How to delay an ejaculation? -
Think of your mother walking in on you
Master bate before sex. Works every time.
Think about baseball, and other non-sexual stuff. they also make condoms that are specifically designed to numb your unit so you can go forever. Also I-ve heard there is a way to hold it back using the prostate.
Nixie has the best answer. Kudos!
There are legitimate ways, to treat premature ejaculation:
1. The squeeze method
Developed by Masters and Johnson, this method has the partner stimulate the man-s penis until he is close to ejaculation. At the point when he is about to ejaculate, the partner squeezes the penis hard enough to make him partially lose his erection. By circling the hand just below the head of the penis, a squeeze will prevent ejaculation. The goal of this technique is to teach the man to become aware of the sensations leading up to orgasm, and then begin to control and delay his orgasm on his own. This technique progresses from manual stimulation to motionless intercourse to intercourse with both moving. Masters and Johnson reported that 98 percent of couples who learned and used these techniques had success treating premature ejaculation.
2. The stop-start method
Stop-start involves the partner stimulating the man-s penis, except that when the man instructs, the partner stops stimulating the man-s penis before ejaculation becomes inevitable. Then as he feels he regains control, he instructs the partner to begin stimulating his penis again. This procedure is repeated three times before allowing the man to ejaculate on the fourth time. The couple repeats this exercise three times a week, until the man has good control, then they progress to stop-start with lubrication, and then intercourse with the woman on top and the man not moving. He again instructs her to stop moving when he senses he is losing control. The couple progresses over subsequent times to the having the man move, then side by side intercourse. Instead of stopping and starting, the couple may progress to merely slowing down to enable the man to regain control of his urge to ejaculate. The therapists counseling patients using this stop-start technique report a 90 percent success rate in delaying ejaculation.
Dr. Helen Kaplan described in her book, Premature Ejaculation (which is available at the Male Health Center 214-490-MALE) other exercises that she claimed when performed and practiced regularly prolonged in at least 70-80% of men the time to ejaculation.
While exercise methods are effective, they both rely on the cooperation of the man-s partner, which in some cases may be a problem. For that reason, the Male Health Center also recommends some additional methods for helping the man get control of the sensations leading up to orgasm.
3. Biofeedback therapy
Biofeedback treatment enables a man to become aware of the muscles that control ejaculation and relax them. For a period of time, the Male Health Center used biofeedback (where control of the bodily functions is mastered) through the use of a rectal plug and home teaching monitor. While men were able to delay ejaculation with this technique, male patients were reluctant to stimulate themselves with something in the rectum. No surprise.
4. Drug Therapy
Recently there have been reports in the urology literature of successful treatment of premature ejaculation through the use of low dose antidepressants including Anafronil, Prozac, and Zoloft.
One of the known side effects of these medications when used for depression is significantly delayed ejaculation. In the studies, extremely low doses of the antidepressant medication have prolonged ejaculation by at least 5-10 minutes with very few side effects.
Currently these medications are the most popular treatment alternative selected by our patients. The medication is given approximately four hours before intercourse and will result in a significant delay of ejaculation.
Few patients have described any side effects with this treatment. On certain occasions, the medication is given on a daily basis. It should be pointed out that this medication is not approved by the FDA for treatment of premature ejaculation. When combining the medication with the exercised in Dr. Kaplan-s book, a man can begin to take control over his ejaculation time.
5. Counseling
Although premature ejaculation is a common and frustrating problem, the Male Health Center has had great success in treating the problem. Frequently, marital and relationship issues may be an underlying cause of premature ejaculation. These issues should also be addressed to improve the success of the therapy.