Pre-mature ejaculation? -
Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now and we both really like each other and are very comfortable with each other.. we have done everything together except have sex..last night we decided it was going to be the night to lose our virginity, were both virgins, we were both ready to go.. if you get me but as he was putting the condom on, he came.. so that was the end of that.. this has happened before usually when were making out and feeling each other.. is he ok? Is that normal?
Were meeting again tomorrow night so we-ll try again, hopefully it wont happen again :|
also, im a girl.. im scared about the pain, and he knows this... what position is best for my/our first time? would i be better on top or should he? pain wise? i strongly HATE pain
thanks x
Ok here is the thing with pre mature ejaculation... it happens alot... people just dont like to admit it, now this is all you got to do, keep trying, thats it, once it becomes customary for him to be aroused like this then hell stop, it might take a while but it will happen, for a virgin its especially hard cuz htink about how a guy thinks sex sex sex school sex sex sports sex sex sex tv sex thats it especially in teen years so when the time comes, of course hes gonna be excited, so dont worry time will take care of that
now about the pain, the easiest way to keep away from it is to let him finger you a bit before insertion, try doing two fingers if you can and if not then tell him to rotate his finger and try to hit the walls of your vaginia to kinda make a little room, yes the vagina is going to close again i mean of course, but it will be ready, missionary is best, tell him to go in slow and keep your legs open wide, tell him not to put it all in at once maybe a half inch at a time and very slow, when hes in it might hurt a tiny little bit since you took it slow, just tell him to move in and out verrrrrrry slowly, once he can speed up , tell him to grind, this action will again get the vagina ready for what is to come, and when it dosnt feel like its a struggle anymore, let him go at it, starting slow and barlely getting faster every mintue or so
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This sounds normal we all go through this we are so horny and the first time we can ejaculate rather fast we seem to lose control when it comes to intercourse and if it is the first time. It may take awhile you may to have him masturbate or you jack him off about an hour before you guys go at it this may help. Good luck!
Sounds to me like hes just well overly sensitive down there or he needs to had some hand time before he sees you so it-s not built up.
As for the pain for your first time its going to hurt no matter what i don-t think there is any position that wil lessen this pain by much.
Hope this help.
Jim
thats way early , but he should get better, just stick to missionary position, him on top of you , vice versa, it will hurt a little the first time , but after that it will feel real nice
pain is good tell him to jack off before or think about something gross and he wont ***