Monday, August 27, 2007

Is premature ejaculation a real issue? -

Is premature ejaculation a real issue? -

I-ve heard a lot about people complaining about premature ejaculation, and the lack of orgasms that it results in. I easily manage to give some five-eight orgasms before I get mine. And I know that it isn-t fake orgasms because a few people have told me the same. Is it really that serious of an issue?? I can-t understand this problem. Can someone explain this?

P.S: I want answers from a scientific of biological point of view - not a disgusting answer from a pervert.
For a lot of women it is a huge problem that their guys cannot last long enough to give them their own orgasm.
So :yes it is a real issue.
And you can tell that it is a huge issue seen by the number of questions asked by guys suffering from this problem.
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Hey genius... premature ejaculation means they ejaculate quickly, they still orgasm.

When you say, result in, do you mean the woman-s orgasm?

5 - 8 orgasms? Lol... those girls are lying...

By the way, it-s not how long you last, it-s the technique
it can be a real problem if your partner isn-t satisfied, some men shoot off before even entering a woman , but that is a mental thing, physically , I can -t see where it is a problem but hey you-re not going to get many women if your done before they get started.
You need to state how long and how fast you thrust to determine premature ejaculation. If it-s less than 5 min yes you have a problem. If it-s 10-15 min you need t learn some self control. Longer than 20 min you-re just fine.
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Thursday, August 23, 2007

How can I control (fix) premature ejaculation? -

How can I control (fix) premature ejaculation? -

I understand that sometimes it gets so intense that it-s hard to keep it in, but if you slow down or stop right before ejaculating it tends to slow the process down.


There-s nothing premature about ejaculation.

There-s no such thing!!!

3 REALLY easy steps:

1. do your thing
2. roll over
3.go to sleep
slow it down with a pinch just under the head for about 3 seconds
COME LATER THAN YOU HAVE BEEN, IT APPEARS THAT YOU NEED TO TAKE A DIFFERENT APPROACH THAN WHAT YOU ARE DOING , HAVE YOU PARTNER HELP YOU IN FOUR PLAY, AND TRY NOT TO GET OVERLY EXCITED, REMEMBER THIS IS FUN NOT A JOB OR CHORE THAT YOU HAVE TO GET DONE
Train yourself. Practice. Learn to hold it and release it on your own instead of letting it go crazy and going when it wants.
hehe.... when you find out let me know the answer.
I was reading about it this morning, and basically they say that the technique required has to do with learning to stop before the -point of no return-, but then the problem is that how do you get your partener to stop? it just so happens that right before you get to that point seems to be the most pleasurable to her and she hates stoping in the middle of it, but if you don-t stop, it-s all over. Anyway, I tried some of the techniques but the main thing is that the female has to be part of the solution as well.
I will type up a couple of paragraphs from the book I-m reading when I get a chance.
screw uglier women..............
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Question about ejaculation...? -

Question about ejaculation...? -

Im 17 and I masterbate as much as the next teenage guy, anyway, for the first time, I was fooling around with my girlfriend and she started to give me head. I wasn-t nervous, and it felt great, yet I never came. I don-t know why, she was going for about 15 minutes. Is that normal?
I think you had some stage fright and were scared. Give it time it-ll happen....
that-s okay.. sometimes it takes longer to ***.. had you been maturbating a lot in the previous few days??
its perfectly normal. Enjoy the process when she gives head. Shouldn-t u be happy that u have so much control over ejaculation when she is su*king it.

I also experienced it several times and i didnot care it but felt good tat i am so strong. later you can engage in some more activitis with her and perform better.
Ask her to do it again and see if you have the same response. It may have been just a one time episode.
Can be. Some guys reach orgasm more easily than others. Also, after several years of masturbating vigorously, it may take a little practice to get used to reaching an orgasm from oral sex or intercourse. Nothing to worry about, it just prolongs the pleasure.
Yes its normal.Some guys never *** by oral. The mouth is just too loose and wet compared to masturbating.
It-s a very different set of sensations from things you-d done in the past. Your body isn-t used to it yet, so doesn-t know how to respond all the way.

Also, I imagine that your friend takes care to be gentle with you - as she should. The drawback is that some guys like stronger feelings and more pressure as they get more excited, and her mouth might have a hard time sustaining that effort.
Tell her keep going and never stop!
yah at times it happens....
it takes me about 15 minutes to get my bf to come some men it takes 30 mins
Nah dude, it-s totally normal.

about 50% of men cannot recieve and orgasm from oral sex.

Dont worry about it.
enjoy it while you can

or

maybe youre gay
Question about ejaculation...? -

Please help me! Premature Ejaculation? -

Please help me! Premature Ejaculation? -

I am in love with this wonderfull girl, we have been together for 3 and a half years, i love her so much. she 23 and im 24.

The thing is I really struggle with Premature Ejaculation, sometimes i can go longer but must of the times im in and out and its finished.

I know about all the apparant meds that are suppose to help, but theu dont. Please im looking for answers from people that had a similar problem and overcame it through wich ever technique or things you did to stop you from blowing your load.

I really want to be able to last long enough to at least make her orgasm, i love her so much and want to satisfy her really bad!

Thanks 1minute man
think of something disgusting, like your doing your sister
Dont try to fix it!!! Women get multiple orgasams, why shouldnt the men?? Try this.. when you are haveing an orgasam, DONT STOP PUMPING, and dont stop right after you quit squirting either, keep going at it for another 4 or 5 minuets. You will stay HARD if you DO NOT STOP, and the next orgasam will be a while off.. You will both really enjoy this, I PROMISE !!!!!
Have your tried delay creams?
honey, when you grow up, you-ll be able to have a relationship , for now though it seems funny to write this, it is just plain childish. time to go to bed...mom is calling you !
See your doctor.
hey well thats kind of a problem, that has happened to me couple times, when she is too hot, but anyway it should not happen in reagular basis; and what about when u drink, do u still have the same problem?, i think red wine helps a lot, at least as somehting inmediate you should try that, no kidding. But you should go and check with your doctor. Good luck
It-s called foreplay sweetie. Use your tongue!! If you got skills with your tongue she won-t care how fast you bust one. Also, if she don-t mind, try switching positions. I have noticed guys seem to get too close too fast during missionary.
Try masturbating one or two hours beforehand and taking Viagra during the real event?
Put on at least 3 c**k rings if nothing else works.
Masturbate ALOT, if that doesn-t help try pinching the base when you get close. Just because you are finished doesn-t mean you can-t throw on the old snorkel and go diving for a little while.
One Minute Man, I will give you some advice I saw on Doctor Ruth one time. Come quickly the first time, then wait 20 minutes and try again. You usually last longer the second time. Also there are other ways to make her orgasm....hint hint, maybe practice while you are waiting for the second round.
the only thing i can suggest is try being in the moment but not being in the moment. think about something non-sexy like geraldo rivera or pokemon when you two are together. also please her before intercourse. also be sensual before sexual. give her a sensuos full-body massage with massage oil, scalp massage ) these are errotic and relaxing trust me!!!!), givign her compliments and telling her how much you love all the while, plese her (i.e. you know), then intercourse.
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Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Does one get male infertility even after ejaculation? -

Does one get male infertility even after ejaculation? -

I don-t exactly understand your question but if your asking -can you be infertile even if you ejaculate- then the answer is yes. When a male is infertile, it means the sperm are dead / non-existent. The sperm are -transported- via the semen. So if they-re dead they can-t fertilize an egg but the semen is still present.


Difficult expression, I must say.
If a man has a vasectomy, he will still ejaculate but no sperm.
He will not become infertile after ejaculation. It keeps on keepin- on.
nope
after abstinence for 5 days sperm count reverts back to normal
Infertility and ejaculation are different. In ejaculation, you will discharge semen. In fertility, the semen should have sufficient sperms. If the sperms are absent, it is called as infertility. One can perform regular sex even without sperms.
ejaculation doesnt mean anything if your swimmers dont swim.
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Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Increase ejaculation? -

Increase ejaculation? -

I eat plenty of brocolli and Eel, and Ive gotten some pretty strong ejacualations, but would like them bigger, stronger, farther! Any suggestions?


try edging... bring yourself close to orgasm and then back off before you shoot... do this over and over for extended periods of time... this is good stamina training also dude... ;-)
drink LOTS of water... i drink like 2 gallons a day... i kid you not...
i would tell you what happened last weekend but it-s a little graphic to post here... hahahaha!!

edit:
doug had a good weekend i see ;-)
Rob his grave, dirt an dust.
It-s 12 inches now, how can I help that?
They-re all dead now, it-s time to come home.
Strapped to da bed, everything iz cool.
Give me head, stop wit that rule.

Tortured soulz, it came out of her pus s.
Every girl wants me.
I-m just a woman trapped in a man-s body.
Pull the liver out, blood spews everywhere.
Too much cocaine, throw him in da sack.

Stone metal bed, dead eyes staring back into space.
Go back to school, shoot up her veins.
Don-t look down, it-ll be your fate.
Change your life, end it at da WalMart.

Drive your cart in da aisles.
Radios on 11, jokes be gettin.
Touch me all night long.
If Cindy leaves then it-ll be Hon
Wear boxer shorts.
Masturbate less often ( I-m sure you do)
Wait a few days between sexual activity ( if that-s possible)!
Stop meeting with -hand-rea- every 5 minutes, you do it too much.
Yes. Have your boyfriend hit you on your a$$ right before you ejaculate.
Bustier women should do the trick.
slap it before you ***
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Monday, August 20, 2007

Premature ejaculation haw to stop it? -

Premature ejaculation haw to stop it? -

my bf suffers from premature ejaculating what ways will help Control it?


The start and stop technique is great in combination with practicing the kegels:Google them
Colors
premature ejaculation or PE comes from the over sensitivity of the glans or head of the penis. one remedy to this is to try and think of unromantic or try not to think of things that would get you horny or is very sexually stimulating. this take practice and the overall remedy for PE takes practice. there are cremes on the market that helps to minimize sensitivity but be aware they only contain a numbing agent such as benzocain that will not only take away sensitivity but it will also take away that good feeling that comes from lovemaking. it is not abnormal for a large amts of teens that-s sexually active to have PE. the problem comes when this become so chronic it put stress on relationships or follow you into adulthood. then it-s time to see a sex therapist,urologist, or psychologist.one major thing to tell your BF is don-t get to obsess or worry about this to much or he may find himself dealing with a brand new set of problems mainly performance anxiety.
go slow then eventually speed up a bit.. a few -half digs- than go deep once every while.. :) you really need to control the desire to shoot and prolong the period.. i have learnt quite a few techniques myself from one book.. hehe..
remember there-s a saying -it isn-t the size of that matters, it-s how long and how many times you can make it stand- :)

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I think your boyfirend should practice stopping penetration once he feels like ejaculating, he should wait for about 5 seconds then start penetration again, that way he will definitely last longer. It always works for me.

N.B If he doesnt use a condom, then maybe he should start using one, I have noticed I last a lot longer when I am wearing a condom
I know...I-ve been there...if he-s looking for how to last longer during sex, he might want to look into ejaculation control exercises...I-ve experienced excellent results myself
Tell him to practice by masturbating, using the stop and go method. When he feels like he-s about to ***, take his hand off it for a few seconds to let it chill out. Then resume stroking. Do this over and over until he can control how long he lasts.
I sympathise with him. There are so many techniques available so just investigate them all and try them out.
Wear a condom, as others have said it will lessen sensitivity which can be a good thing.
Hi, have a look at this site http://tiny.cc/TqQUg. Hope it helps
Dress as Nora Batty.
I masturbate about an hour before we have sex and I find that I last a lot longer
is it real premature or can he just not go for very long?
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Friday, August 17, 2007

Does man ejaculation cause memory loss (a little bit) ? -

Does man ejaculation cause memory loss (a little bit) ? -

I just wonder if ejaculation cause my memory loss because what I learned last 2 year is almost forgotten now ?


why not when you ejaculate several times. you start loosing concentration and when you lose concentration definitely you get the habit of forgetting.
I-m sorry . . . did you say something? lol

Well, maybe, but you haven-t forgotten how to jack off, have you?
Yes. Sometimes you forget that you ejaculated a few minutes ago and start stroking it again.
Yes - you forget everything your mother taught you.
no it doesn-t cause that but something you could be doing maybe your smoking weed or drinking beer that causes memory loss
i agree with jason.
yes, by the age 75 you will remember nothing
no that means u-re smoking a little too much pot and losing brain cells.
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Monday, August 13, 2007

Ejaculation? -

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I need some help a.s.a.p! bloody ejaculation? -

I need some help a.s.a.p! bloody ejaculation? -

i am asking this for someone else obviosuly bc i am a girl. i am very worried about this person right now! please help me out, is this normal? so heres the deal. we were -playing- around, didnt have intercourse,just messin. nothing out of the ordinary or anything happened or has been happening for that matter. it came time for him to ejaculate, everything still seemed normal til we turned the light on. we thought maybe it was from me bc i had just got off my menstrual and everything but i checked and it was from him. the blood was on his stomach and other places as well. it was deffinetly near the hole,so we knew something wasnt right to begin with. now it had been like 4 months since he did anything with a girl, this hasnt happened before to him, he does have a history of adominal pains however... should he see a doctor or could this be normal for not doing something for a decent period of time? please help asap. we-re trying to decide what needs to be done. thanks, jessie
he should have a dr check it out
eww tell -him- to see a doc right away. How do you know for sure he hasn-t done anything for 4 months?
Go see a doctor for sure.
Make him see a doctor
this isn-t normal and can be very serious
There are loads of tiny veins in the urethra and they can get easily broken,especially with force used during sex,
I would see what the next days happen when he pees:if the bleeding continues he needs to see his Dr.Can be kidney related too
Radius
Maybe he has an STD, make him go see a doc, trust me it-s NOT NORMAL.
Don-t panic.

call your local emergency room and ask them
Don-t panic. This is called hemospermia (blood in the semen), and it happens to a lot of guys at one time or another, many just never notice because it happens when they-re inside their woman. Usually it goes away on its own. Sometimes it can be caused by an infection, so its not a bad idea for him to take a trip to the doctor. He does not need to rush to the ER, just get it checked out (especially if it keeps happening) and you-ll both feel better.
Go to a Doctor. Abdominal pain and bloody ejaculations are not normal at all.
It could be something serious! Abdominal pain can be due to a number of things...and the fact that your -friend- had blood in his ejaculation means there is something else going on. There should never be blood in the ejaculate.
He seriously needs a trip to the doctor. This is serious stuff.

lol, I-m guessing you two were doing oral and foreplay?
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Sunday, August 12, 2007

Is ejaculation supposed to hurt? -

Is ejaculation supposed to hurt? -

No, unless you have infection


no,dude you gotta see a doctor or something about that.

sure hope yer insurance cover dat HEY-O.
But,no seriously go see a doctor NOW!
It shouldn-t http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkomuU7PVzKIMyEzDCg86pXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090920204742AAikC9Z
its suppose to be EXTREMELY painful!!! you could compare it to giving birth. ow!!!!
No
no.
only if you hold back.
no. but it does come out warm.
only if you get blasted in the eye
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Saturday, August 11, 2007

A strange premature ejaculation ?? -

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Wednesday, August 8, 2007

What is the best thing for a man in his twentiies to do about premature ejaculation? -

What is the best thing for a man in his twentiies to do about premature ejaculation? -

Dude - just relax when having sex, and don-t get caught up in how good your c.o.c.k. feels during it. Concentrate on pleasing your partner! Try spankin it until just before you c.u.m. and then stop -- don-t allow yourself to shoot. It may be difficult at first, but with practice you will learn to control you orgasm. Happy f...ing!


Take the 12 step training program.
jerk off before you have sex
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Saturday, August 4, 2007

Question about premature ejaculation? -

Question about premature ejaculation? -

My fiance used to be able to have sex for long periods of time. Now, it seems like he ejaculates about a minute into sex. Whether we have foreplay or not makes no difference in how long he lasts. Stopping when he is getting close doesn-t seem to help either. Also, if we have sex a second time he either cant *** or loses his erection in the middle. We have tried different positions and nothing seems to help. Does anybody know any tips to prevent this or reason why this is happening?


Causes of Premature Ejaculation

* Expecting failure
* Weak PC Muscle.
* Stress - Depression
* Feelings of guilt, embarrassment or frustration
* Excessive OF Masturbation


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

What has changed in his life since this started? This could be what is causing this. Stress, nerves, etc. If this is the problem, try and help him fix it. I-d say take care of him before stating intercourse but if he has problem in the middle then all you can do is see ifhis job or something is bothering him.
Seems like he may need to see a doctor for that cuz its going to more likely keep happening until he get it corrected...tell him to relax and not get to excited and to penetrate deep and dont go to fast.
You have tried different positions which is good... that sometimes helps.

He could try wearing a condom to reduce his sensitivity a little.
make it more dry for him. That way it will chafe him a little bit and he won-t get as easily aroused. Plus it feels great when you actually reach the climax this way.
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Friday, August 3, 2007

Post-ejaculation...? -

Post-ejaculation...? -

Why is it that one cannot thrust right after ejaculation? Is it normal? Proven online content would be great. Thanks.


I have never had that problem, if I want to continue thrusting, I do! It-s not like ejaculating locks my hips up or something. As long as you can maintain a post ejaculatory erection or semi-hard erection you should be able to thrust.
You want to keep thrusting after cumming?

Surely the thing to do would be to RELAX after shooting off!
Post-ejaculation...? -

Any medicine,available in india,to prolong ejaculation even after active thrusting of more than 10 minutes ? -

Any medicine,available in india,to prolong ejaculation even after active thrusting of more than 10 minutes ? -

Please let me know once you discover the magic recipe :)


why would you need that. all the guys i dated knew how to keep it up.
why?
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Premature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation? -

my boyfriend prematurly ejactulates...sometimes only after a minute any advice for me or him?


He-s a man, get a toy....
take a pill?
Oh yes I can remember those days of rapid release. There are several ways to control this. Try this. Do not stimulate him much before intercourse this may bring him very close and when he enters you it will only take a little -action- before that magic moment. You may try oral sex and have him ejaculate or give him a hand job until he does his thing. Give him some time to rest and start up foreplay and when you both are ready let him enter you and he will last a lot longer.

Do not try any creams that claim to make him last longer. They will numb him and the cream will get on you and will have the same effect. Do not make fun of him when this happens, it may keep you from having good sex. Also the place that you are having sex may have a lot to do with it. if you are in the back seat of a car or your parents are in another room and you are sneaking around trying not to be found, this will put a lot of mental pressure on him to finish and not be caught.
You are obviously WAY sexy. !
Tell to him prevent get serious when he doing with you.
Premature ejaculation? -

Does masturbation followed by ejaculation have serious consequences on ones future? -

Does masturbation followed by ejaculation have serious consequences on ones future? -

Nope theres not consequence....


It is not bad. But if you continue this, you may see your thing bending left or right!!!!!!!! Try to avoid this.
no
only the future of the sperm you put down the drain...LL just kidding, its actually good for you.
Nah
No it is very healthy and has no consequences of any kind.
none at all.
None what so ever. That-s the whole point of masturbating, to reach orgasm which is accompanied by ejaculation. However, the penis is not a muscle, so you cannot make it bigger. Also, it can give a curve to your penis, which gives it personality, and some girls find it charming. Tighter underwear can also cause curves, but there is no harm in a curve. So masturbate, ejaculate, clean up, and just plain out have fun.
doctors do not advise people to do it. because it may affect the real -doing- activity.
It-s actually healthy for you to masturbate .. so keep on spanking!
its good for you and may even make your penis larger since it is a muscle
Only impacts your future if you do it in public
it-s medically proven that masturbation is really good for you.



enjoy :)
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Thursday, August 2, 2007

Ejaculation.? -

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First Ejaculation...........................? -

First Ejaculation...........................? -

About 10 mins ago, i had my first ejaculation, i felt a tingle then all i knew white stuff was comming out, it felt great, but now it feels like i need to pee. is this normal?
Yes, the first time i thought i was going to pee all over the wall
FYI there-ll Never be another first time, no matter what
relax - enjoy from now on
- hey Matteo !

- congratulation little dude.
- Yes, it-s totally normal 2 wanna have a pee after U ejaculated.
- it-s the body-s way of cleaning out the left over semen in the urethra.
yes because when your having sex you block of the tube for going for a pee so that you can ejaculate (that also stops you peeing in a woman -shudders- that would be gross)
Wahay! Well done, youve just stepped on to the road to manhood. And yes peeing is the body-s way of cleaning the little tube where the sperm comes from.

Happy wanking!
Its normal dont worry, its ur first but not ur last, but trust me its get way better as you learn more techneques
Absolutely. Congratulations!
Congratulations!!!
Yeah ive been doing this for over a year.. and i ALWAYS have to pee after ejaculating:) hahaa have fuun
Congratulations :D!!!
yes its normal to need to pee afterward
yes it is :)

My partner always needs to pee after Ejaculation.
normal
Yes. Now go pee, silly. ^__^
yes many people feel like peeing after masturbation so that is normal just go and pee nothing is wrong with that
yup go wiz you earned it
LUCKY!!! I-m 12 and I really want it to happen soon. How old are you?
No, something went wrong.
You should see your doctor immediately!!!!
This is serious!
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Wednesday, August 1, 2007

I am 20 years old . my penis erects and i mastiubate but there i s no immediate ejaculation of semen.? -

I am 20 years old . my penis erects and i mastiubate but there i s no immediate ejaculation of semen.? -

Of course there is no immediate ejaculation, otherwise it would be referred to as premature ejaculation. You need to have sufficient stimulation before your orgasm comes then ejaculates. Otherwise its not called masturbation, it called -wet dream-.
Thank God, you don-t want it to be immediate.
Ok. Why would you want to ejaculate immediately? You would miss all the enjoyment of masterbation. It is not the end result, it is the entire game. Sounds like you don-t understand fully what masterbating is all about. Get some time alone and try to enjoy yourself.
I am 20 years old . my penis erects and i mastiubate but there i s no immediate ejaculation of semen.? -

How to prevent premature ejaculation? -

How to prevent premature ejaculation? -

practice masterbating, but before the -point of no return- (before you shoot) stop. wait till ya calm down a bit, and start again. repeat this as many times as you can before shooting. this will help you build up the stamina you need to keep on going. remember, practice makes perfect ;)


Very common problem. Try using cremes containing benzocaine or condoms lubricated with it. This is a anesthetic cream that numbs the skin of the penis and can help decrease sensation and make it easier to last longer.
Timing - Awareness
Experts agree that timing and reading the body-s signals are good ways to achieve longer lasting sex. Men have a tendency to let their instincts turn them into carnal zombies during sex, going from point A to Z without transition or thinking. Knowing when ejaculation is about to occur is vital to longer lasting sex. The old saying -think about something else- is a fallacy. Once you miss that peak, the game is over.

Men should not try to think about baseball, Janet Reno, or other unrelated things during sex; they should do the exact opposite by concentrating on every single feeling and signal the body is sending out during intercourse. Each man should recognize the feeling right before ejaculation. Once the feeling is identified, many tricks are available.

Squeeze Method
Most men only need to keep the aforementioned fact in mind, while others require special techniques. The squeeze method involves stopping stimulation and gently squeezing the base of the penis for about thirty seconds right before climax. It is a nice way of getting oneself accustomed to the feeling of ejaculation while stopping the orgasm right in its tracks. While often effective, it requires a temporary interruption in intercourse.

Stop - Start Technique
Stop and start resembles the squeeze method, except there is no squeezing involved. The subject simply stops stimulation before the climax. After about thirty seconds, the man resumes stimulation. Proper breathing is essential during this or any other ejaculatory control technique. This method takes practice and time to master, and also requires temporary interruptions of intercourse.
How to prevent premature ejaculation? -