It takes like...for my bf to ejaculation during sex...is that normal? -
We are both 19, and started having sex the first time a few months ago. Not very experienced.wow where do I start
first off two big mistakes young guy make is thinking that to satisfy a woman you need a huge prick (wrong) and that you have to last as long as a porn star again (wrong)
No guy last 40 minutes unless he is controlling it ( or drunk lack of feeling because of alcohol)
Ejaculation in under 10 minutes never mind 20 is normal and is plenty of time to give a women an orgasm provided the foreplay has been done correctly
your boyfriend has like most young guys probably watched lots of porno films and therefore come to the conclusion that for sex to be good for you it must last as long as possible (totally wrong)
but bless him he maybe wrong but at least he is trying to please you. it-s certainly nothing to do with you not being attractive or sexy enough he is just trying to please you
you are both inexperienced and it is important for you both to communicate honestly what you want, what you like, and what you dislike talk, talk, talk and show him how you like to be stimulated and most impotent never never fake it
If you get the foreplay right you will only need a couple of minutes of penetrative sex to reach orgasm he can then stop without ejaculating then start your build up again with tongue or fingers
this is a much better way than just endless boring in-out sex which just ends up making the women sore especially if he is circumcised
start talking honestly to him about what you like I think he will be only too please to go along with what you want
Jill X
Ps as far as finding it hard to orgasm is concerned most girls do at first the secret is to totally relax try to visualise whats happening down there and just let the feeling flow though you rather than tensing up or trying to force it to happen
I had exactly the same problem at first just like most girls but now I can orgasm three times per minute yes do did read that right and that-s no record one American women can have 12 per minute wow! (knackering but wow!)
have fun
It could be it is a possibility that you are thinking about it a little to hard and being to hard on yourself get sexy feel sexy he obviously likes you and you are blessed to have a man that lasts well i-m sure it-s not that you are unattractive he just lasts so you need to stop thinking about it so much and you need to get into it and that will prolly help you with your own orgasms let yourself be taken away and be greatful that he takes you away that long silly *** some guys are min men and there girls don-t *** at all cuz it-s all over to quick
totally normal for a guy! no worries! the reason he is hard is cuz he-s turned on by YOU! and trust me, it-s hard for a woman to have an orgasm. if you want to orgasm while having sex with him, try playing with your clitoris while he-s on top. it feels great. and trust me! he stays hard cuz you turn him on.
good luck, and have fun!!!!
Seems like he-s really into you and wants the -moment- to last. Most guys complain of ejaculating to soon - Be Happy - Relax - And ENJOY!
-----Most 19 year olds DO NOT control their orgasm-----
try moaning loudly and saying dirty things