Need help with pre-mature ejaculation? -
serious question. Any suggestions? Anesthetic cream helps.In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.
Some helpful techniques include the following:
Masturbate an hour or so before having sex.
The -stop and start- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The -squeeze- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
Why would you want to solve it??? women have multiple orgasms, why shouldn-t us men.. Do this... When you reach orgasm, keep going (pumping), DONT STOP AT ALL.. just keep right on going.. If you don-t stop at all, you will stay hard, and the next orgasm will take ALOT longer.. keep doing this as long as you want to continue having sex... Your partner will think you are a SEX GOD, and you will be one of the few LUCKY males that get multiple orgasms...
As some people have suggested before, when you are about to ***, think of having sex with your old, wrinkled grandmother! You could use a couple of condoms to cut down the sensations you feel. If it is of great concern to you, see a doctor.
Dont put Anesthetic cream near your penis, that may cause nerve damage which would most likely permanently solve your problem, but not in the way you want it too. I-m sure you want a cure to this while still having feeling in your penis. The PC muscle is the muscle you need to learn about to fix this. I recommend looking it up, but basically, if you take a piss and then force yourself to stop peeing, the muscle that does that is the PC muscle. If you strengthen it with some daily exercises, you can eventually use it to stop from cumming.