Premature Ejaculation? -
I am 16 years old, and I currently masturbate about once a day. I have been for about 4 years now. By now, it takes me about 2 minutes to orgasm and ejaculate. I know enough to know that this is nowhere near long enough to satisfy a girl during sex. Is it possible that during actual sex, I will last longer? What can I do to help?
Masturbation leads to orgasm far faster than sex, remember, you know how to get yourself off faster than anyone ( as you-ve been at it for 4 years... bravo? :/ ) Ejaculation is caused primarily by heat generated via friction and thus if you take it slow with a girl, you-ll both have an awesome (and way more romantic) time instead of romping like a rabbit. Also, your hand provides pressure you don-t normally experience when having sex.
Bottom line: you should be thinking about exams more and less about how long you-ll last. XD
Hi,
There are several reasons of premature ejaculation:
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psychological factors (depression, stress, feeling of guilt, low self-rating, excessive nervousness owing to sex)
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diseases (problems with thyroid gland, prostate infective diseases, changing of level of particular hormones and substances produced by brain).
Premature ejaculation of young people is connected with inexperience (they do not know yet their body very well). Some men have premature ejaculation as a result of erectile dysfunction.
The main method of treatment is psychological, sexual, pharmacological therapy. In some cases helps the only one way of treatment, in other cases it necessary to use them in complex.
Psychological therapy.
Speaking with psychologist often can be very useful. Patient can come to consult the doctor along with his partner. Specialist will help to release stress and to improve quality of sexual life.
Sexual therapy.
There are some exercises that help to learn to delay ejaculation, that can be done alone or with the partner.
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Compression method. Partner stimulates your penis with her hand until his erection. When she feels that ejaculation is coming she compresses penis head for several seconds. Erection is coming down partially. In 30 seconds partner stimulates penis again. It should be repeated several times and finally ends with ejaculation.
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Interrupter method. Partner stimulates penis until ejaculation. At this moment she stops stimulation and waits until the man cools down. Then again she starts to eat penis with her hands. It repeats until ejaculation.
Pharmacological therapy.
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Antidepressants. Drug side effect of some medicines belonging to that group (paroxetine, flouxetine) is orgasm delay. That is why they can be used on doctor’s orders to treat premature ejaculation. If those medicines do not help then doctor prescribes another type of antidepressant called clomipramine.
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Creams containing local anesthetic (for example, lidocaine) are used for many years to treat premature ejaculation. Cream application on head of penis opiates sensation and delays ejaculation. Before sex cream should be washed off to avoid its contact with woman’s genital organs.
Through frequent masturbation you could, unknowingly, be training yourself to ejaculate quickly. However, this can all be reversed by training yourself to take your time. You can also learn to read your own body and you can train yourself to stop before you reach -the point of no return.- This stop and go method is quite common and can help improve your endurance in the bedroom.
you have nothing to worry about, most guys when they jack off just go ape **** and go as fast as they can move their arm, i rather doubt you can thrust that fast. So you-ll last waaaayyyyy longer than you think, and if it is still a problem just jack off before-hand so you-ll last longer
You-ll last longer in sex.
When a guy or girl masturbates, they know what they like so they go for it, resulting in orgasm in about 2-3 minutes.
In sex it-s about 10-20 minutes, depending on how sensitive you are.
that-s not premature ejaculation. That-s just you being so horny that it doesnt take long for you to bust a nut.
When you finally find a woman, beat off before you go out with her. Then when you have sex you-ll last longer.
I think that it will take a little while for you to learn how to last longer and you-ll need actual experience to do that.
You can do magical things to yourself. Wait til you have sex to see if you can-t last long enough. Masturbation will tell you nothing really. Hint though :too much masturbation can lead to PE
its just one of those thing that you will get better at with experience
first you have to increase to three times a day... this will get your body used to experiences like this. or you could try to edge....
Premature Ejaculation? -