Remedies for premature ejaculation? -
Please relax there is a solution to your problem, and do not rush to know the answer.
No offense to anyone, really. But i think the -stop and start- method is really annoying. It-s like Oh God not AGAIN!
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In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.
Some helpful techniques include the following:
The -stop and start- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The -squeeze- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
If none of these work, see your doctor.
The topical gels work I-ve heard. There should be something like that at any adult store near you.
Also, make sure you are having some alone time before you know you are going to be with that person. Maybe more alone time than your used to. If you catch my drift......
Maybe you could even be up front with the person and tell them you will be really quick. Then go ahead and get off.
Start pleasuring your partner for awhile until you are ready again. She won-t mind at all!!! I guarantee that!
When with your girl, think of Bea Arthur all during the act. Sure fire cure, indeed!!