Premature ejaculation? -
Hi would love an honest answer guys how long would be the normal amount of time a man can have sex with a women before he ejaculates- when he enters women till when he comes?is it a matter of secounds, minutes, maybe number of thrusts etc My partner thinks he might have premature ejaculation???
the average time for actual intercourse is sadly only 5-7 mins. so if he is with in this time range, then its normal. However, many men(and women) would like to last longer. Therefore, i recommend an exercise called -kegels-, this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you-ll have the ability to last as long as you want.
Hope this helps
Depends on age, experience, and sensitivity. If your mate is having problems there, there are a number of way you can help. First, they do make a cream that desensitizes the penis. Then you can practice masturbating him to where he learns how to control his orgasm better. There are several methods though, just google -help with premature ejaculation-.
Honestly it REEEEAALY depends on the preliminary activity and what kind of motion is going on...
If Ive been neck deep in her lap for a good long time and shes been -teasing- me the whole time I might be completely ready to -go- after 10 good strokes once I finally get in there.
If the motion is a full in and out, to the hilt and Im on top doing all the work, kind of thing it also goes much faster than if say, shes on top and I can relax a little more and breath plus shes all the way on me but instead of rising up and dropping down causing the full entry withdrawal thing, shes rotating her hips to push forward against me and then back, more grinding, then I can ALWAYS outlast her and then some until I-m ready to finish on my own time or she collapses and we roll over and I finish my business so to speak.
Basically its about how hard he has to work vrs can he relax and breath deep, focus on lasting... relax a little, And how intense the friction is on him. Reduced friction but extra pressure as I explained above, feels just as good but lets him go longer which = more fun for both of you... and also the more hes worried about being premature then more likely he is to be tense (tension being the enemy of go long duration) and then go off early...
Younger, healthier guys are going to finnish very fast. If it-s too fast for you encourage them the go multiple rounds in one setting.
This is also a good test; becuase if he really likes you he will be all about going a round 2. If he just wanted to get off he won-t.
Older or fatter guys will last longer but are more likely to go one and be done.
Nothing is normal, it depends on a lot of factors.
Varys
I find that is can be 2 pumps and a squirt - a quickie; but guess it would average 10-15 minutes...all depends on the moment (time, place, mood etc etc)!
Alcohol obviously can affect performance but if you not getting the benefit you may need to empty his tanks more frequently....maybe a bj before getting on the job! You-ll it will last much longer....or give me a bell!
It varies because of how much he is excited by carrying out intercourse on average I would think three to five minutes, if your partners thinks he has problems there is a spray called delay spray and it does just what it name suggests, buy it from an Anne Summers shop
I last anywhere from 30 seconds to 2 minutes tops...
However I always satisfy with oral as part of foreplay!
there-s all sorts of governing factors but some man last for 30 seconds and some for 20minutes there-s no hard and fast rule
but there is no normal time hun. as long as you both have a good time dont compare to others and dont listen to idle boasting either.
well when she is going a great job 5minutes a bad job 8minutes. with spray it will take me longer great will take me 13minutes and bad takes me 19minutes
For most men, I think that studies show minutes once the couple gets to the -entering- part.
30 secs - 2mins