There we go again, another premature ejaculation. Please help!? -
Problem is, i cant last longer than a bloody 60-90 seconds in bed!! Now, here comes the funny part, if im masturbating its MUCH longer. 10-15 minutes which of course i think is normal and good! I just wish i could do that in bed too ...Right, I have tried everything ... such as :
Masturbating before : It works but only really increases it by about 30seconds!! -- And the problem is i really cant manage a another one after while if i did do it before i could of managed 2 in a row in bed!
The Triangle breathing technique : Which you breath for 5 seconds, hold it for 5 and then let go for 5 seconds ..
Not thinking about doing it : What?! You want me to think of pigs when doing it!? This one just never really works!!
At this point, as you might tell its being a big problem and really ruining all the god damn confident i had and making me look like a Dick in front of my gf! .. Asking a doctor is not really a option for me at this point ( Embrassment, young ( Only 16. ) and alot more! ).
Please help ...
Much apperciated
crap, that is a problem =S
hmm, well maybe u shud finger her til shes close then **** her to finish the job for both of u
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i no its not quite the same
duno wot else to say really, or else **** her til u ***, in like 30 seconds, then get hard again and see if the second time lasts longer cuz uv already had one release?
Obviously you get too excited when having sex with your hot babe, you need to relax and concentrate on anything but your penis.
Slow down and when you go to c*mm stop moving and get your G/f to pinch your penis tight to stop you c*mming.
Do that a number of times nd you should last longer, she will be happy if you always, and I mean always, satisfy her with your tongue on her clitoris, and a lubed finger in her butt will drive her wild!
Is it possible that your gf has a very seductive look on her face and makes sounds that excite you more? I think it-s all about how much the girl excites you. Masturbation has no girl screaming~~ harder and harder or breathing deeply, and seductive faces. That comes with the real thing and by your story I am guessing she is very attractive and very pleasing to you. I would do this! I would maybe try to get her to that ultimate orgasmic feeling, which in turn is going to excited the H@)) out of you but! She will get to feel that same incredible orgasm that you will feel 30 seconds after you hear her SCREAMING! Not screaming in a bad way.
Try using a thick condom. Really, test some out that mitigates the amount of sensation you get. I heard there are even some which are made with that in mind. Basically find the one that leaves you the least sensation. You could even try wearing two. Otherwise, it seems like you have tried the other remedies (thinking of something else, coming before hand, etc.)
You may also be thinking so much about it that you come too early, so perhaps that plays into it too.
You could also try withdrawing before coming several times just to build up the amount of time you are engaged with your girl, but that might frustrate her too.
Good luck.