I really need your help .... ejaculation problem ... might loose gf? -
hey am james !
i seem to be having a big problem with cuming when i enter my gf! she is very tight and we struggle to get it in some times. but after the first time it is alot easier. But now when i put it it am cuming !
I think am thinking to much about it and i seem to last a long time doing other stuff !
am just very worried i might loose her :(
please help
james
if she rlly loves you she will help you figure out wat the prob is and how to fix it, good luck ;)
you should try flexing perenium (muscle between penis and ahole), condom would probably help, probably just take it slow, masturbation without cumming is good practice,
its not that your thinking about it its your body i mean me i was born with a huge thing but couldnt go long and before i did it with my girlfriend i trained myself so i wouldnt dissapoint her i knew i wasnt born with certain stamina advantages so i now control my timing and can do it perfectly she was satisfied but im sorry to say the only way you can do it naturaly is exirsizes check google and learn some of those then do them till you can control your cuming
Just keep going.
Get her wet enough and try and think about something mundane. After entry just resist the urge to pump and finish, just relax, and keep a controlled pace despite what you want to do!
You might last longer if you masturbate (and ejaculate) before intercourse too.
A psychological trick is to keep a mirror around and look at yourself when you-re worried it might happen! Think of the person looking back as another person! Since an -audience- facilitates the dominant response (not to ejaculate) you might last longer (but theres a risk you-ll go soft too! be careful!). It sounds odd but most male porn actors have some trouble getting it up on a set full of people watching.
she si dry. maker vagina greazy you no cme.
im thinking this stuff just takes time, practice makes perfect!:)
i also think if she loves you that you wont lose her. well good luck:D
you can try over the counter numbing sprays such as ones that are to help sore throats when you are sick. make sure however that you do not recieve oral sex after you spray the tip/end of the penis. there are also sprays and creams that you can use topically that you can purchase from adult stores. you can also purchase the same products from online if you wish to be discreet. i recomend sprays instead of creams because the cream is a little messy. do not believe pills will work because they normally do not. if you are not intersted in using sprays or creams you should look at how long you have forplay. try shortening your use of forplay and perhalps that may work.
Dont do any jacking off when u put it into her vagina
I sperm fast too..my penis is 6.5 btw and im 14
You won-t lose her because of a sexual problem, or I wouldn-t think you would. That-s a problem all of us mals had to deal with at some point, and it-s quite normal if you don-t have sex all the time.
With a bit more practive at not worrying about it too much, it will decrease the chances of you not being able to maintain your stamina.