Premature ejaculation.? -
I really like him but I also like sex that lasts longer than two minutes.
Suggestions?
A friend of mine had the same problem maybe even worse when he was like 18 or 19.
He told me him and his girlfriend did a lot of foreplay, however he got so excited that as soon as his penis touched his girlfriend-s vagina and started to penetrate her he would shoot his load. It was very embarrassing for him and I-m sure very dissapointing for her. He was almost in tears as he explained his problem in the bedroom.
A few days later he hugged me and thanked me for the advice I gave him, here-s what I told him to do.
I told him the answer is really simple, before you meet up with your girlfriend go to the bathroom and masturbate. Than when you two get together have your foreplay and a lot of it. When you two are ready to have intercourse, tell her you have to go to the bathroom. Masturbate again and than go back into the bedroom, have only a few minutes of foreplay just to get you hard again and than bump nasties and enjoy all the erotic sensations of intercourse.
Also, somone put the idea in his head when he was a young boy that masturbating was a sign of being Gay. I told him to get rid of those feelings of guilt and to start masturbating more often if you want to control your orgasm and have long lasting sex with your girlfriend.
Who makes up these stories to frighten young boys about sex, what are these mom-s thinking.
No wonder so many guys are inhibited in the bedroom and so many woman pretend to be satisfied by their man.
Hmm... tell him to start doing Kegels. No, they aren-t just for women. There-s plenty of sites that tell him how to do them. It-ll help him control it better. Also, tell him that when and if he masturbates, tell him to stop just before he reaches that point of no return. If he does that for a few weeks (2-3), he should last longer. The more he does it, the longer he-ll last.
You-re probably young and getting it from another young kid. That-s normal especially when you both have no idea what you-re doing.
Later in life as you hook up with more guys and get more experienced things will get better. You-ll learn to know what you want, how you want it and how to make it happen. For now try telling him to use a condom, he-ll have less sensation and probably last longer with it.
Give him a six-pack and he-ll definitely last longer. No, but on a serious level, maybe he hasn-t practiced in holding out enough. If he think it to be a legitimate medical problem, then I-m sure he can get meds, but If he-s young, I-m sure the doctor would just tell him to -slow down- a bit.
foreplay that lasts for 45 mintues will do right? teach him what to do, how u like it...etc
tell him to train his endurance via masturbation, and when he-s about to ejaculate, stop everthing and calm down, and start again.
and go to a doc, use viagra...etc
When you are very young, things will go very quick, if he lets it. Talk to him about it and have him practice holding out longer. As he gets older, he will be able to last longer automatically.
I know this sounds horrible but tell him to have a W*nk about 2 hours before you make love so when you get around to doing the business it will last longer...it works for my -MATE-...if you know what I mean (lol).
well i use a spray i really dont know what is the name my uncle is the pharmacists and he gives them to me with out the label i usually last 7 minutes with that i last 20 minutes
Stop go usually works, Get him all hiped up and then stop. It will help him control a little more without telling him to masturbate.
Poor girl.
Maybe he needs to practice longevity by masturbating properly?
2 minutes, ?
i go for a minimun of 30-40 mins
lady u gotta dump this dude
i think have to met doctor..
have him eat u out or something or hes gotta man up and *** a few times and ur needs come first then his