose control when it comes to intercourse and if it is the first time. It may take awhile you may to have him masturbate or you jack him off about an hour before you guys go at it this may help. Good luck!

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Sounds to me like hes just well overly sensitive down there or he needs to had some hand time before he sees you so it-s not built up.
As for the pain for your first time its going to hurt no matter what i don-t think there is any position that wil lessen this pain by much.

Hope this help.
Jim

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thats way early , but he should get better, just stick to missionary position, him on top of you , vice versa, it will hurt a little the first time , but after that it will feel real nice

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pain is good tell him to jack off before or think about something gross and he wont ***

Pre-mature ejaculation? -

Could I get rid of premature ejaculation if I have my frenulum surgically cut? -

Could I get rid of premature ejaculation if I have my frenulum surgically cut? -

Whenever I have sexual intercourse and my penis gets hard, my glan feels really sensitive. During this time it get so sensitive I can-t control the release of my sperm. Physicians have coined my condition as premature ejaculation. In addition to my problem, my glan is sensitive when its in motion (doggy style postion and etc) and when its inside a female vagina (especially if she is wet). Release of my sperm cannot be controlled mentally in these 2 types of situations. I did some research and the problem could be that my frenulum is still intact to my glan. Is it worth it to lose my pleasure of my current sexually orgasim to only trade it off for extended ammount of time during fornication to pleasure the girls I go out with? My friends can-t even help me with this question because they had their frenulums removed when they were born. Will I lose the sensitivity of m glans if I get it removed? And will it interfere with my future status of performing fornication as I get older? HELP ME

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NO! The glans and the frenulum are the two most pleasurable parts. The equivalent is like asking a woman to cut off her clit! NOOOOOOOOO!


Just use a desensetizing gel and put some into the inside of your condom.

That is, unless you really don-t like sex.

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- when its inside a female vagina (especially if she is wet). -

as opposed to a male vagina?

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uncircumcised penises have a more sensitive head, if u cut it you probably will last longer, there for taking some pleasure away from yourself but giving more to you lover =)

Could I get rid of premature ejaculation if I have my frenulum surgically cut? -

How to avoid Premature Ejaculation? -

How to avoid Premature Ejaculation? -

Hi, I know this has been covered before but I would like some fresh ideas on stopping P.E.

Also, how comes people always say that diet effects it and make you feel like you are less of a person? Surely, in the wild - coming quickly would be more efficient for reproducing...?

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Hello

I would recommend you to go to a doctor and talk about your problem, the doctor knows best. He can really help you and give you the right answers and the treatment.

It-s difficult to solve this problem alone, because it takes time and an effort for you both. It can-t get solved quickly in one day, but it takes maybe longer time to have good results.

A good option it-s when you have a nice romantic dinner, after you both take a bath together. Then you go both to bed and you and he can massage you together. He than can play with his tongue on you and later introduce his penis 4 or times only half of the penis inside you and then after that introduce it all. A good position is when you-re upstairs and his down, so you can control the rhythym and he will not come quickly. I takes practice too, and with time and maybe the help of a doctor will give good results.

I hope that you can solve that problem quickly and have a satisfied sexlife together, take care of you. You shouldn-t be worry about, because it can come all good if you-re confident and searching help, too. Good luck!!!!

What Is It?

Premature ejaculation occurs when a man reaches orgasm and ejaculates too quickly and without control. In other words, ejaculation occurs before a man wants it to happen. It may occur before or after beginning foreplay or intercourse. Some men experience a lot of personal distress because of this condition.

As many as one in five men experience difficulty with uncontrolled or early ejaculation at some point in life. When premature ejaculation happens so frequently that it interferes with the sexual pleasure of a man or his partner, it becomes a medical problem.

Several factors may contribute to premature ejaculation. Psychological problems such as stress, depression and other factors that affect mental and emotional health can aggravate this condition. However, there is growing evidence that biological factors can make some men more prone to experience premature ejaculation.

Rarely, premature ejaculation can be caused by a specific physical problem, such as inflammation of the prostate gland or a spinal cord problem.

Symptoms

The key symptoms of premature ejaculation include:

Ejaculation that routinely occurs with little sexual stimulation and with little control
Decreased sexual pleasure because of poor control over ejaculation
Feelings of guilt, embarrassment or frustration
Diagnosis

Premature ejaculation is diagnosed based on typical symptoms. To understand your problem, your doctor will need to discuss your sexual history with you. Be frank and open. The more your doctor knows, the better he or she can help you.

If your sexual history fails to reveal significant mental or emotional factors that may contribute to premature ejaculation, your doctor may want to examine you. Your doctor may examine your prostate or do neurological tests (tests of your nervous system) to determine if there is a physical problem that could be causing premature ejaculation.

Expected Duration

Sometimes, premature ejaculation goes away on its own over weeks or months. Working to relieve stress or other psychological issues may help the situation to improve.

Other men have lasting difficulties with premature ejaculation, and require professional help. Some men respond to treatment promptly, while others struggle with this problem over a prolonged period. Effective treatment is available.



Prevention

There is no known way to prevent premature ejaculation. However, you should consider the following advice:

Maintain a healthy attitude toward sex. If you experience feelings of anxiety, guilt or frustration about your sex life, consider seeking psychotherapy or sexual therapy.
Keep in mind that anyone can experience sexual problems. If you experience premature ejaculation, try not to blame yourself or feel inadequate. Try speaking openly with your partner to avoid miscommunication.
Treatment

Behavioral therapy is one possible approach for treating premature ejaculation. Most commonly, the -squeeze technique- is used. If a man senses that he is about to experience premature orgasm, he interrupts sexual relations. Then the man or his partner squeezes the shaft of his penis between a thumb and two fingers. The man or his partner applies light pressure just below the head of the penis for about 20 seconds, lets go, and then sexual relations can be resumed. The technique can be repeated as often as necessary. When this technique is successful, it enables the man to learn to delay ejaculation with the squeeze, and eventually, to gain control over ejaculation without the squeeze. Behavioral therapy helps 60% to 90% of men with premature ejaculation. However, it requires the cooperation of both partners. Also, premature ejaculation often returns, and additional behavioral therapy may be needed.

Another possible treatment is prescription medication that helps to delay ejaculation. Delayed orgasm is a common side effect of certain drugs, particularly those used to treat depression. This is true even for men who are not depressed. When this type of medication is given to men who experience premature ejaculation, it can help to postpone orgasm for up to several minutes. Drugs used for this type of treatment include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil) or sertraline (Zoloft); and tricyclic antidepressants, such as clomipramine (Anafranil).

There is also preliminary evidence men with premature ejaculation may benefit from drugs called phosphodiesterase inhibitors, such as sildenafil (Viagra), vardenafil (Levitra), and tadalafil (Cialis).

Some men with premature ejaculation also benefit from reducing the stimulation they experience during sex. A number of creams are available that can partially anesthetize (numb) the penis and reduce the stimulation that leads to orgasm. Another option is to use one or more condoms. However, these techniques may interfere with the pleasure experienced during sex.

When To Call A Professional

Speak with your doctor if you consistently ejaculate before you want to. Remember, one instance of premature ejaculation does not mean that you have a condition that requires treatment. Your doctor may refer you to a sex therapist if premature ejaculation is causing major problems in your sex life or personal relationships or if you would like to consider behavioral therapy

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Just think about your mom!! haha

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Practice Practice Practice.

You just have to learn helps you. I myself have had sex with my girlfriend enough that i know how to get her to orgasm faster than i ejaculate.

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Legend has it that premature ejaculation isn-t a problem amount sheep herders... We aren-t sure what the connection is....

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for one, masturbate about an hour before sex.
also use the stop and go technique and the sqeeze technique.
the stop and go is how it sounds - pull out before you feel like you are going to ejaculate and wait a minute and relax and start agai - you can do this like 3-5 times
the squeeze technique is just puling out before ejaculation and lightly squeezing the head of your penis until the senation of ejacualton goes away.
if thise descriptions arent enoguh if you type them into a search engine you should get some stuff on it.
If worst comes to worst, see your doctor and let them help treat you.
Good luck

How to avoid Premature Ejaculation? -