Friday, December 28, 2012

Females - how much does/would premature ejaculation affect you? -

Females - how much does/would premature ejaculation affect you? -

If you are a wondering - yes I do have it, embarrassingly. I love my partner very much and would do anything for her. Our relationship is perfect in every other way but this. I get annoyed but she says it is ok - but when I look at her I think it isn-t. Am I reading her wrong? I try make up for it in other ways. And if anything I feel as if sex drives us apart, for a short period of time anyway, when it should be the other. So one question, in what ways does premature ejaculation affect you (ladies)? Would it be enough to leave your partner, even if they were trying to fix the issue? (I can understand if they don-t tackle the issue and you-ve asked, thats selfish). And what kind of feelings do you get? Thanks.
Hi there,

Firstly you shouldn-t be embarrassed there are alot of guys who have the same trouble as you. I used to date a guy who had premature ejaculation. It did kill the mood the first few times but afterwards we introduced a few other things in the bedroom. I don-t know if you are a traditional guy in the sack but if you like a little kinky stuff every now and then maybe you could introduce a few toys??? If your girlfriend had a vibrator on her clit this may make her enjoy it more and bring her closer to climax. Alternatively there are some medical products you could think about taking ( and I-m not talking about viagra ) You could see your local doctor and see how he can help you out on this. Don-t be embarrassed about going either, they have questions like this all the time!! oh, and make sure you talk to your girl about it before you bring toys in the bed. Im sure she will understand.

I hope I helped you out a little, GOOD LUCK ;D
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Does having a vasectomy impede testosterone levels, having a penile erection, or having an ejaculation? -

Does having a vasectomy impede testosterone levels, having a penile erection, or having an ejaculation? -

Noooooo.. Does not effect testosterone at all. It effects erection minimally, about 6% say that they have reduced fullness, however that could be due to the provider screwing up the procedure. Ejaculation will be reduced, but supposedly not significant.


No, no, and no.

A vasectomy is a small incision which cuts the tubes where sperm cells (microscopic, maturing in the epididymus in the testis) would continue on and become part of ejaculate/liquid. Sperm is only about 10% of the total fluid--the rest coming from three other areas--the seminal vescicles, the prostate gland, and the Cowper-s gland (clear fluid, which neutralizes the Ph level in the vas deferens). In a vasectomy, the sperm cells just get reabsorbed into the scrotum.


http://www.embryology.ch/anglais/dbefruc…


Testosterone levels will not go down.


http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Truth-abou…

Testosterone-Levels-id=161734

An erection is related to becoming sexually aroused and will occur with or without the vasectomy. However, if the testis were totally removed (pharmaceutically or surgically), the man would lose all desire.
No
No
No
The only difference is that sperm is not introduced into the semen; everything else (including hormone production and levels) remains the same. For some men there may be a psychological effect. After all you are not the only one who equates it with reduced manliness.
Over 1/2 million men, in the USA alone get vasectomies each year. Do you think they would get them if there were any side effects?

There are no side effects at all. None of the above are affected. There are many urban legends that claim different. But those are urban legends.

I had one done 20 years ago. I have not experienced any effects at all.
I don-t BELIEVE that it would impede testosterone levels. You might want to look that up... However, there is NO affect on you being able to achieve full erection, and the ejaculations would be the same, except the semen won-t contain any sperm.
A vasectomy does nothing to impede testosterone, or with having a erection, or ejaculation. Simply your swimmers can-s get out.
vesectomy does not impede on ejaculation but there is no sperm...so your ejaculating the stuff that keeps the sperm alive...
not that i-ve studied up for it or anything but i-d think having a vasectomy would stop ejaculation. i might be wrong though cuz again I DON-T KNO **** ABOUT THEM
Nope. Everything stays exactly the same, minus the sperm. No difference.
Does having a vasectomy impede testosterone levels, having a penile erection, or having an ejaculation? -

I had TURP in Dec 2008, I am fine and I experienced retrograde ejaculation.? -

I had TURP in Dec 2008, I am fine and I experienced retrograde ejaculation.? -

But lately, when I masterbate, I orgasm and some fluid are ejaculated from my penis. Is that norman, or I have to refer to medical help???


Ngarden.... I believe you will find that that is normal for some of us men. But if your are worried ask your urologist to ease your mind. That is a good thing as i see it. Good Luck! Steve
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Monday, December 24, 2012

My partner suffers from premature ejaculation what can he/we do? -

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Sunday, December 23, 2012

Ejaculation? -

Ejaculation? -

when i masturbate nothing comes out but once i check a couple minutes later imcovered in sperm...whats wrong??


sounds like you-re stopping too soon. keep jacking until something squirts out.
keep trying, you-ll get it .
IDK you tell me later o.k
it-s called a DELAYED REACTION. because your woodrow doesn-t know if its coming or a going.
You did not finish the job. Find a place where nobody will interrupt you. When you stop and place your penis back in your underware the pressure on the head of your penis may just be enough to make you ejaculate.
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Saturday, December 22, 2012

Q for men... when does a guy orgasm? Does ejaculation equal orgasm? -

Q for men... when does a guy orgasm? Does ejaculation equal orgasm? -

I don-t dare to ask this question....but i want to know....when and how do men orgasm? if a man ejaculates, does that mean he had an orgasm? can men fake an orgasm? thanks


WHEN GROWN MEN HAVE AN ORGASM THEY EJACULATE.
YOU CANNOT FAKE ONE.
DURING YOUR PUBERTY WHEN YOU HAVE NOT YET PRODUCED SPERM YOU CAN HAVE DRY ORGASMS.
SKY
Ejaculation is the result of an orgasm. However a man can have an orgasm and not ejaculate if he does not have enough semen.
Anyone can fake anything, however after an orgasm/ejaculation the man-s penis isn-t hard anymore, so if a man fakes he already had his orgasm he-s gonna have to think about something other than sex to have his penis flaccid again which might be hard to do.
I am not a guy BUT I have known quite a few and I was reading only this week about a man who was unable to ejaculate so had been faking it with his wife. He had to see his doctor about it.

As to how a man orgasms. When he is aroused, his member grows and gets harder. If you stoke yourself with the hand gently holding, sliding the hand up and down. It will start to feel better and better. Gradually hold tighter and when you feel really hot and tight - it WILL happen.

Relax and enjoy!
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Ejaculation comes at about the same time as the orgasm. I don-t think you can ejaculate without having an orgasm, but when you-re just starting puberty, you can have an orgasm without ejaculating (dry orgasm) because your body isn-t producing semen yet.
The orgasm is what triggers the ejaculation. Its possible to orgasm an not ejaculate, thats how multiple orgasms are achieved, and as you probably know men lose their erection once they-ve ejaculated.
Ok. Yes. Male orgasm is when the semen shoots out. It feels awesome. As for faking... there isn-t a guy who would want to.
Yes. ejaculation = orgasm. I dont think we can fake it.
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Remedies for premature ejaculation? -

Remedies for premature ejaculation? -

Please relax there is a solution to your problem, and do not rush to know the answer.


No offense to anyone, really. But i think the -stop and start- method is really annoying. It-s like Oh God not AGAIN!


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In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

If none of these work, see your doctor.
The topical gels work I-ve heard. There should be something like that at any adult store near you.
Also, make sure you are having some alone time before you know you are going to be with that person. Maybe more alone time than your used to. If you catch my drift......
Maybe you could even be up front with the person and tell them you will be really quick. Then go ahead and get off.
Start pleasuring your partner for awhile until you are ready again. She won-t mind at all!!! I guarantee that!
When with your girl, think of Bea Arthur all during the act. Sure fire cure, indeed!!
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Sexuality, erectile dysfunction,premature ejaculation solutions.? -

Sexuality, erectile dysfunction,premature ejaculation solutions.? -

anyone with a parmanent solution to someone with a serious erectile dyfunction and premature ejaculation problem.
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Premature Ejaculation occurs when your body produces too much hormone too fast. Your body becomes -over stimulated-. The head of the penis becomes so sensitive that you ejaculate almost immediately. There is absolutely no control.

This Extreme Sensitivity on the head of your penis causes the ejaculatory mechanism, inside your body, to go into -spasms-. It-s these spasms that cause the overpowering Urge to Ejaculate. The head of your penis becomes so sensitive and the urge is so strong that you ejaculate immediately.
If you slow down the production of excess hormone - you slow down the ejaculation.

In fact, there-s NO product, exercise, or technique that can stop severe premature ejaculation when used alone. NONE! Severe premature ejaculation is an extremely complex condition the causes of premature ejaculation are both physical and psychological. To cure premature ejaculation requires a combination of products that simultaneously attack and eliminate each cause. Only Last-Longer has a combination of products strong enough to eliminate ALL aspects of both the physical and psychological causes of premature ejaculation.
Quite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much more interested in sex. And even if he doesn-t, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.

Faced with involuntary ejaculation, most men try to distract themselves during intercourse, believing that by thinking about other things, they can trick themselves into lasting longer. Usually, that only makes things worse.

To learn ejaculatory control:

* Don-t use drugs or alcohol. They-re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the -relaxation- involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It-s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn-t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
* Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you-re ready for the couples program -- if you-re in a couple. The couple approach is called the -Stop-Start Technique.- First, arrange -stop- and -start- signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the -stop- signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you-re feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the -start- signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He-s the one learning the new skill. But don-t forget the woman-s sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

Once you-ve gained good ejaculatory control with your lover-s hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

Once you-ve gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You-re making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

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Go for herbal solutions. They have permanent cures.
eat banana and cucamber and any thing which is long like cock
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a couple of Viagra and a couple of Johnies.
See a doctor.
These are not problems. It has to do with overdoing sex or having sex at the wrong time, altogether (usually when not being married).
Consult a doctor immediately. Homeopathic medicines are very useful for this treatment. So you can talk to a homepathic doctor.

Do not go for viagra and others common tablets. They are not for this purpose.
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Why do i have no force in my ejaculations? -

Why do i have no force in my ejaculations? -

i am 15 with a 6 inch penis when erect. i masturbate alot but, even if i dont i cant make the sperm shoot out with force. it just comes out and doesnt shoot or squirt or anything. also i heard that you are supposed to ejaculate about a tsp of semen but i think i ejaculate half if not less. i have under arm hair, pubic hair, but no facial hair or chest hair. could this have something to do with development. what should i do?
okay rebel
you heard this all your life your an individual and whats right for others may not be right for you
2 you have 6 more years to grow n from what information you give your right on tract at this time in your life force is not really important but eating n staying safe is safe judgement these things r important

hair really can come late n i would not wory about it
even that is normal everyon worries your fine I promise
it might have to do with, are you circumsized?? well either way, pull teh skin from the head all the way back and have it come with force,!!!
everyone is different, no worries, and you-re only 15
Try putting an icecube on your balls before ejaculation.
hold back every time your about to *** go for hoursyou will then blow real far enjoy
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Thursday, December 20, 2012

How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

it is not premature, when it is ready to go, it is ready to go..


Use one of those rings that goes at the base of the penis. Focus on her, not yourself.
Think about your momma naked!
Masturbate first before screwing your wife?
ivan dog is right! You just have to practice control and know when to stop and take a break. It takes your partner-s help of course...she has to stop moving when you tell her to or her movement will cause you to c-m. Masturbation is a great way to practice too! You can learn to go as long as you want...and oh will that ejaculalation feel good when you (or your partner) decide it-s time to let the volcano erupt! As a short term solution, you might try to masturbate all the way to ejaculation a couple of hours before you have sex. That should definitely make the latter experience last longer.
hahaha loser
It-s all in the mind and muscles. You know when your body is too close, change what you-re doing so that it is less pleasurable for you but allows you to last. It-s about her too! Focus on not-coming. And yes, I know I-m a girl... but I-ve got guy friends and a boyfriend...
practice makes perfect......

masturbate until you just feel like your going to *** then stop , wait a few seconds and do it again , and then again this time allow yourself to ***
do this everyday extending how long you can masturbate without cumming , the trick is to get used to the feeling so you can slow down when having at it with your partner and then go longer
this is not an extremely fast process ....i used it and i-d say it took a couple months , now i go about an hour with my partner
allowing yourself to masturbate slowly and not rushing to get that release is the idea here....we men cause our own premature ejac. by rushing when masturbating when we-re young and your body gets used to that ....so when you start having sex your body doesnt know anything but cumming quickly
men with kids........tell your boy not to rush when masturbating , its totally natural so dont make them feel its wrong, talk to your boy ....dont let him go thru the whole premature thing

B.
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Premature Ejaculation...Could This Help? -

Premature Ejaculation...Could This Help? -

OK...I-m dating this girl, and the other day, she was telling me about this guy she dated. She said it was the worst sex she ever had. She said the guy would ejaculate as soon as he came near her.

This girl and I haven-t had sex yet...but uh, I-ve let it go pretty early before. I mean, there have been times when it was totally fine, and my ex and I would go for a good 30 minutes. But I felt good at the time...like it was natural and we were kinda working together.

Anyway...when this new girl and I finally go at it, her comment will have -lasting a long time- at the forefront of my brain. I-m afraid I won-t be able to make it good for her and the sex will be crappy. Hell, I already know she compares people since she did an assessment of previous guys right in front of me.

I want to build confidence and be ready for fun! Anything I can do? Maybe whack off and stop just before? Excercise more? Take vitamins? See a doctor? Anything...?


maybe you should steer clear of her. why bother with someone who doesn-t have enough class NOT to talk to you about other guys sexual performance.

that-s my advice - you should heed it......
There are OTC desensitizing creams that are applied to the glans that work fairly well. Or you can masturbate before your date. That way you-ll not get off too quickly when you do play.

Best bet is to discuss it w/ ur gf. Let her know that you get off quickly but won-t stop playing. And that you will become excited again and will last longer. Most women are willing to deal w/ this problem if you-re open about it and are sensitive to her needs as well.
whiskey-dick...you want to drink soooo much that you get whiskey-dick
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i say whip the bishop a few hours before you think you will be intimate with her and you will last longer.and you might enquire about the little blue pill they call viagra.also she seems to be a bit of a talker to other people so just give her the pork sword and send her on her way.
You don-t sound like you suffer from premature ejaculation!

Sounds to me that you just want to be on the safe side and you want to be able to go a little longer.
http://www.howtolastlongerduringsex.net
is a good resource for methods that increase lasting time.

If you could possibly calm down and not be so worried you would probably be fine.
I agree with Daniel.....

Other option which worked once for a guy I used to date---do math in your head-it distracts you. Never seemed like much fun for him to me, though...lol.
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Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Orgasms before ejaculation? -

Orgasms before ejaculation? -

Was curious if it is normal. In 5th grade I had a orgasm
and routinely masturbated through 6th and 7th grade
and had perfectly normal orgasms just no ejaculation
and now im 14 years old and can ejaculate but is it
normal to have been able to orgasm before ejaculation?


Yes, you were having dry orgasms. Your body was not developed enough before to produce semen.
normal

PENIS question !!

http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…

Yes because you were too young to produce semen before, now you can.
yes normal...
yes its normal thats what is suppose to happan
Orgasms before ejaculation? -

When I Masturbate, I only have pre-***, no ejaculation? -

When I Masturbate, I only have pre-***, no ejaculation? -

Im 13 and when I masturabate, theres only a water like substance that leaks out, i dont ejaculate its clear not white


You are in early stages if puberty, so it probably oozes. when your older it will be white and it will shoot out.

Hope This Helps!
That-s perfectly normal for your age.
When i Masturbate I get the same as what your describing and i dont mind, i just feel good doing it
You are not doing it long enough.
When I masturbate the same thing happens to me too, but don-t stop just keep doing it and you will ejaculate white semen.

It may take 15 to 20 minutes of stoking your penis for it to work.
next time play with your balls at the same time you are j/o it may help to thicken it up you are starting to come so in a few more days it will get thicker and creamy white
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How to get ride of premature ejaculation ? -

How to get ride of premature ejaculation ? -

what natural process to improve your performance


Look up -edging- or -tantric masturbating- The more you practice it, the stronger you-ll get.
Premature Ejaculation is pretty normal among men who have not had sex or are inexperienced in the sexual field. It-s a problem that can easily be solved while doing just about anything during a normal day. No one has to know what you-re doing or that you have it.
Kegal exercises are the simplest thing you can do to lengthen and control the time you last during Sexual Intercourse. Kegal exercises are used for both females and males. Females tend to use it more with childbirth. But it can be used for strengthening the bladder and much more. The best way to learn to use the right muscle is to attempt to stop urine in mid-flow during urination. After familiarizing yourself with the muscle, then you can do it anytime you want. I-ve read that doing sets of 100 will help. Below I-ve listed a site and you can read it thoroughly and find other sites books and methods that can be of use. Hope this helps.
You-ll read and hear many solutions on how to stop premature ejaculation, some are old wives tales and some are even dangerous.
But don-t worry there are tried and tested solutions that are guaranteed to work.
Discover the answers at
http://www.PrematureEjaculationsHelp.com
Try the -squeeze method-, this is when you feel the urge you squeeze at the base of the penis for a few seconds and this delays the ejaculation. Or go and get circumcised this works perfectly mate, a small discomfort during the four week healing process.
I heard this from my great grandmother who knows many home-made remedies for premature ejaculation. You mix pickle juice, two raw eggs, and jalape?o seeds.


Mix in a Mountain Dew bottle and swish over penis.


The heat of the seeds will pull the remaining premature ejaculation out of your penis.
The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.


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When you approach point of no return stop, then kiss or oral then continue, but your point of no return will become closer and closer. a way of practising this is also masturbating, as point of no return approaches stop. you should get better and better
There-s nothing really to get rid of it but the best solution is to maybe masturbate about 20 - 30 minutes before you have sex.
have sex youll get more endurence
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Friday, December 14, 2012

About how many sperm are in an average ejaculation? -

About how many sperm are in an average ejaculation? -

Θ 8,000
? 250,000
? 2 million
± 300 million


The average number if sperm per ejaculation is 40 million to 600 million (avg. 250 million). For more info, see wiki as below.

I hope this helps.
A normal ejaculation may contain anywhere from 1.5 to 6 milliliters of sperm, while any volume greater than 2.0 mL is considered normal.
Sperm count measures how many sperm are in a man-s ejaculate. Anything over 20 million sperm per milliliter is considered normal. These two values just ar part of the semen analysis.
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Wednesday, December 12, 2012

If i wore 2 condoms during sex then would it stop Pre-ejaculation? ? -

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Does kegel exercise really help in premature ejaculation? -

Does kegel exercise really help in premature ejaculation? -

Oh sure, and not only that, they will also give you more powerful orgasms, more shots per orgasm and a harder erection. With practice you will also be able to have dry orgasms which allows you to do it again and again until you finally decide to shoot your load. Keep doing them! they worked very good for me.

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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

A strange premature ejaculation ?? -

A strange premature ejaculation ?? -

Please read my story. When I have sex with a girl, I can-t even have that for 15 seconds, which meleans immediately aftere inserting , I get ejaculated. I tried , squeeze techniqe,start - stop technique etc...but my case is much more than that level. The only way for me to keep going is masturbate just before intercourse. But in that case I don-t have that much enthusiasm - energy for sex. what you suggest me to do ? Do I need to see a doctor. I prefer some natural method for this rather than going for a doctor. Please give me some good ideas to overcome this. I had several sex experience - I am 28 now.


Use Desensitizing Cream (Google it to find an online retailer) and then put on a condom.

or

Buy one of these
http://www.fleshlight.com
and get the tightest one and practice everyday and try and beat (pun intended) your record of holding out on ejaculating.
Go to a doctor natrual stuff sucks and it never works. Also you can practice to make it a longer time span from when you insert your penis to when you ejaculate. Also i think there are condoms which are suposed to increase the amount of time aswell.
In this case you may need to see a doctor but if you perfer the natural way you can get some useful information on this site


http://www.treatment-premature-ejaculati…


They have many information about premature ejaculation.
Also they have a linke to other site that provide the natural self-help technique.
TRY A COCK RING
15 seconds? Wow! I would definately see a doctor about this.
Most men do not have a developed pubococcygeus muscle. That is the muscle that stops the flow of urine, and also semen. A strong pubococcygeus muscle can also help with erections by holding blood in the penis. The exercise to workout this muscle is called the -kegel.- To do the exercise you squeeze the muscle you use to stop peeing. Hold this muscle for 2 seconds and release, do this 30 more times and in a month you won-t have that problem. You can also do a step program to have even more -staying power.-

Workout:
Week 1: 30 Reps every night
Week 2: 40 Reps every night
Week 3: 50 Reps every night(Results start to show)
Week 4: 60 Reps every night
Week 5: 70 Reps every night
Week 6: 80 Reps every night(Almost full results)
Week 7: 90 Reps every night
Week 8: 100 Reps every night(Full results)

From -Week 8- on do 100 reps every night. A few minutes of your time is worth they great benefits.

You can do -kegels- wherever you are, but I usually do them in bed before I go to sleep.
you get alot less feeling with a condom i would try that. umm if that doesnt work then try to have her beet you off then wait a lil bit then try to go at it. personaly if im with someone for a while and i know we are both horney then it comes back perdy fast
Does wearing a condom help?
Try having a few drinks first. Seriously... alcohol makes it harder to orgasm.
There is a new drug called dapoxetine. J-J with ALZA corp submitted this drug to the US Food and Drug Administration for approval back in 2005. I think that they had some problems but they are optimistic for the future.
Definitely use desensitizing cream on your penis as well as a condom.
Many men under 30 get the same experience like you. You can be well assured that it is not a disease and you can be quite okay without any medicine just by self understanding of the problem.

In a simple language, when we become tense and excited, our sympathetic nervous system becomes more active which makes a premature ejaculation. This may happen to anyone normally, if he remains hungry for sex for long time. But this should not be a regular phenomenon.
If a man is healthy, I mean, he does not suffer from hypertension, diabetes, liver diseases, kidney diseases, hormonal imbalance or any other vascular disease or is not under any hormone treatment/abuse, then he is not supposed to get any long term sexual problem.
However, assuming a man healthy, it has been noted that in most of the cases, the problem is encountered successfully by adopting 3 measures: 1. Cordial cooperation and active assistance from the sex partner, 2. Not forcing the body for sex- just going for sex when your body is really excited (not only the excitation of mind), 3. Taking sex as a common task for body, not a -highly precious- anything.

It has also been experienced that changing the sex partner helps sometimes in this regard. And last of all, definitely, age and volume of sex experience make everything okay.

Wish you a successful happy sexual life.
Last-Longer is the only male sexual performance formula that, not only stops premature ejaculation, but actually -cures- it. Last-Longer is the only product that allows -YOU- to control when you ejaculate. Since 1997, Last-Longer has been ranked #1 for a very good reason ... -It Works-! If you normally ejaculate within a few minutes of penetration, then you must order Last-Longer. You-ll last 5 to 10 minutes longer, the very first night.....
A normal ejaculation occurs when sexual excitement triggers glands, located inside your body, to begin a slow release of chemicals (hormones) into your blood stream. The slow release of these hormones tells your brain to gently stimulate the nerves at the glans (head of your penis). As you become more and more sexually excited, your body produces more and more of these hormones. The sensitivity becomes greater and greater until you reach the point at which time you ejaculate. Under normal circumstances the production of hormone is gradual and a man has the ability to control the sensations of sex.

Premature Ejaculation occurs when your body produces too much hormone too fast. Your body becomes -over stimulated-. The head of the penis becomes so sensitive that you ejaculate almost immediately. There is absolutely no control.

This Extreme Sensitivity on the head of your penis causes the ejaculatory mechanism, inside your body, to go into -spasms-. It-s these spasms that cause the overpowering Urge to Ejaculate. The head of your penis becomes so sensitive and the urge is so strong that you ejaculate immediately.
If you slow down the production of excess hormone - you slow down the ejaculation.

In fact, there-s NO product, exercise, or technique that can stop severe premature ejaculation when used alone. NONE! Severe premature ejaculation is an extremely complex condition the causes of premature ejaculation are both physical and psychological. To cure premature ejaculation requires a combination of products that simultaneously attack and eliminate each cause. Only Last-Longer has a combination of products strong enough to eliminate ALL aspects of both the physical and psychological causes of premature ejaculation.
Quite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much more interested in sex. And even if he doesn-t, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.

Faced with involuntary ejaculation, most men try to distract themselves during intercourse, believing that by thinking about other things, they can trick themselves into lasting longer. Usually, that only makes things worse.

Don-t tune out your body. TUNE INTO IT. You need to become more familiar with your different levels of sexual arousal. You also need to recognize how you feel as you approach your point of ejaculatory inevitability, the -point of no return.- Once you recognize how you feel close to your point of no return, it-s not difficult to make small sexual adjustments that allow you to remain highly aroused without ejaculating.

Sexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation.

To learn ejaculatory control:

* Don-t use drugs or alcohol. They-re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the -relaxation- involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It-s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn-t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
* Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you-re ready for the couples program -- if you-re in a couple. The couple approach is called the -Stop-Start Technique.- First, arrange -stop- and -start- signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the -stop- signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you-re feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the -start- signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He-s the one learning the new skill. But don-t forget the woman-s sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

Once you-ve gained good ejaculatory control with your lover-s hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

Once you-ve gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You-re making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

Here are some other suggestions for lasting longer:
A strange premature ejaculation ?? -

Can you run out of ejaculation ? -

Can you run out of ejaculation ? -

Last night i did for the first time ever. I had sex twice in a row then oral and then masturbated but nothing came out.


Yeah you ran out. It takes time to reload your balls with new sperm.
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Monday, December 10, 2012

HOW TO INCREASE THE MALE LIBIDO? WHAT IS THE BEST REMEDY FOR PREMATURE EJACULATION? -

HOW TO INCREASE THE MALE LIBIDO? WHAT IS THE BEST REMEDY FOR PREMATURE EJACULATION? -

You could be too excited!

Have a lot of foreplay, be nude and study each other-s private parts, touch it, feel it and understand your body ... and then you proceed towards *****

Be normal


Unfortunately Circumcision is to blame for much of it. With no foreskin the friction is higher. There are creams and sprays that desensitize the penis, but take care here. Over time a cut guy looses sensitivity and later as an adult this often makes the male unable to climax.

Preventing rubbing and buring is your best solution for that.

The best solution is restoration, but it takes many weeks to get one back. Still, males that have gone though this say its like the difference between color and black and white.

Think a foreskin is bad ? Do you like a girls lips around your glans... Now imagine this 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.

Your Best Answwer.
take things easy and enjoy, but if you really think you need help you can have a go with viswiss. it-s really effective and make control of it.
increase the foreplay duration (start massaging and eating your partner).
for PREMATURE EJACULATION masturbate before sex.
master and jones technique
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Sunday, December 9, 2012

How long it takes for ejaculation? -

How long it takes for ejaculation? -

10secs to a hour or so


Everybody is different Andy.
5 years
depends on how horny you are, or how long has it been since you last masturbated. it depends on many different factors
To give you the cold scientific answer we may give a look to the polls or statistics. Well, they say the average is 5 min. but to be more precise we should add that such a value is depending on some factors because for sex brain becomes the most sexual organ! Besides, the sexual activity also gets its importance because the high lust could affect the ejaculatory time. People aren-t all equal and while somebody complains precocious ejaculations someone else even isn-t able to reach the orgasm. About sex , in my opinion, any thing is correlated to the women satisfaction who, as like as men, have different orgasmic time but, in most case 10 min. are more than sufficient.
Differs from guy to guy.

Over the years I-ve learned to control it. basically hold it back.
I learned this because I would shoot too quickly with my girl and it was to the point of not being worth the effort for both of us. So I learned to hold back by simply masturbating or having my gf rub me to the point of shooting and then stopping and holding it. Then start up again and again, to the point of shooting and stopping.

I can now take up to 4+ hrs to ejaculate if I choose to. All of the women I-ve been with since have totally loved it because they-ll get off before I do and frankly, that-s what they want. Consider the fact of how would you feel if you were always having sex and your girl always finished and thus stopped before you even came.

Not fun at all.
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Saturday, December 8, 2012

Embarrassment: Prem. Ejaculation? -

Embarrassment: Prem. Ejaculation? -

Today I ask my gf to suck me off, and she did and I come in like 1 min I feel really embarrassed, what will she think?How can I make it last longer next time? Thanks.


Use some herbal pills or consult an andrologist.
I used to also. But you Think about other things. Try to relax, don-t think about it so much. One thing that helped is tell her to stop and breathe for 5 to 10 seconds and kinda jerk it a little but very lightly. then tell her to continue.
She will think she is the best at giving a ******** they ever was.Do it once for you then do it once for her lol.Next time start thinkin of non related sex topics your grandma is a good one or a chess board.

if u want information Prem. Ejaculation (www.skincarefairy.com)
Search for PC Muscle Exercises. The PC muscle controls urination and ejaculation. Peace!
dont worry about it you did fine ,i am sure she was happy so dont worry at all
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Thursday, December 6, 2012

Relations between being nervous and fast ejaculation.... 2nd Zits ? -

Relations between being nervous and fast ejaculation.... 2nd Zits ? -

Hello every one i noticed that when iam scared and iam probably playing with my penis till i reach orgasm, ( i reach it super fast ) when iam scared ( like scared my parents see me or something ) other wise when iam home alone it takes timeeeeeee , 2nd is there any relation between zits and masturbation ? iam 17 , male
how do zits appear ? what makes them appear ? how can i get rid of them
they are not alot, just 2 or 3 , but it-s always there, 1 go, 1 come , and they are annoying, sometimes my face is pure as water , and there are types of zits ???
1 with the (yellow head )
2 the red dot
3rd under skin ? wtf ?xD
lots of questions, please kindly if any one has any answer, thanks all
There is no connection between zits and wanking. Go for it.

Just watch that your -super fast wanking- does not develop into premature ejaculation in later life. If you are always trying to get a 20 second load away this behaviour could carry on to your adult life and you could find yourself blowing in 20 seconds with that special girl. Probably not what you want. Take care and take a bit of time.

Get some good medical advice on the pimples. There are good treatments now but you have to go to the doctor.
There-s no connection between ejaculation and spots. Your 17 so puberty will kill your skin unfortunately lol just use simple face washes, none of these face conditioning, scrub special shine stuff lol.

As for the ejaculation in a short time when scared that normal also :) however if your ejaculating during sex normally then you should check out
http://theejaculationtrainerebook.info

Those could be your beauty spot!!
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Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Ejaculation delay - spray? -

Ejaculation delay - spray? -

Did anyone try the spray that delays ejaculation?
It-s to be sprayed on the penis head shortly before intercourse...

How long before intercourse should it be sprayed and how effective is it in solving premature ejaculation?


It depends a bit on your personal sensitivity, but most of the ones that I sell at work are between 3% and 5% benzocaine (think Orajel). -Stamina-, -Stay-Hard- and -Max Width-. The two better quality ones are the Kama Sutra brand -Desensitizing Pleasure Gel- and the Shunga brand -Pleasure Balm-. Both taste nice and are a bit stronger (5.5%) than the novelty sprays and balms. The way it works is by numbing your nerve endings so you don-t feel enough stimulation to reach orgasm quite as fast. To see if it would work for you, masturbate one night and time yourself, then go find some Orajel or other generic toothache jelly containing benzocaine and rub some on the head of your penis, then masturbate again. If you think it-ll help you last longer during intercourse, then buy some! Just be sure to wipe off the excess before you enter her, you don-t want her to lose sensation too.

Cock rings are a good choice too, the rubber and nitrile ones are very cheap and you have a 50/50 shot (from anecdotal evidence, no promises) of either having a much harder time reaching orgasm or a much more sensitive penis.

Have fun, and please be safe. :)
Ang is right about the way it works more or less. Perhaps you should not sacrifice your pleasure just because you don-t feel that you last long enough. Many times this is a psychological problem. Try not to worry about it, and don-t let societal pressures make you feel inadequate. As far as her pleasure, you could try manual or oral stimulation after you are done to help her climax. Possibly a toy if she is comfortable with that. The less you worry about it the less of a problem it should be. Focus on having fun together. You can also perform exercises to control it like urinating a little and then stopping and so on and so on for better muscle control.
Psychological factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem, and fear of sexual failure cause are the major factors of such type of problem. Your partner can help with gradual development of intimacy and stimulation. Such techniques also can help relieve anxiety, fear and other psychological factors and change the mood.
However if you want to increase the time you will have to learn to focus on gradual training and improving mental habituation to sex and physical development of stimulation control. One ebook names as ejaculation trainer claim to end premature ejaculation within 1-4 weeks and one medicine known as semenax also make certain claims and guarantee for money back if you are not fully satisfy. You will find information about this and other products on following website: -
http://www.lifestyle-health-fitness.com/...

getting drunk works too.

Seriously you need to desensitize the head. make it a little numb and you can do that by taking it in the palm of your hand and roughing it up a little..pinch the head twist it, it gets numb fast and will help a lot
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Stomach pains after ejaculation.....? -

Stomach pains after ejaculation.....? -

Is it normal for someone to have stomach aches after ejaculation.ANd when the semen is just about to come out.And if u don-t think bad while masterbating then also u get semen or not?after u r done with all this how to get your erect penis in its normal posture (only if u can do masterbation without a bad thinking)?
you need a woman, that-s why your stomach hurts.
Question: I have been having a pain in my lower stomach every time I have sexual intercourse. I only have the pain when the penis hits a certain spot. I don’t know if maybe I have a cyst or if its going to deep and hitting something it should not be.The pain feels like someone is punching or pulling on the inside of my stomach.

Answer: Several possibilities, all of which will need a pelvic exam and /or an ultrasound. You are probably accurate about the cyst, other possibilities include low grade infection of the tubes

------ My friend has stomach pain after as well so I did some research and that-s what I found.

Did more research http://www.steadyhealth.com/stomach_pain_after_masterbation_t78007.html that site might help. Seems a lot of people have problem.
i dont get pains but i guess its normal according to the other guy who answered ur question.
you are probobaly working out your stomach when you jerk it
you, my friend, most likely have an STD.
stop doing animals.
no, I think sperm leaked into your stomach
Yes it is!! .

But i mostly get it in the pelvis and lower abs. I gueess it-s gas build up
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Monday, December 3, 2012

To control pre ejaculation? -

To control pre ejaculation? -

my friend is having a problem of pre ejaculation when having sex with his partner. right now he is in middle east (uae), which doctor can he meet, any general medical practinior will do. Only serious answers needed


think about fat people
If by pre ejaculation you mean premature ejaculation, i.e. ejaculating too soon, then your friend could see a doctor. Some antidepressants in the SSRI class are known to delay ejaculation. A non-medical option would be training to last longer, explaining the situation to the partner and stopping for short periods during sex before continuing, and using a condom if he-s not using one already.

If by pre ejaculation you mean he -drips- a bit before finally ejaculating that-s perfectly normal and there-s not really any way to stop it.
to help pre ejaculation, try mastubating regularly, also try pulling out when you think your about to ejaculate then wait till you lose the urge, and keep going.
If this is really a problem for him he needs to see a Urologist or possibly and Endocrinologist. It-s probably nothing serious though, nothing a little practice at control won-t solve.
think not sexy thoughts...think not sexy thoughts...think not sexy thoughts...think not sexy thoughts..........
To be blunt and to the point: whack it, wait an hour, then meet up with your partner.
your -friend- RIIIIIIGHT
rite your... -friend- :)
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Sunday, December 2, 2012

A question about ejaculation? -

A question about ejaculation? -

if you never reach the point of no return [orgasm] will you ejaculate?


Not as such, since an orgasm usually has an ejaculation associated with it, but you can leak some semen before you actually climax, so in that sense, yes you can.
There are many unintentional parents around that didn-t know that, and thought that the withdrawal method of contraception was reliable.
A question about ejaculation? -