Females - how much does/would premature ejaculation affect you? -
If you are a wondering - yes I do have it, embarrassingly. I love my partner very much and would do anything for her. Our relationship is perfect in every other way but this. I get annoyed but she says it is ok - but when I look at her I think it isn-t. Am I reading her wrong? I try make up for it in other ways. And if anything I feel as if sex drives us apart, for a short period of time anyway, when it should be the other. So one question, in what ways does premature ejaculation affect you (ladies)? Would it be enough to leave your partner, even if they were trying to fix the issue? (I can understand if they don-t tackle the issue and you-ve asked, thats selfish). And what kind of feelings do you get? Thanks.Hi there,
Firstly you shouldn-t be embarrassed there are alot of guys who have the same trouble as you. I used to date a guy who had premature ejaculation. It did kill the mood the first few times but afterwards we introduced a few other things in the bedroom. I don-t know if you are a traditional guy in the sack but if you like a little kinky stuff every now and then maybe you could introduce a few toys??? If your girlfriend had a vibrator on her clit this may make her enjoy it more and bring her closer to climax. Alternatively there are some medical products you could think about taking ( and I-m not talking about viagra ) You could see your local doctor and see how he can help you out on this. Don-t be embarrassed about going either, they have questions like this all the time!! oh, and make sure you talk to your girl about it before you bring toys in the bed. Im sure she will understand.
I hope I helped you out a little, GOOD LUCK ;D